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Dealing with the ex wife is so frustrating

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I have been Divorced for a couple of years now after my ex wife decided she wanted to be alone, start a new life and be totally independent.... which in actual fact was a lie because she now lives with a man who was previously a very, very good friend of mine.  How blind and stupid was I?  You see it's not just men that cheat - women are totally capable of adultery as well.  After a few miscellaneous girlfriends I have finally found a decent, honest girl (yes there are actually some out there!) with whom I am happy. Good for me!  My children who are aged 16 and 10 both get on with her very well, particularly my youngest daughter.

My ex wife has always been tricky to deal with.  After the break up she basically took me for everything more or less, and this was due to me trying to do the best thing for my kids.  She has lied her rear end off at every opportunity and as you'd expect, the lies has come out into the open now through natural events.

Wedding rings, broken marriage communication - now by message from the kids

My major gripe now is the spiteful games she is playing. She treats me like I was the one who ran off with HER friend.  She is awkward and difficult at every turn when dealing with arrangements for our kids.  Our communication is now so low that it is now only by text message or a message from one of the kids.  It feels like she controls my life and I'm paying her for the privilege!  The frustration I feel is massive!

The law in this country is so one sided when it comes to parents and kids.  My ex wife has not worked for years spends money like water on a shallow life style which she is trying to impart onto the kids (this difference in parenting styles adds to my frustration). Perhaps I may sound a little bitter and twisted?  Yes I most certainly am!  But I need to get out of this downward spiral as it is consuming me.  Does anyone else out there have an ex wife like this?

By: OrangePeel


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Oi

Oi

How's the spammer baiting going - that was quite amusing....
14/06/13 Oi
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STELLA

STELLA

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09/06/13 STELLA
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Friday Lunchtime

Friday Lunchtime

Why do you keep advertising the services of these lowlife thieving Nigerian scum who make money by stealing from the mentally deficient?
31/05/13 Friday Lunchtime
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Friday Lunchtime

Friday Lunchtime

Ebay have banned advertising and sales for these lowlife Nigerian scum and their 'potions' and 'spells'. A good move.
29/05/13 Friday Lunchtime
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Friday Lunchtime

Friday Lunchtime

Here's what I got in response to telling him he is a scammer and a thief :

"no one have ever had the got to insult me online i will show you that
i am not what you think be ready to face what will happen to you. then
there will be no one to beg for you i will show you that all that you
have heard of me is true i make thing to go around for people but i
also know how to turn ones destiny i will show you that not all that
you see online you will insult get ready to face the great tragedy
that will before you.........................

you will know that alfa kazim has visited your home"
18/04/13 Friday Lunchtime
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Friday Lunchtime

Friday Lunchtime

no one have ever had the got to insult me online i will show you that
Here's what I got when I told he is a scammer and a thief :

"i am not what you think be ready to face what will happen to you. then
there will be no one to beg for you i will show you that all that you
have heard of me is true i make thing to go around for people but i
also know how to turn ones destiny i will show you that not all that
you see online you will insult get ready to face the great tragedy
that will before you.........................

you will know that alfa kazim has visited your home"
18/04/13 Friday Lunchtime
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Friday Lunchtime.

Friday Lunchtime.

I'm a bit disappointed really. I fired off some emails earlier today, nice friendly stuff about their ancestors, what they do with animals, and questioning in a very delicate way their ethics, all very polite, and having been out for a few hours expected to come back and find death threats, curses, and so on, but so far nothing worth posting.

I have sent them fake WU transfers and they have been wasting their time going to the offices with wrong or illegible numbers. Now I have accused them of stealing money.

Nigerian scammers of all types are the scum of the earth.
17/04/13 Friday Lunchtime.
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grumpyoldwoman

grumpyoldwoman

Seconded after boblet!

Keep us posted.
17/04/13 grumpyoldwoman
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boblet

boblet

Wind him up F.L. they are as thick as pig shlt but think they are smart. It must be due to some folk falling for their line, anyway keep playing the game, the stupid tw@t will realise in the end then you can have a real laugh.
17/04/13 boblet
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Friday Lunchtime

Friday Lunchtime

I'll take the risk! I've just sent them emails telling them that Western Union say they have picked up the money I sent and that they are liars and scammers. Now we will see the abuse.
17/04/13 Friday Lunchtime
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boblet

boblet

F.L. Last year I was advertising my canal boat for sale, what fun I had with scammers. I gave them the bank details of Rosie & Jim, What a laugh we had.
16/04/13 boblet
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Friday Lunchtime

Friday Lunchtime

Another scammer. Or the amoeba who has been scammed by one.
15/04/13 Friday Lunchtime
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Friday Lunchtime

These thieving filthy Nigerian scum are about to exposed for what they are - scammers and thieves.
14/04/13 Friday Lunchtime
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Jethro

Jethro

FL, Scammers exist from the top to the bottom of society, ie.. Bankers to cowboy builders and politicians. The only way to eliminate their crimes is to make the punishments when proved guilty so hard it will make the would be thieves and liars think twice. The trouble with the UK is the do-gooders and human rightists( get rid of them first) and we might see an improvment.
12/04/13 Jethro
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Friday Lunchtime

Friday Lunchtime

What I find so utterly loathsome and despicable about them is that they prey on the desperate and the lonely, usually people from the strata of society who can least afford to lose money to scammers.
12/04/13 Friday Lunchtime
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