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My gripe is that men are weak and I despise the chat rooms they seem to find irresistible. They would rather flirt with some tart in a chat room online than face up to their responsibilities. I've found out recently that my supposedly devoted husband of 13 years was visiting adult sites on a hourly basis and also gambling thousands of pounds on some stupid game or horse. Money which we did not have. I trusted him and he's destroyed our marriage.
He was supposedly working from home and apparently too busy to even put a cup away. In fact he was a lazy, conniving fool. I am devastated and thought I could trust him. It wouldn't surprise me if he's been with other women during this time. I don't know who he is anymore. I loathe him now. He is just a low life sleaze bag.
Men should endeavour to tell the truth (women who cheat should too). I've had to resort to hiring a private detective to find out the truth behind my husband's lying ways. When they spend hours and hours on the computer in chat rooms, ignore you, do nothing to help out, cling to their mobile phones, exercise and take an interest in their appearance - you know they're lying but don't quite dare to admit it to yourself. I married a fool and now he is going lose everything because of his actions. I have all the proof and I am going to take him for every single penny. Oh yes, how does he feel now, is he's sorry I wonder?
Why didn't I see it the first time when a message from someone called Claire sent him all her love? She wanted to know why he hadn't sent her a text lately etc. I still don't know the truth about her. Well they can have each other. He has shown little respect for me or my child. All he wanted to do was satisfy some little fantasy of his. So some woman has caught his eye and he's throwing money around, our money, the money that I worked hard for too!
For this reason I loathe chat rooms and at the moment I loathe men.
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Why did he do what he did? He did what he did because he was lazy and reckless and attracted to sleaze. I've looked in the mirror and what I see is a decent, loving person. I don't need to take him to the cleaners - the money invested in the home was mine in the first place. He was just a parasite. I've learnt my lesson before I get involved with a man I will have him checked out thoroughly. He turned out to be the biggest mistake of my life.
It's time for women to take responsibility for their actions, if a woman doesn't take responsibility she is bound to repeat her mistakes and end up in the same situation again and again. And I don't mean vowing to never get married again, I mean identifying what qualities you look for in a man and figuring out what is flawed in those prerequisites. I do feel bad for you, and I know that you will need a time to grieve for what has transpired, however when that's all said and done I hope that you learn from your mistakes so you can have a happier future.
There are some serious woman haters too and not just on the net. Try making a point without swearing next time.
Freedom