Why are English people so cold and unfriendly?

Blame the Roman Empire.

Because they post crap like this and bash us instead of actually travelling all of England, Scotland, Wales and Northern Ireland and meeting each person for who they are.
You'll find actually most British people are kind, democratic, religious, open minded, helpful, polite, well spoken, intelligent, good sense of humour, mindful and very decent people to be friends with and have unique cultures, rich countryside, and amazing history field with people from all sides of the world. We hate injustice, we hate genocide, we hate crimes against humanity and we hate anything that harms children or animals so if that's your definition of rude, cold and nasty then it is no wonder people here show you a lack of respect you don't deserve it.
When you categorise an entire nation with a massive diverse population filled with millions of different personalities you are just inviting us to dislike you. The title alonenis cold and unsure so practice what you preach before you judge and entire nation.
Its like saying all Muslims are terrorists or all Americans shoot people or all blacks are thrives you're stereotyping without getting to know the wider population and now wandering why people are rude to you. Thats why.
If I randomly bumped into you in London and you just threw that question at me my first thought would be toxic racist and if walknoff and dismiss you.

I don't think its fair to slap a label on our home when there's millions of good, hard working, honest, loving people here.
I'm a good person none the less I don't just bow to stereotypical nonsense.
You say we're rude and disrespectful. Should have a little look in the mirror and read what you said.

I have been invited into the house of an English local. I appreciated it. We grew apart since. I had a very nice English landlord as well. But I know what the original poster means and how she is feeling because I have had very many experiences to feel the same. The English have to realise that they are just one nation among the many. Maybe they will realise one day they can learn things from others? I never had the chance to work together with educated English people, so I wish I knew how they think about this topic.

In my experience, the English are probably the most miserable and unfriendly people in western Europe.
Especially in the home counties, and particularly London.
And I have visited many European countries, as well as living for a while in Spain.
They have a completely unwarranted superiority complex, when the truth is that their country has completely gone to the dogs.
Time for a little long overdue humility maybe?
They tend to be aloof, arrogant exceptionlists. Not all of them are like this, and the northerners and the Scots are nothing like as bad.

Dear Andypandy,
Thank you for posting your question. As a foreign female from a colder area of the globe I thought my answer might be somewhat helpful.
First of all, as a very suspicious person by nature, I wonder if you are actively trolling us here. In case you are not a troll, I, as a foreigner, would like to share with you my own experience with Britons (English and Scottish, mostly). I had a case when an English lady told me off for being too stand-offish. I had an experience when an English girl lost her temper because I wouldn't reveal any personal information. In Scotland they are pretty much pi..ed off by mee too. The proud Scots (mostly men) keep telling me to smile and think I am grumpy. (In fact, I am quite happy overall). They called me a "snob" – many, many times. (I have no idea why. Maybe because I listen to classic music and refuse to put up with rap? Maybe because I refuse to watch the X-Factor)? When Britons try to strike a friendship with me, I secretly question their motives. "What do they want from me"? As an introvert I declined quite a few invitations because I'd rather stay at home and create my artworks. So how can I, a true, hard boiled Ice Queen complain about Britons being cold? I feel rather comfortable with them. They, mostly, mind their own business. I even love some of them (secretly, of course). The only times I feel uncomfortable around Brits (Scottish or English) is when they automatically assume that I am Polish. (And no, I am not, and I have never been anywhere near Poland in my dear life). But then again, Spaniards do exactly the same. They called me "una Polaca" which is very annoying.
Kind regards,
The Ice Queen

If you don’t like us you know where the door is

P,s, I wish some of these people would pick-up a descent history book and read it. May I suggest you start pre-the birth of Christ and look at the amazing Persians. It was thanks to them that we still have the works of Socrates. I can sympathise with the feelings of native English people, they have been overwhelmed by migrants that the taxpayers can’t afford. However, if I was Spanish, I would hate the English. They have turned up in their country, demanded eggs and bacon, brought all the houses as holiday homes, and are basically arrogant and insensitive. If you are reading this and are not happy about the migrants that have arrived in England, spare a thought for Costa Del Soul. By the way, I am English and find most UK holidaymakers overseas embarrassing. Bovine unattractive and rude. You can’t complain about migrants and then go and shit in everyone else is country when on holiday.

Lol, I am a English lady who left for Sydney Australia aged 19. I came on a working visa and feel in love with the place. Australians thought I was ‘cold fish’ and it took me years to overcome my reserved nature and start smiling at people I don’t know, and even saying Hi. Every time I come back to England I am struck by how cold people are. I walk into a shop and smile and say hello, and get that “ I’ll know it’s another happy Australian “. Speaking from the position of an English born person, it’s generational. It is in our culture not to add your dirty linen, and being too friendly is seen as insincerity, or worse still American. As for not excepting foreigners, I think that is so in trenched in our culture, that nobody is aware they are doing it. England is the most warlike nation on earth. We pretend to be the centre of civilisation yet no country has a track record of invasions like we do. We have historically surpassed the Romans. You cannot produce millions of mindless fighters without making them believe in the superiority of their country and culture. This cannot be wiped in a few generations. In addition, I feel that the governments have tried to overcompensate by being a little bit too multicultural, without considering the feelings of the natives. There was a lot of resentment about new arrivals getting housing and Benifits who never paid taxes, while others were sitting on the waiting list with no hope of a home. The country cannot afford the amount of migrants that are arriving, And it has caused it deep resentment. Public-housing has got so bad it’s third world. Look at that block that that burnt down. The tragedy was that they were the lucky ones that got housed. Being overly politically correct and understanding towards certain migrants has caused ghettos. In some parts of England the signposts are in foreign languages and people were native feel pushed out and resentful. Children of other religions go to separate schools and that causes the divisions as adults. There has been little attempt by the government to encourage simulation because of political correctness. This of course is only one side of the story, but it is one that I am qualified to offer. I’m not impressed by it either, hence I live in Australia. The thing that I am most disgusted by is the class system. It has nothing to do with how much money you earn, but what school you went to. Once you are working class you will always be working class, and people with Twinkie accents really do believe that the blood is of a higher quality. They think it’s okay to look at you like some think they found between their toes. When they do that to me in England I stare them down. It really is disgusting.
Liz

I’m an Englishman and my experience with British people is very mixed. In my work in the construction industry I seem to attract a certain degree of uncomfortable ridicule on a regular basis...lots of people are quite cold with me too.

I think the main issue for me is that I speak with a posh accent (that basically means I sound middle class) but am working class. Also, I don’t care for football (aka soccer). I’m a polite and softly spoken person too. These kinds of things have led to me not fitting in, some people aren’t particularly kind and they openly ridicule me in front of other people. Some people say it’s just banter but it’s unkind and disrespectful and undermines me in several ways. I often feel embarrassed, uncomfortable and upset...and the people who do this to me simply do not care for my feelings.

Outside of work I find people who are middle classed are a little friendlier to me. I’m sure that if I loved lager and getting drink a lot, liked going on holiday to Blackpool and Benidorm, spoke with a more regional accent and followed West Brom FC I’d be better off with working class people.

Also, I’ve lived in a few different parts of England and people in Derbyshire seem to be the most racist/unwelcoming of strangers, but that’s just my personal experience and it’s with people who are usually 40 or 50+.

YES JAPANESE ARE THE COLDEST IN THIS WORLD!!!
NEVER COME BACK HERE AND DIE YOU ALL BY THE STUPID COVID!!!

Bugger off

I am British born and have many friends from all over the world, my husband was also born abroad and has been here for nearly 20 years and has many english friends.
Try living in Spain - that is real racism - took parents at my child’s school 3 years to even say hello to me! I would say hi to them and invite them to the park but they would never come, only the other foreigners spoke to me!

I live in London so maybe smaller towns in the UK are not as open minded as London ???

True

I am British and have lived in five different British cities and also lived in Germany, France and Italy for seven years as I worked for an international business. I would say the British are much more reserved than German people who are very friendly. Italians are about the same as the British, the French are colder than the British though. In Britain class decides nearly everything and if you’re a well educated foreigner most working class British people will ignore you.

Hey nick. The big difference is your own people have done that to you, not anyone else. But, like a typical Englishman, you will always blame a foreigner instead of your own people. Lost, utterly lost.