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Nosiy neighbours and poor sound insulation

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Well, following yet another sleepless night, I thought I'd ask the rest of you, am I the only one with annoying, irritating noisy neighbours?

The couple upstairs spend most of their time arguing - with liberal use of the 'f word' and the 'c' word, come to that.  I can hear everything and am quite tempted to join in at times.  Plus, their eating times are totally out of synch with the rest of the UK and lunch is at 8 pm with dinner at 2 in the morning.  All the smells of burnt fish and stew drift downstairs and through my window. It wouldn't be so bad if they could actually cook but if it's not burnt, it's fried with rancid oil.

The other, really stupid thing is their 'keep fit programme' - jumping up and down at 2 or 3 in the morning.  My ceiling feels like it's going to cave in.  It sounds like they've got a lot of equipment in there.  I think it's keep fit they're doing, anyway!

I realise that the real problem is that buildings aren't properly insulated - you can hear a pin drop - literally.  Every little sound is transmitted and reverberates around my flat.  I thought there were supposed to be codes about things like that.  Does anyone know about building standards?  Anyway, I'm off for a walk now in the snow - to get away from the crazy neighbours... 

Sleepless in Southampton

I'd like to gripe about poor sound insulation in new houses.  Having recently managed to buy a small flat at a reasonable price, I was delighted to be able to move in.  The place looks great and is handy for shopping, schools and so on.  The only problem is the noise.  I can literally hear the highlights of my neighbours life.  The next door neighbours, that is.

Ear defenders - noisy neighbours and poor sound insulation It's not just footsteps (which sound like someone is moving the furniture around) but all the little things like someone having a pee in the bathroom!  Well, I think it's in the bathroom.  Sounds like it's right next door in the living room.  And I don't even want to go into details about 'nighttime activities'.

It's really bad.  I can even hear the extractor fans going in the bathrooms and kitchens, people sneezing and using pots and pans in the kitchen.  The thing is, if I can hear them, then they can hear me as well.  Which means that I think twice about having a loud conversation on the phone.

What on earth has happened to building regulations and why is the sound insulation on modern buildings so poor?  Do they ever check anything?  I'm really fed up with this and I'm starting to think about moving already. 

Not such a bargain after all!


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Pedro

Pedro

Door slammers, why oh why oh why. Hit the nail on the head Mr Stalag. Begs belief, it only takes a couple of seconds to hold a door to. Amazes me as well when people in my block are slamming there own doors with all the strength they can muster.

I've had to speak to the Girl downstairs from me (her living room is under my bedroom) about the noise on a few occasions. I've hated doing this but when it's a School night and either the music's blaring or the tv is on the volume level of a ninety year old's hearing, I felt I had no choice. Both times I've been reasonable and polite, never aggressive or abusive and certainly never sworn. However, last night, here we go again. I shouldn't have to move because my Neighbours couldn't careless, that's just not fair but I'm starting to feel I have no choice.
29/08/12 Pedro
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miserablemoaningit

miserablemoaningit

Look at all the rubbish houses that are being built. High density rubbish, right to the edge of pavements, terraced houses 3 stories or more high, look like one house but actually will be 3 apartments stacked on top of each other. In every town and city I go to now, they are being built. You'll know what I mean.

Plaster board walls, tiny postage stamp bedrooms in which the largest can hardly fit a double bed, never mind a wardrobe etc. No proper storage space. No space to put bins except under the windows on the street. Narrow roads on the estates.

People being driven insane by poor noise insulation? You've seen nothing yet! This problem is going to escalate exponentially.
18/05/12 miserablemoaningit
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Stalag 14

Stalag 14

Door slammers,(why?)
tv on full blast,
musak on full blast,
all night ravers,
up all night then all day in bed,(Dossers)
trampolines in garden,
noisy barbeques.

I have experienced the lot and the only way to get away from them is to live in a caravan in the middle of a field! or live on a canal boat (I wish)
14/05/12 Stalag 14
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Kelvin

Kelvin

I have lived in two new build flats and one conversion. Have to say as far as noise from neighbouring flats go, the conversion beat the others hands down... I'm in a new build flat at the moment and can hear my neighbour peeing as I type this.... oh yes there he goes slamming his door again !. I think because the conversion had to meet strict guidlines, the sound proofing was far better.... Will go for another conversion deffinately !
13/05/12 Kelvin
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Carrot

Carrot

Jax ,

I think most councils insist that people in upstairs flats get their permission to install hard flooring in any room except bathroom or kitchen because of the noise. Usually they make the tenant or leaseholder either install proper insulation under the flooring or replace it with carpet.

It is worth your while finding out if this is the case where you live.
08/05/11 Carrot
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Jax

Jax

I had party animal neighbors that boom boom boomed for days and nights on end, l was suicidle, the landlord didn't care, and l couldn't afford soundproofing. Now in a council flat l hear the neighbors toddler running around bang bang bang, and them laughing and talking, luckily no arguing, but l'm going nuts with it. Wonderong if l can get the council to fork out for soundproofing. I think not.
08/05/11 Jax
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Cheerful Robert

Cheerful Robert

You sound as if they and you and the new wooden floors down, sorry but its uncorrectable, the best you can hope for is they and you put carpets on top of it.

Sound insulation does not exist - its an modern house problem all over the UK., I should know I'm an sound-engineer, paid to improve sound insulation. Take it from me nothing works other thaN filling the space under the floorboards with dry-sand which is impractical, or lining your floor with 1/4" lead plate, which can be done but who wants the expense of that. Sorry, you'll have to move. if your 45, and fairly attractive I 'm willing to meet up and give other and better advice, 55 maybe, over 65, please post full details of your great wealth and generosity t0 semi-retired sound insulation engineers. .
13/04/11 Cheerful Robert
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Miss Grimreaper

Miss Grimreaper

ive just moved into a flat the first time in my life its a new development in Newcastle its been well talked about how up market it is and how much money has been spent on nothing but the best but I really think they,ve forgot to spend some cash on sound proofing anyway im grateful just to have a roof over my head so although there is definatly things I dont wish to hear from my nieghbours like nighttime activities (just because im jelouse lol) there does have to be some give and take you cant excpect complete silence living in a flat.Id rather have noisy nieghbours than living on the streets.
28/03/11 Miss Grimreaper
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man on a mission

man on a mission

how can I be a noise nuisance, when my walls are like paper want me gone for just living I should live like you right because your so perfect who the fudge are you to judge you sad acts get a life you think that your gonna live forever lifes not fair diddums poor you, you want peace and quiet life get a house in the country with no neighbours what do you expect from a terraced house or a flat are you dumb
28/03/11 man on a mission
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sleepyhead

sleepyhead

I can hear my neighbours too every friday night they kick up a drinking party with their friends and talk to the highest level they can muster up. wish there was something I could do and don't even mention the bathroom extraction what's worse is that we live in a house and it's the house that connects to the back of ours!! And I have a 5 month old
04/03/11 sleepyhead
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Gemma

Gemma

Sam (if you read this) - I also live in a Taylor Wimpey Flat and I have had the same problem with the flat above mine. I was also told by the Company that the sound proofing passed the required regulatory test. However the materials they have used seem to create an echo when anyone steps too heavily on the flooring above . I am also convinced that there are holes between my flat and the flat above that transfers noise. Thicker boarding or lowering the ceiling and a little more care would have probably made a vast difference.
28/02/11 Gemma
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Boblet

Boblet

Older house have somtimes have vent bricks fitted during remodernisation. When I first moved to where I live now I used to hear a tapping on the wall, so I tapped back, It could only have been one of the young children who live next door, I never tried or wanted to find out who. but there is a vent brick sometimes they are used to ventilate between the joists & floor boards to prevent rot.
17/02/11 Boblet
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kingvidor

kingvidor

I live in 1928 terrace house and while solidly built with brick cavity I can on occasions still hear my neighbours phone, talking on the phone and a cat miaowing. The only thing I can think is that the noise has increased due to them having new laminate flooring with no carpets and skimed walls without wall paper.
17/02/11 kingvidor
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NoNeedForName

NoNeedForName

I've had exacty the same problems as many have stated here. I live in a ground floor maisonette with a neighbour one side and one above. The neighbours to the side own their property so have been there the whole 3 years I have lived here. The ones above unfortunately have changed 3 times and every one was worse than the last. All of the couples (with varying ages of children from new born to 6 years) were unemployed so were able to stay up till all hours and then sleep during the day when I was crawling into work due to no sleep. They all used to fight and use every swear word under the sun. I would listen to them stomping about and the kids crying and would often end up crying myself. When I tried to speak to the first lot about the noise I got a load of abuse (they were drunk) and the noise increased). The second time he tried to phsically assault me and the police were called. I suffer from bipolar and borderline personality disorder and at times I have been suicidal due to the noise. I have had police to my flat numerous times, the council noise abatement, the upstairs landlord numerous times and have tried everything to keep the peace. All to no avail. I have been on the council waiting list for a year because, although I earn well, the prices of properties in my area are so high I can't afford them and due to my poor credit history I can't enter a home share scheme.
01/12/10 NoNeedForName
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Site Admin

Site Admin

Sorry, bug in the URL parser, it's case insensitive. For now just copy and paste the link and that will work fine.
01/12/10 Site Admin
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