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Some time ago I wrote a story about how the CSA made me guilty until proven innocent. It is now two years on and I have had just about enough of the situation.
A fair number of you literally thought I was evil because I said that the problem is her fault and not mine. Well I decided to take your advice people. I went to the CSA and said I want a DNA paternity test so I will know for sure whether or not I am the father. Maybe then I could have some sort of normality back in my life and perhaps be a father to a child (because society makes you?)
Two years later and about 40 plus letters - still no solution. To really top it all off the CSA have given my details out to the PWC (parent with care); my address, telephone number, even my place of work and current salary. The PWC has contacted me and called me all the names under the sun; she said I'm just stalling the CSA and telling them to stop bothering me. All this despite the fact that all the letters I have sent have merely said that I want a DNA test as soon as possible. Not once have I stalled them or used stalling tactics - I JUST want a DNA test!
The CSA has also demanded that I pay £3,000 one month, then £4,000 to be paid in 7 days or it will effect my credit rating and my home maybe repossessed.
Even after many pointless conversations and complaints, the CSA still won't listen and still won't help in resolving the matter. I have done everything in my power to sort out the issue, going to court is the last option and one I really don't like the sound of.
I have actually moved home out of safety concerns for myself and my family. As I said in my previous story, I don't know this girl, she appears to be hell bent on lying to the CSA and maybe she is the root of the problem?
It doesn't matter what you do, run and hide, or hit them head on with all the advice and morality in the world; you're still treated like a criminal, you're still fighting a ghost and a faceless system! The child isn't even going to be three this year and I can just see him turning thirteen before this problem is ever resolved.
By: thefox01
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I do payroll for a small company and am not registered with either of the bodies you mention. (Never heard of them!) But I do know my employers would get hit with a fine if we refused to supply the CSA with info it asked for. We would also get fined if we didn't make the deductions and send them on. No choice I'm afraid!
We have the Citizens Advice Bureau, a Government Agency who are not legally qualified, who are stake holders of the CSA. Ever wonder why you don’t get much help from them?
Now you understand why Solicitors will not get involved when dealing with the CSA, except if they are working for the CSA. This also explains why the Courts always rule in favour of the CSA because the Law Society are stakeholders of the CSA, so there you have the proof of how the manipulation of the legal services works.
Ever wonder why employers just hand out your personal information and start just deducting funds from your private income? The chances are your employers payroll department will be registered with the The Institute of Payroll Professionals and or the Payroll Alliance, who are of course all stake holders of the CSA
This info came from dead beat dads website, who's info has been invaluable at helping me deal with my issues with the csa.
I dont feel any sympathy towards you. sorry but you need to actually stopped moaning about it online and sort it out
they do not give out personal details such as addresses. its called the data protection act.
Your exact detials of where you live work has no bearing on there case so they should not have disclosed this infomation.
Dave