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I have been with my partner for 6 years now. I love him very much and want to spend the rest of my life with him. The real problem I have though is his spoiled 14 year old daughter and the fact that we just don't get along.
She is spoiled, arrogant, rude, opinionated and has a real sense of entitlement. From day one I felt she was precocious. She goes to a very expensive school, is never disciplined and talks how she wants to people. If she wants anything, she gets it without having to earn it in anyway.
She talks about how rich she will be when she leaves education, how she will have an amazing career, life etc. Her father never gives her any sense of humility, he seems to be proud of the way she is. She's a real little princess, no doubt about it!
I have a son, but have always instilled manners into him. I have taught him that if he really wants something, he either works for it (he washed cars for a whole week to buy the latest phone he wanted), earns it or gets it for Birthday or Christmas. He is not a perfect teen (are any?), but he is polite, respectful and has humility. My partner's daughter on the other hand has none of these attributes.
It now has got to the stage where I can't stand to even be around her.
I have tried everything with her and have spoken to her dad about this, all to no avail. It now has got to the stage where I can't stand to even be around her and is effecting my relationship with my partner. I love him dearly, but can't see a future with him when his daughter is getting worse everyday. I am normally a very friendly person and can get along with most people, but I just can't get on with her at all. Is this what children have become, arrogant and selfish people with a massive sense of entitlement?
By: White Orchid
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Me and partner have 2 boys together and they barely get to spend time with grandparents due to the fact she lives with them and I cant help but feel that my kids are being pushed out because of her and she has always aggravated me and just gets in the way.
Me and my partner have basically stopped having dates out as a couple since we can barely get anyone to watch our 2 boys.
Me and my partner have 2 boys
I have a teen bitch wrecking my relationship too.
I am ending it soon because there must be nice women out there,who don't have that awfull baggage.
Kids these days can be evil and well aware of all the right tools to get what they want. Step parents are often the ones that need support and rarely get it.
I’m going to leave as soon as I can find a place.
Is this the right thing to do?
The final straw has just happened and now I don't know if we will be able to keep our relationship going after a huge argument his selfish little bitch of a daughter caused, I will explain, just to see if other people can relate to this......
It was her wedding on Saturday, her mother also has been with her partner for about 3-4 years, her mother's partner decided to pretend he was ill and did not attend the wedding, quite frankly, he really had the right idea.
I spent and absolute fortune on my attire, got ready and on the way downstairs I asked my partner where I needed to pick my corsage up from, to be told that one had not been purchased for me, well, that immediately caused me to be hurt, she clearly classed me as not part of the family. Then in the ceremony, she placed me near the back of the venue. The next thing was my partner and his ex was called to have their photos took, leaving me standing there, if it wasn't for my partner coming back to get me, I would have been only included in the group shots. Then the final straw was that they placed me on another table, not on the top table with my partner with my back towards the bride and groom, I was so upset - I thought, right you have placed me here and I kept my back towards them including whilst they were doing the speeches - and my partner thinks there was nothing wrong with that! Take some advice, never get with someone who has kids - I hate my life right now!
Over IT