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For those of you haven't heard of the Freecycle network, it's a collection of Yahoo Groups that aim to promote waste reduction by passing your unwanted stuff on to people that can use it rather than just tossing it in the bin. As the name says, the items must be given away freely with no intention of personal gain. The moderators enforce this policy strictly.
Freecycle is a good thing and it's all pretty straight forward. If you have something you don't want, then you post a message up on the board and wait for the responses. You then pick the most deserving individual and arrange a mutually agreeable collection time. Likewise, if something that takes your fancy you get in touch with the person offering the item and politely offer to take it off their hands. Notice the use of the word politely there.
That is basically the thing I find irritating about Freecycle. The people that give stuff away are okay (at least the ones that I have met), it's the rude and ungrateful "takers" that really annoy me. Whenever I have posted something up that I don't need, I have noticed that a fair number of people can't even be bothered to say "please" and "thank you". As soon as the message goes up you get swamped by replies that appear to be nothing more than hastily typed out text messages. Is it really that difficult to write a nice polite email with a reasonable standard of English? I usually wait until I received a number of emails before I decide who should get the item, there's usually at least one deserving soul.
Freecycle - greedy, selfish individuals?
Another thing I find frustrating are the ones that don't bother to turn up after agreeing to collect. Why do they do that? If you can't pick up in a reasonable time frame, don't bother to ask for it in the first place. Leave it for someone who REALLY wants it.
Finally, the real villain's are the greedy, selfish individuals who obviously can't comprehend what Freecycle is about. Rather than ask for things that they intend to use themselves, they go around picking up things that they think they can sell either on eBay or at car boot sales. These people should be ashamed of themselves.
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It def does take some trust on your part when you are visiting someone's house or they are coming to you. I have also had some very amazing offers, and replies to my 'wanted's' and are very grateful for the people that have given to me.
Well done for not wasting yet more of the Worlds resources. Of course I'm a bigot because I will continue to buy new, but Freecycling will allow the resource to last longer for people like me.
Being an 'offerer' I now wait for a while to see the responses, then pick one I feel is genuine. Yes, I too have found emails from certain people if I am the one 'wanting' I will send a polite email, with a 'thank you' or a 'kind regards' and leave it at that. Because of the way I word my emails more often than not I will be the one chosen. I don't get stuff to sell on etc., I only ask for something that is for personal use or someone I know would like or could do with that item.
I have found you will also get the serial 'sob story teller' who will bombard you with emails, like it is their right to have what you are offering and they are the only ones who should be entitled, but after a few emails they usually trip themselves up and you know the real reason for their emails. And yes, some are downright rude and it is like they are doing you such a huge favour for 'taking it off your hands'...!!
I too have had a few 'no shows' and people making up excuses as to why they can't make it after all. Overall the majority of experiences have been good and amazed at the things I have got. It also makes you feel good for helping others out and it helps you de-clutter, at your convenience.
The latest "Freecycle" is of course the local FOODBANK,
Give something away for nothing and you will soon have a crowd!
So we get the media going on about the starving children-workers-etc.
One Rag today stated that one in five of the population goes without food for lack of money.
Are we supposed to believe this krap?
A bit off topic.
I did Freecycle about three years ago and I gave away my belonging because I had to move house quickly and the number of people who emailed me pleading poverty yet turned up clutching state of the art phones and driving the latest model car was astounding.
Yes, they helped to clear my way but I felt deceived by them, and it would not have hurt them to have said thank you. The way I was treated, they might as well have been bailiffs.
I thought I'd give it another go, and so far I did have a few nice people but I've also been messed about. I just feel that manners and etiquette are no longer 'cool' and that it's become an entitlement culture. The freecycler in question requested winter clothing, I emailed her and found out she was an 18 year old student, so I thought 'poor girl, let's dig out some nice things'. I emailed her, to arrange a date and time, ok. Then something bothered me, I think it was something about a 'sent from my windows phone' and I had a little nose on the internet and found some interesting stuff on her twitter account.
I shouldn't judge, but if you are requesting winter clothing because money is tight, would you not be saving your money by not going out on benders, trying to decide which tattoo to have next and congratulating yourself on getting free stuff?
Anyway, I intended to uphold my side of the bargain despite my misgivings and waited. I am ill and need rest, and waited and sent her a message to ask where she was and she responded that she wasn't coming because she was ill. Now this was quite late afternoon after she'd already said she would be over after 3pm and unless I'd been in touch I'd probably would not have had any notification.
As it stands the bag of clothes now sits in the corridor and I'm just going to leave her contact me.
I will try the 2nd hand store that I got my fridge from originally but they are pricey for 2nd hand, almost as much as new.
There was an ad for a big fridge freezer in my local paper actually so I will try them and see if they will hold it and let me pay half and half until its cleared.
But thanks for the tip, Fed Up Pedestrian
I would not be ungrateful as it's something I actually need.
Sorry, this is not actually a begging letter to you gripers on here, just stating that I can't seem to find things on these sites as and when I need them.
Sazza