Why I loathe chat rooms and weak men
04-July-2009
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Why I loathe chat rooms and weak men

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My gripe is that men are weak and I despise the chat rooms they seem to find irresistible.  They would rather flirt with some tart in a chat room online than face up to their responsibilities.  I've found out recently that my supposedly devoted husband of 13 years was visiting adult sites on a hourly basis and also gambling thousands of pounds on some stupid game or horse.  Money which we did not have.  I trusted him and he's destroyed our marriage.

He was supposedly working from home and apparently too busy to even put a cup away.  In fact he was a lazy, conniving fool.  I am devastated and thought I could trust him.  It wouldn't surprise me if he's been with other women during this time.  I don't know who he is anymore.  I loathe him now.  He is just a low life sleaze bag.

Chat rooms

They spend hours and hours on the computer

Men should endeavour to tell the truth (women who cheat should too).  I've had to resort to hiring a private detective to find out the truth behind my husband's lying ways.  When they spend hours and hours on the computer in chat rooms, ignore you, do nothing to help out, cling to their mobile phones, exercise and take an interest in their appearance - you know they're lying but don't quite dare to admit it to yourself.  I married a fool and now he is going lose everything because of his actions.  I have all the proof and I am going to take him for every single penny.  Oh yes, how does he feel now, is he's sorry I wonder?

Why didn't I see it the first time when a message from someone called Claire sent him all her love?  She wanted to know why he hadn't sent her a text lately etc.  I still don't know the truth about her.  Well they can have each other.  He has shown little respect for me or my child.  All he wanted to do was satisfy some little fantasy of his.  So some woman has caught his eye and he's throwing money around, our money, the money that I worked hard for too!

For this reason I loathe chat rooms and at the moment I loathe men.


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I have to confess, Ricky's first post made me laugh - I took it as it was intended, a joke, although he's since admitted he's been hurt. Me too. Let's not get away from the subject. Broken trust can eat away at you for years. My daughter's nearly 17 and it still hurts like hell that her father cheated on me and I was left to bring her up alone from when she was a baby. All the hurt men and all the hurt women out there - if only we could get together, we'd realise we're all just vulnerable human beings and we all need a hug sometimes. It's a shame to mistrust the opposite sex. We've all been hurt, so we're all the same and shouldn't be getting at each other on this site. Support's what we need.
*Anita  19-Jun-2009 12:14

 
I wonder if Ricky applies his description of "all women" to his mother, sister, daughter, etc? Are they mad as snakes, too? Or are they some how exempt?
*An Observer  16-Jun-2009 17:21

 
Ricky obviously hates women but likes their food despite them being mad as snakes.

Interesting...conclusion: He's been hurt; ignored; can't stand strong women; actually hates them but can't do without them.
*Ricky hates women!  16-Jun-2009 14:55

 
"Generally women are the backbone of the home" : interesting assumption

"Hope you feel better about women eventually." : thanks but I'd rather have nothing to do with them... all as mad as snakes.
*Ricky  22-May-2009 10:26

 
Ricky, Ricky, Ricky, Ricky. Tut, tut, tut. Generally women are the backbone of the home and certainly there are some that are not. My mother supported us while my father drank and went out with lots of women. Likewise there are some good men, however, there are a great deal of rotten ones too. I have come to the conclusion that some men have a more selfish and devious nature and that's probably because the couple of men I've known on a serious level have turned out to be cheats and liars. It does make one bitter. I used to believe in love, however, I have become disillusioned and realise that some men are incapable of true love, loyalty etc. There are probably women out there who have also been stung like I have and feel just as hurt. It took me nearly 3 years to even discuss the heartache my partner caused me and I'm still seriously cut up. I have to accept what has happened and realise it was not my fault. It was the accepting part that took the time once I accepted it I have managed to get on with my life.

I'm not in the kitchen today. Poor, poor, you. Hope you feel better about women eventually. Honestly, no sarcasm intended.
*For poor Ricky  22-May-2009 10:08

 
Yes I can, typical 'poor me' attitude from women today.

Don't need a shrink - and I'm not IN the kitchen. That's YOUR place!
*Ricky  20-May-2009 10:49

 
Ricky you can't blame women for being annoyed at your comments they're simply not funny. I've been let down by the men in my life and understand how bitter you can get when you've been hurt badly. All I can say is that eventually you'll get over it.~'Boiling bones' what's that all about - are you a cannibal? And for the record why should you make comments about women belonging in the kitchen and when I make a joke about men being pets you get upset? If you can't take the heat get out of the kitchen! MikeP is just as bad I don't think he's got anything else to do but nit pick.
*A woman  20-May-2009 09:43

 
I am sorry about my previous comments. I am a repressed human being, I am a woman trapped inside a mans body and am only taking it out on other women because I cannot be who I really want to be I wholeheartedly apologise and shall release my anger out on crossdressers dot com instead, thankyou! Love MikeP has a small P
*MikeP  16-May-2009 20:36

 
Ricky - You make me laugh in all kinds of ways - you know about broken trust thanks to a woman! In your own words! So what are you up to now staging a one man show on this web page when men and women are coming on here to talk about broken trust which you say you have gone through yourself. Wouldnt ya think rather than coming on here slagging a load of people off who are obviously hurting and needing to let their anger out in some way.... that you should maybe consider anger management cos it seems like to me you have some unresolved issues!
*Ricky's Shrink  16-May-2009 20:24

 
A woman - no, actually I don't think I will because I'm not one of your obedient pets. I can see right through women like you and I know about broken trust - funnily enough thanks to a woman. Typical woman though, no sense of humour when you don't get your own way!
*Ricky  15-May-2009 14:52

 
Ricky - why don't you just sod off! You obviously only have one brain cell. Relationships are a minefield - when trust is broken in a relationship it causes hardship.

Men eh? Men are like animals; smelly, obedient; minute brains; sometimes violent and the obedient ones occasionally make good pets.
*A woman  14-May-2009 20:28

 
Women eh?

You can't live with them, but you can't chop them to pieces and boil their bones either...

because that's cooking - and it's THEIR job!
*Ricky  12-May-2009 13:21


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