Why I loathe chat rooms and weak men
19-March-2010
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My gripe is that men are weak and I despise the chat rooms they seem to find irresistible.  They would rather flirt with some tart in a chat room online than face up to their responsibilities.  I've found out recently that my supposedly devoted husband of 13 years was visiting adult sites on a hourly basis and also gambling thousands of pounds on some stupid game or horse.  Money which we did not have.  I trusted him and he's destroyed our marriage.

He was supposedly working from home and apparently too busy to even put a cup away.  In fact he was a lazy, conniving fool.  I am devastated and thought I could trust him.  It wouldn't surprise me if he's been with other women during this time.  I don't know who he is anymore.  I loathe him now.  He is just a low life sleaze bag.

www.oldflirt.co.uk

Men should endeavour to tell the truth (women who cheat should too).  I've had to resort to hiring a private detective to find out the truth behind my husband's lying ways.  When they spend hours and hours on the computer in chat rooms, ignore you, do nothing to help out, cling to their mobile phones, exercise and take an interest in their appearance - you know they're lying but don't quite dare to admit it to yourself.  I married a fool and now he is going lose everything because of his actions.  I have all the proof and I am going to take him for every single penny.  Oh yes, how does he feel now, is he's sorry I wonder?

Chat rooms

Why didn't I see it the first time when a message from someone called Claire sent him all her love?  She wanted to know why he hadn't sent her a text lately etc.  I still don't know the truth about her.  Well they can have each other.  He has shown little respect for me or my child.  All he wanted to do was satisfy some little fantasy of his.  So some woman has caught his eye and he's throwing money around, our money, the money that I worked hard for too!

For this reason I loathe chat rooms and at the moment I loathe men.


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I think the biggest pigs of them all are the ones that cheat on their wives when they are pregnant. Seriously, get a grip on your compulsions and try to be a man just for a little while. My daughter will grow up and eventually wonder what happened in the first year of her life. She'll be able to see the trashy pictures of his girlfriend Candy Eileen Perez posted all over the web. Candy, you make all us women so proud. NOT.
*freedom  19-Dec-2009 00:26

 
meh, LoL I really enjoyed your coment below LoL it is just like that eminem song LoL would the real mikep please stand up! soooooooooo funny LoL.
*Moaning Minnie  28-Sep-2009 09:15

 
Would the real MikeP please stand up! Like we fell for it, fake MikeP. I was copied on here and had to change my name a couple of months ago. It's easy to tell from a person's posting whether or not they are an impersonator of the person they are impersonating! I really don't know why anyone would bother though, too much time on their hands.
*meh.  28-Sep-2009 00:56

 
I'm a bit reluctant to post my number here, gow, I might get the bumchum brigade calling me, not to mention the likes of 'Hickhead' and 'listen to me now', who are clearly obsessed with me and watch avidly for my postings. I'm afraid we'll have to continue to live with our 'virtual' relationship, but at least now you know what I look like.
*MikeP  27-Sep-2009 15:00

 
Phwoarr, MikeP, you're a fine figure of a man, so you are! Give us your phone number!
*grumpyoldwoman  27-Sep-2009 12:30

 
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v488/Omark44/chatroom.jpg

Sorry, seems the link doesn't work. Trying again.

You might need to cut and paste it rather than just clicking on it.
*MikeP  27-Sep-2009 12:19

 
I thought some of you might like to see a photo of me.

I'm goodlooking, in my thirties, work out 5 times a week, athletic build, take good care of my appearance, dress smartly, but I can't seem to find a girlfriend. I drive a Lamborghini and I have a Cessna which I fly for fun at weekends. I work in the City and earn a huge salary, I'm embarassed to say how much but it's well into in 6 figures.

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v488/Omark44/chatroom.jpg
*MikeP  27-Sep-2009 12:17

 
Hey Wise yin
In fact my husband took every penny I earned. He was too busy spending a thousand pounds a day (that we didn't have) gambling on some horse. I was there for him every step of the way. He just hasn't got any backbone. Convict him - you have no idea...the lies he told me were numerous. I was a faithful, loyal and committed to him 100%. I've never been so gutted in my whole life as to have to hire a detective to find out what a sleaze he was. Money... most of it is with William Hill or some woman he spent the night with and lied about working late. I got the odd treat but what he did was unfair.......- every bit of equity has been swallowed up by his debts due and his cyber life.
I am happy because I know that I was a good wife and he knows I was a good wife but he wanted to have his cake and eat it and I'm not tarnished by his sicko lifestyle.
*I loathe chat rooms  17-Sep-2009 19:28

 
I hope that taking him for every penny makes you happy when you are at home at night alone, you can hug all those ten pound notes instead.

Maybe you should have worked harder at keeping your man instead of trying to convict him.
*Wise Yin  10-Sep-2009 13:03

 
I have to confess, Ricky's first post made me laugh - I took it as it was intended, a joke, although he's since admitted he's been hurt. Me too. Let's not get away from the subject. Broken trust can eat away at you for years. My daughter's nearly 17 and it still hurts like hell that her father cheated on me and I was left to bring her up alone from when she was a baby. All the hurt men and all the hurt women out there - if only we could get together, we'd realise we're all just vulnerable human beings and we all need a hug sometimes. It's a shame to mistrust the opposite sex. We've all been hurt, so we're all the same and shouldn't be getting at each other on this site. Support's what we need.
*Anita  19-Jun-2009 12:14

 
I wonder if Ricky applies his description of "all women" to his mother, sister, daughter, etc? Are they mad as snakes, too? Or are they some how exempt?
*An Observer  16-Jun-2009 17:21

 
Ricky obviously hates women but likes their food despite them being mad as snakes.

Interesting...conclusion: He's been hurt; ignored; can't stand strong women; actually hates them but can't do without them.
*Ricky hates women!  16-Jun-2009 14:55


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