Paying for mistakes made by the CSA
02-September-2010
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I am an 'Absent Parent' in the eyes of the Child Support Agency.  I guess this is true when I live in Cambridgeshire and she lives in Tyneside.  My ex and I split when I was still serving in the Army and wasn’t prepared to leave before I had served my full 22 years.  The ex remarried 6 days after the decree absolute was finalised – overnight I became 'Old Dad', he became 'Big Dad'.

I have to say he's a nice bloke, it just his wife who I can't stand.  I have been dealing with the CSA since then, paying what they ask regardless of whether I think it is the correct amount, easy life is better than fighting them and running up masses of arrears.

Paying for mistakes

I now no longer serve my country and am no longer earning the same income.  The CSA paid me a visit asking why I hadn't paid for 3 months, I said "How can I pay when I'm not working?"   It wouldn't appear to matter to them.  She took away my last 3 payslips and the latest copy of my mortgage statement.  Meanwhile I crossed my fingers and hoped that I would still be able to afford the nice house my new wife and I had bought three years previously.

Somebody within the CSA couldn’t read...

Unfortunately, somebody within the CSA couldn’t read and typed the wrong address into their system.  I heard nothing until a bailiff popped a demand through my door 12 months later asking for over £4,000.  I had been taken to court without my knowledge and found liable for that amount.

Twelve months further on, I am still fighting what is their mistake, not mine.  I have eventually cleared the amount owing to the bailiffs but now face arrears for the 12 months during which this dispute has taken place. One step forward, feels like 20 or more backward!  Yet again the Child Support Agency make a mistake but somebody else has to pay for it.

When will the Government finally put the useless thing out of its misery?  Probably never, they couldn’t afford the redundancy package for all the staff no doubt!  Hopefully the CSA complaints team will look into this.  I finally spoke to someone in the Agency who was helpful and explained the correct steps to take.

I wait with baited breath for the outcome, although deep down I'm so sceptical about the whole thing that I probably get stung for even more cash than I am already lumbered with.  Here's hoping.

By: Fostered Gaz


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if my name is not on birth certificate should I have to pay csa direct from my wages. I am no longer with ex was not for 5 months before baby born dont know if even mine.
*mgrover  20-Aug-2010 19:24

 
the CSA is a capitol tax on men that work....i have been paying from day one..then through thei inability to work out how much I should pay I found out I was in arears of 9 mnth.hefty sum I might add,but it was not my fault of their short commins.if u do have problems chaps ask to be put through to the legal dapartment,at least they dont bounce u abck and forth and u end up spending half ure day talkin to sum man hating slut that has just broke up with her boyfriend....
*aubern  07-Aug-2010 11:10

 
MY CASE HAS TO BEAT THEM ALL.
My on and off girlfriend at the time falls pregnant, we split up after she decides to put ( farther unknown) on the birth certificate (for benefit reasons) she later explained.
We lived appart but I work and give her money for the child every month.
About 3 years later she decides to call the CSA and tell them that she now knows who the farther is and that they should make me pay her some money.
They contacted me and informed me that an investigation had been carried out ( Hey??? What???investigation???) and that they had come to the conclution that I hadn´t assisted financially for my daughter (WRONG) and owed them about 4.000 pounds for benefits paid to the mother of my child.
It´s now 10 years passed and she is still on benefits, has never worked and I still refuse to pay the CSA, my daughtres money ( I pay it direct to my daughter, which doesnt count as its classed as a gift) I now owe the CSA 10.000 pounds more or less.
Unfortunately for them i´m in the south of Spain,and have been for the last three years so they cant touch my wages here,
I have asked them if we could come to some arrangement on the figure owed (which I disagree with) and how I can pay it back. " NO SIR, we would expect 40 % of your monthly earnings, to clear your outstandin balance " Needless to say I told them I couldn´t afford that.
He replied " sorry theres nothing we can do to help you," Erm " Oh well there is one thing" (YES!!!! at last we are getting somewhere) "If you could make a lump payment to reduce the over all debt by a substational amount we would consider taking less than the 40% of your earnings a month" LOL (i actually did laugh out loud) and told the guy " alright, brilliant, Thanks and hung up.

Signed

Will Power
*Will Power  29-Jul-2010 13:02

 
Here a good one....28 yrs together, now divorcing with 18 yr old daughter about to go to University. Wife totally unreasonable, venmous and more importantly financially irresponsible. Ive already paid a lump to my daughter direct to her account and still have them chasing me for the rest till 19.....best bit though is they have both returned to my house and CSA will not let me pay balance direct to daughter (Yes the one that voted this year) as mum is alledgedly responsible for her still? Ist "The Law" apparently so I have to pay CSA who give it to???.....I could go on but feel depressed enough today. The whole thing needs shaking down and some reasonableness applied to redress the obvious imbalanceand complete absence of common sense and true justice.....hopefully it will happen as part of the Government cuts!
*Deeply Depressed  27-Jul-2010 10:14

 
My CSA case is very old, I still paying for my Children who are now 22,26 and 28. according to Fairfax Solicator this is for money that own when I was paying the CSA, despite the the fact the most years I had a zero rating. I own fairfax £7,220 which I do have and they keep asking for more I have maintain my payment to themand simply cannot afford any more.. Is there anywhere where I can recieve free help on this matter.. Its is urgent because I could land up without anywhere to live...
*Faith2010  12-Jul-2010 02:38

 
Hello I would like to set up a regular meetings to be held at a venue in Leeds on the evening time if you are intrested then please contact me on safdin@virgin.net thank you.This could help all parents involved with a bad divorce or the CSA etc.
*Rich Ex wife, poor Dad  16-Jun-2010 17:54

 
Are there any CSA legal people outhere who know and understand the Law when it involves the CSA????
*Rich Ex wife, poor Dad  16-Jun-2010 17:49

 
do we have a legal system, we are all at the end of the line wen as they say we are above the law the csa I mean . me im to much of a coward to top myself unfotunatly so many have and wat is said about that nothung just another goverment cover up, is ther anyone in the legal system got the balls to take the csa on actually make reforms for the benifit of all male and female lets not forget those who have lost there lives to this
*just bring back the old system of appeal  15-Jun-2010 07:29

 
The CSA have got better powers than the police, think about it, the Coservatives came up with them in 1993, they gave them the power to deduct all this money off the men, to hand over to the mostly "don't have to go to work i'm a single mum club" (and then call it child support)
*Stitched up dad?  25-May-2010 08:40

 
Ive just got a bill for 16k from the CSA its the first ive heard ever? theve attached my bank acount for a monthky figure that is more than ive been earning recently can they actually just do this??
*matc  24-May-2010 17:54

 
New system, don't make me laugh, I've got a letter from the CSA advising a change to a fairer system dated October 2000, which will be 'retrospectively implemented' when the Government has confirmed it is 'working satisfactorily', how long do they need?

I, despite my ex having me over a barrel regard access etc, would pay what I thought was a reasonable amount for the welfare of my children, regardless of the CSA/CEMEC or whatever it calls itself this week. But because I dared to work hard and get a bether than averaged paid job I was assessed at 32% of my monthly salary (I have come across cases of ex partners paying 40%+!) and I'm supposed to live on what's left (leaving very little to put towards things that are beneficial to my children).

From my own experience don't bother writing to your MP, because if he/she is anything like mine you'll just get fobbed off. Also applying for a departure is a waste of time/risky because in the case of the former the CSA rulebook always has a get out of jail free card that will ensure any variation is less than £10 (hence no change) and in the case of the latter they may use it as an excuse to review your case and extort more money from you!

Finally, How is it fair that the income of a new partner is not taken into account and even if it was tax credit limits would make it exempt up to a joint income of 79999 due to the link between the CSA's calculations and benefit thresholds?
*donnylad  19-May-2010 15:22

 
I am assesed on the "old scheme" and the CSA take no cogisance of the overnight stay they have with me.
My new wife's ex husband is assesed on the "New scheme" and gets a reduction in the amount he pays for the one night sleep over.
The CSA have ran dual schemes for 8 years and have recently wrote to me via my MP telling me it will be a further two years before there will be a single system.
How can this be fair ?
For 10 years I will have paid more than A N Other by my calculation cica £18,000
*Durham Lad  23-Apr-2010 13:25


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