Women who trick men into parenthood

The only way to stop these women is to stop giving them money and housing for their trouble. Stop it being a career choice. If their parents or the childs father cannot look after them, offer them instead a hostel where they can live with their child and send them out to work in the community for their keep whilst the children are looked after (properly) by qualified nannies.

These women are a bad influence on the children they bring in to the world as well as a drain on our society. Get them off their backsides and make them work for a living. Lets see how long it will take for their numbers to drop if we don't make it so easy for them.

Write to your MP's....it's easy, you can do it online, it won't change unless taxpayers start making a stand.

The only way to stop these women is to stop giving them money and housing for their trouble. Stop it being a career choice. If their parents or the childs father cannot look after them, offer them instead a hostel where they can live with their child and send them out to work in the community for their keep whilst the children are looked after (properly) by qualified nannies.

These women are a bad influence on the children they bring in to the world as well as a drain on our society. Get them off their backsides and make them work for a living. Lets see how long it will take for their numbers to drop if we don't make it so easy for them.

Write to your MP's....it's easy, you can do it online, it won't change unless taxpayers start making a stand.

Yes but this is gormless Gordons benefit society! Have a kid, be given a hose/flat, forget councils-tax,income-tax etc. Expect loadsamoney (to 'tackle child poverty') and a 15 yaer (min) holiday (unless you want to do a bit on the side). An offer only really open to the uterally-gifted and usually too tempting to refuse.
Is this why 30% of uk kids have the 'wrong' father on their birth certificates?
I beliieve that the harpies are campaigning to ban DNA testing in this context...well it would rather expose the scam.

Yes I have been treated this way. And now I have to pay for somthing I never wanted. I hate the woman that did this to me. And I will never ever have anything to do with the child. The poor kid stands no chance. If this child ever turns up on my dorr step I will tell her how I feel. This girl has lost me my job, tried to blackmail my mother, had my arested for breach of the peace and charged because I told her to Foff and leave me and my family alone! Yes it is unfair. And I am looking at paying £100.00 a week. The govrmeant will keep £90.

Exactly stone! Less bed hopping more equal responsibility I say!!

I love the word "tricked." Its as if no one sat down with you and told you how babies get made (When a man loves a woman very much . . .). Maybe next time one so eagerly decides to have sex with someone, they'll consider the fact that this person could very well be the mother/father of their child - a child they will be responsible for for the rest of their lives. . .

My partner has 2 children by his ex wife and pays CSA and has no problems with that fact. They are his children and he takes financial responsibility for them. My partner was not ready for children when his ex declared her 1st pregnancy. He'd always used contraception but low and behold the condom split. He told his ex how he felt and her attitude was pretty much along the lines of "tough". So he took his responsibility. They had another child years later and were married. Their marriage was wrecked by her multiple infidelities and the divorce, I hear, was awful for both the couple and their children. A few years ago the children decided to snub their Dad who used to physically care for them half the year (4 days out of every 8) and go live permanantly with their mother. My boyfriend had an arrangement with his ex to give them a bit of space (a week or 2, I think was the agreement) as there had been many changes in their lives and he wanted them to have some real stability. He hasn't seen his children since. His ex says she will never tell them to come see him and wont let him near or by. He has maintained some contact with regular gifts and cards etc and he has tried so many times to get back in touch but always has the door slammed in his face. I cannot, as a woman, understand why somebody would be as callous as his ex has been. She has given no thought as to what the children NEED and in my opinion they need their Dad nor has she any compassion for my boyfriend who NEEDS and desperately WANTS to see his children. The system is unfair and some peoples behaviour is beyond cruel. Let's hear it for the good Dads out there.

Whoever you are, you have no idea how hard it is to bring up a child on your own. It honestly is not the easy option despite the fact that I am getting maintenance from the father of my child. Being a single mother is lonely and extremely tiring, but I do love my child and I would rather that her father loved her the way that I do instead of blaming me for getting pregnant. Before I had a child, I would have probably said that having a child was a piece of cake - it isn't, it is exhausting. I know that the father of my child would not have chosen me as the mother of his daugher, but equally I wouldn't have chosen him either. However, we have both created a child and a child needs love by both parents.

If you,re paying 40% of your wages then you must have had more than one child!! I have no sympathy for people who go back for sloppy seconds and then can't handle the responsibility!! And please,can we drop the term "young single mothers" Im 26 now tho I had my first child aged 17 to my partner who I met when I was just 13 and am still with! We became homeowners when I was 19 (he was 23) and have together worked to provide a safe,loving home too our two children,on top of which they both have severe autism.Added to that,a young autistic boy I know is now in care because his mum (mid 30' own home,decent job etc) decided to get wasted on drink and drugs whilst her 4yr old child roamed the streets!! Not all young people are scum,and all adults arent saints,in fact younger people often work harder to prove the point that the can and do succeed.

Jo, why not do a piece on the men that get tuned for 18 years of there lives by these feckless women... Im paying out nearly 40% of my wages, to a girl that has done this.. im at my wits end wondering how to live from one day to the next... But yet you think its the women that have the kids should have a piece in a glossy mag.
Your in my opinion pretty much glamourising it.. there are men dieing because of the CSA and women that do this to men, because... they want a free ride. You seriously have your priorities wrong.

I am a freelance journalist for a glossy women's magazine currently doing a feature report on women who decide to get pregnant without telling the father. For it, I need to speak to two ladies who have done this, or are contemplating doing it. They would of course be paid generously for their time and trouble, which I can assure you would be minimal. Everything will be handled with the utmost sensitivity and you will get a full read-back of the piece before it goes to press.

If you are that person, or know of anyone, I would be very grateful if you could please contact me on Joannasingleton@hotmail.co.uk.

if the governments stopped the large hand outs it gives to these uneducated women I'm sure they wouldn't be so easy to push all these illegitimate children out? I'm sick of hearing, but I work 16 hours I'm not on benefits! yes you are girls . if you can't support and look after your illegitimate kids , don't have them. and boys always use a condon this is the only way you can stop these girls doing this to you.