Women who trick men into parenthood

Well Doc if a man makes a choice to have sex with a woman, get her pregnant, leave her and yadda yadda I bet you'd still blame the woman and let the man off the hook. Its typical. If a man leaves his child you guys say "he's not ready". If a woman gets pregnant you say "she made the choice". If he pays for as child you say that he was forced. If a woman does, by herself, then you'll say that's her fault and should deal with it. Here's the thing, if women dumped kids on men to raise by themselves like men dump on women then I would feel sorry for men. But I don't and sure as heck don't see men as victims

Well Doc if a man makes a choice to have sex with a woman, get her pregnant, leave her and yadda yadda I bet you'd still blame the woman and let the man off the hook. Its typical. If a man leaves his child you guys say "he's not ready". If a woman gets pregnant you say "she made the choice". If he pays for as child you say that he was forced. If a woman does, by herself, then you'll say that's her fault and should deal with it. Here's the thing, if women dumped kids on men to raise by themselves like men dump on women then I would feel sorry for men. But I don't and sure as heck don't see men as victims

Well Doc if a man makes a choice to have sex with a woman, get her pregnant, leave her and yadda yadda I bet you'd still blame the woman and let the man off the hook. Its typical. If a man leaves his child you guys say "he's not ready". If a woman gets pregnant you say "she made the choice". If he pays for as child you say that he was forced. If a woman does, by herself, then you'll say that's her fault and should deal with it. Here's the thing, if women dumped kids on men to raise by themselves like men dump on women then I would feel sorry for men. But I don't and sure as heck don't see men as victims

anon, which is the thing to be taken most likely, the morning after pill, or the emotional torment of a child without a parent and a parent with an estranged child. It is simply a mater of weighing up the consequences after the moment of ejaculation that I am speaking of. A mans rights are taken away from him at this point and it seems to me that many women abuse this fact. I am quite sure that if a man could take on the responsibility of the morning after pill and the discomfort of it then he would in many cases. I shall quote my opening line "If a woman makes a choice to get pregnant" and not repeat the many tactics that exist and have been already mentioned. I find it interesting that many of you fail to accept a women would do this, as it can often be instinctually driven and many women are quite clever and capable of manipulating men. Denial of the existence of these circumstances usually comes from a closed mind in my experience and I pity the men who become the victims, and of course the children.

Dr

What are you talking about? Are you saying that women should use the morning after pill. This is a powerful drug and not to be used lightly.

Both sexes should use contraception if they don't want to become parents, although no method is 100% foolproof. If you don't want to become a dad then use a condom. It is your best protection If you don't want to do that then accept the consequences

Plenty of women who read this will get angry and plenty of men will relate.Its not a war of the sexes, and women have to understand that some women are really like this.Its the intent that is wrong,the drive for personal gain at the expense of children and of course the potential fathers.Some women lie about taking the pill,about their fertility,and some even stick pins in condoms or get pregnant by one man and claim its another's for the financial gain.Your right in that guys should always wear a condom as this is the best way to protect against this and other things of course.I had sex with someone who told me she was allergic to all contraception,I resisted orgasm and stopped.She kept coming back for more and when she knew I was getting close she held me close and begged me to come,I failed to resist, and then realized what had happened.She had been going on about having another baby for the few weeks I had known her and she already had 4 children from different fathers unknown to the children. I asked to her to take the morning after pill and she refused,i told her I would go and see a specialist with her as it would be wrong to neglect the possibility of pregnancy. She laughed and refused. She said she didn't want to work and wanted a man to look after her, and she was also an extreme flirt with guys and I found out she was playing other guys at the same time as me. She even called herself a Christian.I am an idiot for not resisting the instincts, for trusting her after all the key things she said that should have been warning signs and for this I am surly paying the price, whilst she works out her welfare benefits. Women have a power that they can abuse and some know this and intentionally use it! Other women, please dont lower yourselves to unite with these types and realise that they do exist and have no care in the world for anyones feelings, and will lure n seduce the weakness of men. Yes we are weak! but that doesn't give anyone the excuse to abuse life!

Rantaholic./GL,(yes, you are the same person)
You are back on that same dried up tedious subject that you cant handle.
If you/men want to have no-strings sex, then I suggest you/men wear a condom, or book a w**re.
It seems such a simple suggestion for you/men to keep it in your trousers, but you don't want to listen but feel the right to cry about the result.

The problem you and the likes of old-n-grumpy have, is that you are too busy concerning yourself with what others get that you don't.You should be watching people and learning by their mistakes so you don't make them yourself, nothing more.
Your past mistakes can't be changed. Your tomorrow can if you concentrate on yourself rather than others.

site admin, how comes florida girl gets to "shout" her last four words? the rest of us are allowed three or four capital letters at the most!

Simon the laws aren't sexist. Men invented the laws. They were like "screw these kids let the women deal with them". I don't know if you know but men once had custody of their children and gave it away in the early 20th century. If anything women should be crying sexism since the men dump the kid on us cause we're women. The only way it could be sexist towards men is if women made the laws and said "men should have no say".

So since that's not the case...SHUT THE F*UCK UP.

Well Rantaholic if we shouldn't expect men to stick around then don't expect us to apprecitate fatherhood. If you're not gonna take responsibility that is. So don't get upset when you guys meet women that ONLY want to have children from you and you're sitting at home by your lonesome, uddering to yourself "Sl*tty women, its all their fault"

I think it is pathetic, just like teenage girls who get pregnant to keep a man.
I have a friend who's boyfriend dumped her, I fixed it for her (it was because of rumours so I told him they weren't true) they got back together and again the relationship fell to bits - she told him she was pregnant and he stayed. A month later - no signs of her going to midwife or anything. He got suspicious so she told me she had a plan and tried to get him into bed. He was having none of it and told her he didn't want to hurt the baby. Her new plan? She went out and slept around non stop until her next period trying every trick in the book (like putting her bum on a wall so gravity helps) and still nothing so he left her. She eventually confessed everything but continued with her petty little "I'm pregnant" lies and having just found out I'm 15 weeks pregnant she's gone off and is trying to get pregnant again in the hope she can keep the man she's with now.

If your desperate for a baby have a one night stand, get a f**k buddy but don't get pregnant by a guy and expect him to stick around when as far as he knew you were on the pill!

There have been women who 'steal' children for the benefits. The father has no rights and the parent with care often defaults to the mother and this is presumed 'natural' by sexist law. To this extent, until men have equal rights of access to their children, the CSA who collect on behalf of these women are a form of Government Sponsored Kidnapping. (Ivor Bigun)