She doesn't want me back

Your lucky you are still young and only 5 years together ........I'm 53 and my ex done the same and worse on me after 27 yrs of marriage. She's gone just 4 years now and though I loved and trusted her 100% she deserves and commands zero respect now . It was and still is a bit tough at times but I am moving on and I know you will too . There is plenty of worthwhile life expieriances out there no matter what age you are . If one or other partner decides to stray for whatever reason and is caught , the relationship is doomed . Suspicion and doubt will destroy the trust required for a good relationship. Better ending it then living in a life of mistrust. You are in a better place now , go enjoy the short life we all have , no need to put up with lies and deception.

hey man....i can't help but can understand what your going through......i'm sorry and reading your storey is helping me understand my situation better.

There appears to be an ever increasing number of man-haters posting to various blogs on the net, they seem scarily a lot more vocal than men who have been treated badly. Betrayal works both ways, I know, i've been there.

justin timberlake , what goes around comes around.
i remember dating this girl for 4 years along time ago and she was cheating on me. we split 6 to 7 years ago, just heard wind that her husband cheated on her and left her with 2 kids for another woman.

Hi
You must have really loved her and she betrayed you. It's obvious she doesn't care for you.
My husband did the same thing to me. I had a bit of a breakdown as a result. Try and pull yourself together and forget about women for a while and find something that interest you.

Part 1

Thanks for posting that. It's really good to exhale your feelings and not just to keep it. The same (ex doesn' want me back) just happened to me and I feel terrible. There're some cells in my brain missing to understand why she doesn't want me anymore. It's so unlogical for me and everything felt different in my head before.
So, I decided to leave the feeling that I have towards her, the way it is. It's not bad, nor good, cause it's just the way it is. This person is my number one and why should I try to be busy and spend time with somebody else. One day, it all comes back to you and you will be just alone with the problem, so don't run away now.
How many people in your lifetime will you donate your faith (it's a present you make)?Were you designed to give your trust to random people, every date, any of all relationships? The answer is (in my opinion), yes and no. If you're looking for a deeper understanding of faith (that I call LOVE), then you should consider that there're not too many people in your life who will receive your faith completely. Once you start thinking like that, you'll see that you don't have to push away the person that treated you like ...., cause this person is in your heart. It's like your child. If your son or daughter treat like ...., will you replace them? No, you can't, and so is a partner for you (in my opinion). How do you want to love somebody endlessly when you make it a condition that this person has to love you the same way? That is a condition and it's very demanding. All you need (again, in my opinion), is to believe!!!!.......

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..........Don't listen to the words that say that there're many other beautiful partners outside and you just have to go and find them. Your feelings might be overexaggerated but there're still your feelings. Stick with it and take responsibility for them. It might be weird and peculiar, but that's the truth right now. If you put something on top of it, the problem will always remain the same and be just subconscious. Instead of thinking 'now I have to meet new people or travel or do something to forget about the person', just enjoy the positive feelings about your ex, write them down. Imagine yourself next to her and write down your most romantic dream. If it's your dream, make it true. Remember that you can communicate with people without speaking to them. Tell her that you love her (again, without speaking), enjoy that love and try to hug her and give her more love and more affection. If your words are true and you're convinced, you'll do the right thing. The results will follow believe me. It's all about faith. You must believe in the love between the two of you. Unconditionally!! That's why you are on earth, to love somebody. If you still love her, make use of the love and let it out. Not by talking or writing to her but by imagening her next to you. What you want will arrive, it just may take longer than your actual patience is trying to tell you.Learn from your patience, make mistakes, stand up, but please, face it!!

lve had this done to me .the truth is your better off without her .time will heal . l just think once there is betrayal and lies .things will never recover , and you will always be wondering what she will be up to next . you only get one life . you deserve better .

Please help me to get rid of him, he is doing my head in

I cant stand him no longer. He is a pest. James Cully is a pest. I used to love him now I dont.

James cully is doing my head in he says he wants me back I dont want him back he is my personal stalker now he wont leave me alone. Iwant him out of my life when Iwas with him all we done was argue and I worried about him hanging around other girls. It is stressing me out I want rid of him but I cant seem to let know what should I do?.

Nothing anyone says is going to make you feel better. SO I will just say this: Shes not WORTH you, you're a BETTER PERSON than her, and when you are finally able to look back and laugh at this, she'll be looking back with regret.