Parents with unruly children
12-May-2008
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I have a real issue with parents with unruly children that misbehave in public.  They just allow their child to run amok and do what they like.

I had an appointment to see a doctor last week and was sitting in the waiting room until it was my turn to see the practitioner.  I was quietly minding my own business and reading a magazine as one does to pass the time when suddenly, my leg was kicked by this little brat as he tore across the room from one side to the other.  His mother meanwhile, sat several feet away from me reading a magazine did absolutely nothing.  She just didn’t give a damn that her child was being a right pain to complete strangers.

Unruly children, disruptive behaviour

Next thing, the young brat decide to get up on an empty seat and jump his way across the waiting room on the furniture at the same time yelling his head off; still no response regarding his behaviour from his mother.  Eventually he finally gets fed up walking over the seats and just stands making faces at me. Presumably because by this time I’m glaring at both him and his mother, wishing either the mum would do something, or the boy would just sit down.  The little **** then just trots over to his mum and proceeds to badger her with the ‘Mum I want sweets’ routine.  This actually gets a reaction this time and she hands him a packet of tic-tacs with some vague request to sit still or he won’t get any more.

What is this? Is it some kind of reward for terrorising the rest of us?  I just can’t believe the way some parents let their children do whatever they like in public.  Have they no shame?  If it were my kid, I’d have been very cross and had no qualms about publicly chastising him or her.  I guess part of the problem could be, that in these politically correct times we live in, parents just aren’t able to do that anymore.  Too afraid to punish their unruly children for being naughty in case some busy body reports them to the police.

I believe children should be well behaved in public, and it is the responsibility of the parent to make sure that happens.  I know that things are very much different for the younger generation these days, but some values are worth holding onto.  Respect for elders, good manners and behaviour etc. it would seem are a thing of the past.


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Hmm, SAD, don't know enough about it to comment. I've heard of it, but little more than that. Regarding ADHD, I think we are at the stage now where it is accepted medical practice that ADHD exists. WhERE the experts are at now, is regards treatment. Some are very anti drug therapy, others pro. My personal opinion is that drugs are THE only therapy, but that is only my personal opinion. There are some excellent ADHD drugs available now far better than Ritalin. We found the best drug for our daughter was Reboxotine, which also helped with her depression as well, and didn't clash with the azathioprine she takes for the Crohns.

No offence taken bit chy !
*Nikki  14-Apr-2008 20:27

 
Here are the top 4 posters on this site as displayed in the 'comments' section.

anon (2224), nikki (1074), m.a (674), toots (528), how loose (427)

Since any old random poster/lurker/tom/dick/harry posts under the heading 'anon' I'd say you are in the lead Nikki. Found that front door of yours yet?
*abtd  14-Apr-2008 20:18

 
Yep Nikki you are totally right, if I strongly believed in something, which I often do, if somebody came along and said it was bollocks I too would be extremely annoyed, so for that I am sorry. I still dont believe in ADHD and no matter how much research I did I dont think it would change my view. My whole point is that even the medical experts do not agree on this subject, some say it exists, some say it doesnt. I know enough about the so callled condition to make an informed decision as to whether or not I believe it. Its the same with the SAD condition, I dont believe it at all...infact I dont think I have never heard of anything more ridiculous in my life. Well I probably have, but still not far off. I haven't meant to offend anyone I am just voicing my opinion which I am more than entitled to do. If the experts cant agree, why should we?
*bitchy  14-Apr-2008 19:38

 
I'm not the highest poster by a long chalk, and frankly what business it is of your's what I do with my spare time, I do not know.

Go boil your head ... insulting enough for you?
*Nikki  14-Apr-2008 19:17

 
Nikki.You are incapable of debate on any subject. I like this website and I am not going to become one of the number of people who stopped visiting because you insulted and offended them.

Take your husbands advice and stop coming here, and while your talking to him ask him to draw you a map that reveals where your front door is; over 1000 posts on one website is REALLY not healthy...
*another one bites the dust  14-Apr-2008 19:14

 
Yeah yeah, another one bites the dust, are you so perfect? Read the post I have just made, and although it is no excuse, it is at least a reasonable explanation.

What do you know about ADHD?
*Nikki  14-Apr-2008 18:32

 
I'm sorry too bit chy . And I am sorry that the so-called experts in this country are ... some of them ... so useless that they put us as a family through hell for years. We never gave up though, and I for one am extremely proud of myself, my husband and my daughter for the years of battle that we fought ... and won. I apologise if I get personal sometimes, even nasty, I don't mean to be, but this is a subject which, you can image, is extremely close to my heart. There cannot be anything much worse than someone coming along and saying "that ADHD, all a load of bollocks!" I could accept it better if you had put in the research, but clearly you haven't, you obviously know absolutely nothing about the disorder ... it is THIS fact that gets up my nose. Had you come on here and said something like "What about the hyperkinetic theory", or "what do you think about Dr Cosgrove", or "I don't rate Russell Barkley, because .... " I would have said to myself "here is someone who knows what they are talking about, but has an opposing view to myself". But no, like so many people, you just say "ADHD? Just an excuse for bad parenting".

THIS is guaranteed to turn me into a whirling dervish with a gob on her big enough to drown in !!

Which is fair, don't you think?
*Nikki  14-Apr-2008 18:32

 
Another griper who has stopped posting after you have offended and insulted them Nikki - 1069 in total per chance?
*another one bites the dust  14-Apr-2008 17:13

 
I did see it but oddly enough I dont enjoy being insulted!! I enjoy a gool old debate, as I am very opinionated (I do not see this as a flaw!!) but the whole fun of a debate, even when they get heated is to voice your opinion, try and get your point across but without the need to insult people! As I have said before I am terribly sorry for the endless conditons your daughter suffers with, but me saying I dont believe in ADHD is not insulting your daughter, her other conditions could make her behave in a way that you see as ADHD. As I have said many many doctors say that ADHD is not a medical condition. Whilst some do. You and me cannot say whether it does exist or not, all we can do is voice our opinion on the matter.
*bitchy  14-Apr-2008 16:04

 
You didn't read my second posting !! Where I say I am enjoying our debate !!

Don't be so hasty !
*Nikki  14-Apr-2008 15:38

 
Ok Nikki I'm just gonna stop now because you keep insulting me over my opinion and thats not what I'm here for. Lets just leave it as you think I'm a liar, close minded, opinionated, ignorant, childish, idiotic, ill educated........you however are sweetness and light for talking to someone like that who has dared to voice their opinion........
*bitchy  14-Apr-2008 15:25

 
bit chy: something I did forget to answer, was your question about how did I know that my daughter's ADHD was not linked to her skeletal problems (my word "skeletal)? Well, in fact they are. My daughter's problems could be lumped together under "growth delay" or "failure to thrive". Right from birth, she failed to thrive, was tiny, all milestones both of mental and physical development were all at least 1 year delayed. You would think that the doctors could have put all these problems together, added them up and come to the correct answer, wouldn't you? No, that would be too simple. I personally believe that my daughter's ADHD is all part of her "growth delay", her "failure to thrive". The fact that she did not have the most common type of ADHD, the classic "headbanger syndrome" as I call it, but the far rarer, and mainly even now unacknowledged in this country sub-type called "Primarily Inattentive" ADHD, lends some credence to my belief.

To be honest, daughter has left home now, and I have put the ADHD nightmare behind me. We still lurch from crisis to crisis almost on a daily basis with her, but OH and I feel that we have done our best for her, she has now flown the nest and although we are still always here for her, we are trying to get her to live with her ADHD, take responsibility for the medication she may or may not choose to take for it, and generally take a hands off approach.
*Nikki  14-Apr-2008 15:15


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