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I am fed up with my ex's girlfriend's jealousy of our little girl, and of the past that he and I shared. My ex was ultimately responsible for walking out on his child (he had an affair), but this woman has done everything in her power to take my child's father from her and has finally succeeded in my view. I'm concerned that many women out there disallow their boyfriends to maintain a proper relationship with their children out of insecurity. I have discussed this with many people and find that I'm far from alone in thinking this.
This woman (my ex's girlfriend) was so worried about the possibility of my ex and I reconnecting that she made it extremely difficult for us to continue doing our child exchanges at each others home. She was afraid of having to deal with me, even though she was the one who had the affair with my ex. I was never mad at her for this. I was mad at him, but for some reason or other this woman hates me!!!
She made numerous false reports to law enforcement agencies, along with my ex, because I refused to exchange our child in the street almost a mile away from their residence. They said I created a scene, when in fact I refused to exchange other than at the house. My ex's girlfriend demanded that I not be allowed at their home and my ex caved into this demand by lying to law enforcement to obtain reports, so that eventually he could seek a restraining order to keep me from the home. This was all to please his girlfriend. Never was my child's best interest a factor.
My ex also stopped coming to our child's appointments because his girlfriend did not want him coming alone. My boyfriend had no problem with this, because he was secure with my love. My ex then filed false CPS charges to try and wrestle custody from me after his wages were docked for child support. I understand that his girlfriend was furious that he did not have the same amount of money as when they began their affair during our relationship. Now, my ex had a baby with this woman and he has stopped visiting any of his children (he has older children from an ex before me).
I understand that my ex's girlfriend has not wanted any of the children present, because she wanted her own family and my ex's full attention. I am disgusted with the way these two are behaving. Why do women seek relationships with men who already have children if they are so insecure? They are destroying children's lives because of their own insecurities.
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females have the children during the week, males on the weekend.
This means that I cannot have a real relationship with my partner during the week , as partner has children from exes during the week and I have a child from a ex on the weekend, as well as from a deceased spouse every day.
This is a very hard relationship for kids , partners , me.
She makes me feel like a bad parent, a bad partner, and wants to be out with her single mates at the weekend, she is almost a pensioner age.
I do not have any friends as I always have kids to look after and abandoned every weekend except for the kids.
I just want to be 1 happy family not 3 different families at different times and deprived off an adult
relationship.
I see her children yet she has a problem with mine, I had all these children before I met her.
What is the problem ?
Has your behaviour in any way contributed to this situation? I am sure you want to say no - but please take a moment to think about it properly.
My OH has an ex who has "reasonable explanations" for all of her hurtful, controlling and damaging behaviour and if my OH tries to explain his point of view - he is not showing her respect that she is due as the mother of his children.
We would love to have a better relationship wiht her for the sake of the children - but she makes it impossible!
My mum quickly found a new man who my father hated, and my dad quickly found a new wife. My stepmum did not like me, perhaps due to jealousy that my dad wanted to spend time with me and she was being reminded of my dad's previous love. My dad hated my mum, and would constantly moan about her to me, and my mum hated my dad, constantly saying he was unreliable and a rubbish father.
I was put on the spot so many times, torn between loyalty to my mum and loyalty to my dad. I ended up hating all four of my parents, for constantly making me choose who I 'loved more'. Even worse, I was an only child so had to do this all alone without a brother or sister to help me.
I had to deal with this, confused and isolated, as a 6 year old girl.
It made my life difficult and now I'm having counselling for jealousy and self-esteem issues.
During break ups, parents really need to think about their children's feelings, rather than selfishly just doing what is best for themselves. Parents brought a baby boy or baby girl into the world, it is their responsibility as a couple (whether they are physically together or not) to give that child the best life they can have.
I don't know much about my husbands ex, don't want to, not intrested, oh yes I know who she is, when her birthday is (kids out it on the calendar) but that's about it. I don't my husband or the kids.
''sorry for the rant, at the end of my tether'' youde have been better off staying out of hat situation, that girl was bought into the world by her mother and father, who are you tryin to kid by playing the absent parent in this childs life? no wonder the mother is frustrated with your interferance, possitive input or not you should leave your boyfriend to make his own mind up. and if he does choose to let go of his daughter then its upto you whether you want to remain in a relationship with such an imature irresponcable boy!!!
I wonder how I,ve not had a mental breakdown caused by the stress and trauma this woman has caused me..( I, like yourself, did no wrong and wonder what I,ve done to deserve all this)
I,ve been alone for 8yrs since I discovered my husbands affair with this woman - may I add they are not married and do not legally live together - and she suffers from an eating disorder therfore can't have children of her own.
I can't help you but can only let you know you're not the only person with similar problems.
Doreen