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She needed space, then moved her lover in

She moved her lover in

He changed the locks

Two weeks after our sons first birthday she asked me to move out for a week or, just to 'give her some space', when I came back the locks had been changed by her lover.



My ex and I had been together for approximately five years before it all went wrong and things ended up the way they are now. My life is crumbling before me and any advice would be welcome.

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07-5-2008typical bird really, young bint with no idea about life, mate best thing to do , is to forget it, go through solicitiors to get access, as we all know that fathers have got no rights at all, and these "unfortunate" women (yeah right) shead a tear ...." oh look shes crying lets give he...moreadadwivabrain
02-5-2008Get in the real world; Thanks for that it made me laugh and that has'nt happened for a while I can tell you!!! I cant believe the support out there from people ive not even met, there are some decent people left in the world! As for startine a business, well ive given that a lot of thought lat...moreDave
01-5-2008She will probably knock out a couple more kids to the new fella and then go on benefits expecting the rest of us to pick up the tab for her family and her cat. Dont get mad Dave, get even. Start up your own business and make lots of money, find yourself a beautiful woman who treats you like a God ...moreGet in the real world
29-4-2008Make sure you get your son back, not just rights to visit him. I know someone who has been paying his ex-wifes mortgage for years just to keep a roof over their daughters head as she has claimed she can't work due to depression, she was/is an awful woman too.Kingking
29-4-2008Ah, fifty one ways to leave your lover then? I am sorry that you have been done over. Leave it to your solicitor for now then get even, not mad. As someone suggests below, don't show anything other than relief at getting out of this relationship. I can't comment about your child, these thin...moreNobby
28-4-2008Sounds like she is very immature and quite "selfish" in her approach to life. Many people seem to demand instant gratification these days - buy everything on credit, pay a hell of a lot of interest, rather than going without or saving up. Perhaps you should regard this as Fate (God?) or ...moreKarl T
28-4-2008Thanks Geoff and others, been thinking about it all today and have had very little sleep since this has happened but yours and other comments alike have been nice to recieve and do help!Dave
28-4-2008Let her have her cat, her car, the debt, the worry and all the unhappiness that she no doubt has coming to her now. She doesn't sound grown up at all so you're well out of it now mate.Geoff
27-4-2008Many thanks for all your comments with the exception of "UR FAULT", very harsh in my opinion, learn what one really is? Well the house is in both our names but her farther acted as guarantor to enable us to reduce the interest rate but I don’t know how she is going to do it with t...moreDave.
27-4-2008If ever there was a good reason for getting married and putting everything in joint names folks - this is it. NEWS FLASH - Common law does not exist. If you move in with a person and your name is not on the mortgage/rent book or deeds then that person can just ask you to leave and you must oblige....moreGet in the real world
26-4-2008Phone the Jeremy Kyle show and sort it out on TV.XxCharxX
26-4-2008If everything you say is true, you need to move on emotionally from her. She clearly is an awful, manipulative, shallow and just downright "ugly" to do what she has done. Your priority should be your son. When you speak to her or communicate with her in whatever way, try not to be emoti...moreKarl T



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