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Ex-wives that are mean and spiteful

Jealous ex-wives use kids as pawns

The jealous spiteful ex-wife

Why can't these sad individuals realise that just because they hate themselves and have serious unresolved mental issues - they don't have to screw up everyone else's lives.



I find it unbelievable how women who are mothers of children can think it is OK to use their kids as pawns to try and 'get back' at their ex husband - as well as numerous other pain in the ass tactics to destroy his life.

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21-7-2008You mentioned in your post that the ex is not co-operating in the divorce. Does this mean that your boyfriend and his wife are still legally married?B.L.
07-7-2008My husband has 2 great kids with his ex and she constantly uses the kids as pawns, she gets them to phone for money, clothes, lifts, and other things which we do provide anyway! Tells the kids they dont have to visit if they dont want to but when she is going out forces them to come to us which cau...moredori
02-7-2008Yes - No use trying when they are so childish and selfish. After 9 years of trying to get along with her I have given up. Its best to keep that negativity out of your lives as much as possible and do your best to protect your happiness. I know its hard but she can't take away your happiness.....moreStina
27-6-2008first off you are one sided the only people that know the truth are them and the kids second unless you and him are married your not suppose to live in the house with him while the children are there legally and she can stop all visitation based on just that fact second if his family did him that wa...moreknowing better
27-6-2008Wow ... this sounds all too familiar. I recently got divorced a second time because of this very situation. The mother of my kids (one will 18 in a matter of months the other 14) has been remarried to a guy she met while we were still married for years ... I met someone and remarried 3 years ago. ...moreAnnonymous
25-6-2008I too am dating a man that has been legally separated for 9 months now. He had been separated for over 6 months when we met. His soon to be EX has had a live in boyfriend (which she will not admit that they are dating) living in the home before they even filled for separation. About 2 weeks after...moreAnn
12-6-2008Oh, I so know how you feel. And it only gets worse once you are married. This makes the evil ex-spouse attempt to seek and destroy. I have two good ones to add. My husband's ex called and harassed him into coming over and fixing the kids trampoline at her home. This was okay, the kids love the t...moreLJTM
12-6-2008the evil ex - where do I even start? she's the one that cheated (twice) and before they got "married", she got pregnant, moved off and threatened abortion. after 3 years of marriage, they split and eventually got divorced. they've been divorced for over 7 years and she still car...moreannoyed
09-6-2008edit. Last comment refering to previous comment. Original poster: Anyone can father a child, you step is obviously a good father. Sorry my post so messed up.topsyturvy uk
09-6-2008During break ups one side can conviniently forget the causes. My ex forgot throwing child accross the room and beatings happened, I became an inconvinience because partner wanted younger model. Forgot that restraining order was made for a reason!! Will to this day call me a horrible and evil perso...moretopsyturvy uk
09-6-2008I agree to this completely. As the new wife for several years, I have tried to combat the "evil" stepmother archetype. I have planned all outings around visitations, made her birthday as momentous as our children's, and made sure that she received as much as our other children have. ...morealexasothermother
07-6-2008I don't see if a man is not in love with his ex wife anymore, why can't she accept it and move on. My husband and I been married for a year having to deal with his ex who is a total pain, thinks she owns the world and is better than anybody. When she had him, she used and abused him, now he ...moreS



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