The Weekly Gripe

Break up caused by text messages late at night, was she cheating?

She doesn't want me back

Text messages from work

I've tried to stay positive about who I am, but I can't help wondering if anything was going on then and is she doing anything now. I'm very broken hearted and I wish the pain would just go away.



Up until eight months ago everything was just normal then my wife started to find fault with our relationship. She then began to receive and send lots of text messages late at night, supposedly from 'work'.

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19-4-2008I am sorry for you because I know what you are going through. It's like a death but worse. So you are grieving and all those other feelings that come along with this. But as I have found and as I am about to go through once again in my life as you are now, is the fact that loosing a loved one, d...moreNato
10-3-2008Hi there, Well, I have been where you are now and my girl actually came back to me after a while. But what I realised was that I didn't respect her anymore because she lied to me and eventually we drifted apart. I have met other women after her and all brought different problems in to my life...morekursat
06-3-2008Went through just about the same exact thing and BELIEVE ME, I fell extremely far due to the loss. 1. Grudge adultery isn't the answer. 2. Call on friends and family as much as possible. 3. Seek medical/chemical assistance if needed (I was completely against this my entire life but found s...morejexe
19-2-2008Hi, I have been married for over 11 years, to cut a long story short, my husband is controlling and unreasonable, which includes walking away from company (when he sees fit) friends, relations and staying away overnight but then returning the next day all as if nothing had happened and he oblivious ...moreKLM
19-2-2008Hi, I have been married for over 11 years, to cut a long story short, my husband is controlling and unreasonable, which includes walking away from company (when he sees fit) friends, relations and staying away overnight but then returning the next day all as if nothing had happened and he oblivious...moreUnreasonable & controlling, wha
29-11-2007Denise hi, I believe it is a form of cheating. People that text don't hold out for very long and meeting up is inevitable. It's devious if the person is already in a relationship. If there's nothing to hide then why not communicate down the phone?Carly
28-11-2007I understand what you are going through, My live in boy friend for two and half years, has been text messageing a girl 20 years younger than him. I loved him with all my heart. I have lost weight and cried all the tears out. He still said he was not cheating, Is text messageing cheating even if you ...moreDenise
11-10-2007WOW!!! THIS SOUNDS LIKE MY LIFE AT THE MOMENT.... All I can say is hang in there. Love takes time to heal. Give yourself time to be by alone to figure things out. DONT and I repeat, DONT date anyone until all wound is heal cause it wont be a fair game to anyone. Its okay to grief about the situation...moreDido
22-9-2007the same thing happened to me about seventeen years ag> Iam now happily married to a wonderful woman an have two fanstic children. When one door shuts any door opens so chin up and get out there and find a good woman. regards brianjudge1
06-9-2007She betrayed you - she is untrustworthy - she lied - walk away. Sure it's tough, but believe me you will look back in time and be relieved that you moved on. Really.Truthseeker
04-9-2007I am going through the same thing! I was with my husband for 11 years and married for 4. At the moment I am pregnant with his baby and due to give birth in 4 weeks with our 1st child but 3 weeks ago he came home and told me that he didnt love me anymore. My whole world collapsed and I begged and ple...moreGill
06-8-2007Hello, My husband is not cheating on me, he is just not in love with me anymore and wants out of the marriage. I love him so much and I just don't know how to survive this. It is a small comfort to know that somewhere someone else is feeling the same grief. Take care of yourself.Alexandra



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