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Misunderstood youths or bad parenting?

The misunderstood youth of today

Misunderstood Youth and Parents

Unfortunately I am at that age (40 plus) and had to endure the nightmare of going to school and doing what I was told whether I liked it or not; of respecting my elders. That was the way it was when I grew up.



I wonder what sort of person I could have been if I was able to have the kind of parental support young people have today. Are the misunderstood youth of today a direct result of misunderstood parents?

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01-5-2008Well I must start by saying that you really dont like teenagers do you?? You sound like such a narrow minded, stubborn, sadistic and clueless person! You obviously slept through your teen years or were locked away in a cupboard somewhere because it seems you have no idea what being a teenager is l...moreLeigh...aka selfish hard ass!!
19-11-2007The problem with a large portion British youth is that they are British. What they need is sunlight, nice surroundings, and better food.jk12
19-9-2007How can you tar every young child with the same brush? No wonder some kids behave bad, respect should be a two way street, from youth to adults but also adults to youth. I am now 19 but the lack of respect shown to me when I was at school was disgraceful. Just because kids are at school doesn...moreRich
30-7-2007From someone who's been assaulted by a yobbish thug, my default response is to brand all such kids as thugs. They're not. The trouble is, the decent ones we don't see. We don't see Alex and James (sorry!) screaming in the streets, playing loud music or stealing cars, vandalising ...moreNick
24-5-2007What is being missed is that as the chap above mentioned NOT ALL TEENAGERS are bad! Those that are these miserable thugs are those we notice. Those are the ones with terrible parents who've never worked a day in their lives, and thus passed those frustrations on to the next generation. As ...moreNick
05-5-2007One of the most annoying things that I find about 'older people' (in practice, mainly middle-aged) is their willingness to tarnish an entire generation with the same brush based purely on the high-profile stabbings, crime and such like of a few. I am 16 and would, personally, hate to have to...moreA.N. Teenager
03-4-2007Continued from above... For those concerned about the quality of the individual that would come out of serving their country in the military, I can only assume that none of you have served or you would not have made such ignorant statements. You gain training, both physical and mental. You gain...moreMorrownc
03-4-2007On the argument of the cost of tens of billions to fullfill the cost of service....you might want to crunch a few numbers together and realize that not only is that figure extreme, but the true cost is much lower than what you ARE paying right now for those people that would serve. How about adding ...moreMorrownc
29-3-2007I beat myself thinking that it is something I have done that has caused a pattern of self-destruction (my opinion) in my 15 year old daughter. She has grown up in a very loving family environment, not a day has gone by in her life when I haven't told her how much I love her. But the now lack of ...moreAngst Ma
06-3-2007With whom do we become upset when the inadequacies of Parent's skills individually, and Societies' failure to make broad and wide-reaching avenues of advance available, for the assistance and support of a beneficial and,(to the youth AND Society), rewarding future? Given the argument whi...moreThe Literal Logger
23-2-2007I must be quite naive to think that any politician would agree to make what most common folk would think reasonable RULES . national service , Parents banned from abusing teachers, Special detention centres for disruptive kid's, See tonight on the news that an amnesty is being planed for kid wi...moreeddie
23-2-2007People fail to realise that the Social Life of todays youth has changed. We do not have the white dot on the TV or the epilogue now. children of today exist in a family unit in a partial virtual reality. Cyber space tells them they ought to have this they are entitled to that, and they should be res...moreGandalfql



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