The Weekly Gripe

Access to my daughter only if okay with ex-wife

My ex-wife won't play fair

Access rights unfair

Come on ex-wives and ex-girlfriends. Give us a break, if we pay our way then let us have our say! Surely child access should be a flexible arrangement for both parents!



Ok, this is not quite to do with the CSA but they get a mention. My ex-wife and I had our lovely daughter in June 2000. I loved my ex-wife to pieces, but soon after we were married things began to change

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15-4-2008Just wondered if anyone could shed some light on this subject. I recently read somewhere on the web that when your divorced and transfer your portion of the marital home over to your ex this does account for and is used as payment for CSA . I have been paying for the last ten years for my daughter w...morePabs
20-3-2008It's so sad that mother's use children. Have you got parental rights? If not get them. If you are a decent person there is no reason why you can't get them.I have put up with loads of s**t from my husbands ex. At the end of the day kids want a happy, loved, relaxed life with fun. Try to...morejhrv
17-3-2008I could not agree more and my ex is the same in all ways (apart from the Lesbian bit) Two faces, two rules and only on person that she cares about, and it's not the two little boys whose hearts she broke when she asked me to leave while she was having an affair. Now when I'm getting my lif...moreBrian
28-2-2008Hi all, my name is matt and I am seeking advice on gaining custody of my identicle twin girls aged seven. My ex wife constently uses them as a wepon against not only my family and myself but her own family as well!. Mygirls are missing out on so much love and happyness, it is a long story and me and...morematt
29-11-2007Get this then, x wife has made a claim through CSA after saying I was not giving her enough money for my son £200 a month also bearing in mind she had the house furniture. I had the forms through from them and a letter saying I owe her £55 per week. So called them up and told them about my...moreRob
31-10-2007My suggestion would be to "do away" with that dog of the female kind. She deserves it. She is taking you for a ride my man, just do her!Billy The Kid
13-10-2007Your not alone, I have the same problems with x seeing my daughters , at the momment I feel resigned to accept any unfairness to keep the peace, with the depression that has onset I sometimes go three weekends without seeing them so have dettached myself from them, I feel awkward talking to them on...moredivfather2
09-8-2007I don't understand how a mother can use her own child as a pawn to play games with her ex husband. Especially when she left him after only 4 months of marriage and sold her engagement and wedding rings after only days. Now 12 years later the games are getting worse. She moved to Chicago for a...moreJJDS
22-6-2007Chado: She is treated like a human and not a toy! if you read the post you might see what im trying to say! she says she wants her, yet palms her off, and then moans if I cant take her for a while if she wants to go and party! My daughter is always asking after her brother and misses hime dearly ...moreStuartKeith
18-5-2007You should always remember and put your children first. They should not be tossed between 2 people. I guess I am lucky as both of my children are of the age where they can decide themselves when they want to see their father (15 & 12). However my problem is that he really thinks that spending 6-...moreMorf
05-5-2007There is too much fighting over who gets the daughter and when? Your daughter is not a toy to be tossed and back forth with! She is a human being with feelings. Sounds like both of you two just need to grow up. I agree its not fair that you can't see your daughter and spend quality time with...moreChado
22-2-2007Stuart, Your ex sounds like she just wants to be difficult. Play her at her own game. It goes like this:- Scenario: you want to see your daughter this weekend Stu: Hello ex wife b*tch, I'm afraid I cannot have our child this weekend. I'm working. Her: You effing well be...morestillhateher



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