Getting married or not, commitment issues
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Getting married
I don’t want to get married, because apart from anything else, I’m starting university next year and want to concentrate on a new career. I don’t want any more children either.
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Isn’t it strange how people act when you tell them you don’t want to get married? If (like me) you are in your mid-thirties and still not married you are either weird or there must be something wrong with you.
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| 06-6-2008 | There are a lot of women out there that just want to get married to relieve them of having to go to work each day. They want the money but not the work.
Marriage is an outdated practice. If it doesn't work out you can rid yourself of it in no time at all.
It's is unnatural for a man ...more | Wozzy |
| 06-6-2008 | People should respect your views.
I felt exactly like you, then all of a sudden I had this desire to marry my boyfriend luckily he felt the same way and we married 2 yeras ago, when I was 33.
I glad I did it, but more importantly I'm glad I did it for me and not for anyone else! | Charlotte |
| 05-6-2008 | Just to add - I think that me and my boyfriend not being married and still being together shows how much we love each other - we have no kids and no ties to each other so no reason to stay together other than love. We have a great sex life and I fancy him more every day.
I like to compare us to Go...more | Ronniepurple |
| 05-6-2008 | Thank god someone is on my wavelength!! I work in an office full of women who are little princesses who just want to be a bride and have a husband. They think I am wierd because I just dont see the attraction. Me and my boyfriend have been together 5 years and are really happy. I would rather pa...more | Ronniepurple |
| 05-5-2008 | It's your choice.
Andno, I don't personally agree. By saying it's old fashioned you are insulting people who value marriage. | eliza |
| 28-3-2008 | Personally I think true relationships would be better without marriage. Without marriage, the only major thing binding you to that person is happiness, but without happiness a relationship is pointless, in which case it is best for both parties to go their seperate ways. Marriage often forces unhapp...more | friend |
| 27-2-2008 | I don't want to get married it's hard for me I am worried I might end up marrying a bad person.
I will never have a husband or four children then get divorce. | Princessa April Ann |
| 16-12-2007 | to m.c: If you are unhappy then you should divorce her. you have friends- if they didnt desert you when you got married. but you cant lead this woman on like this. she obviously thinks that theres something there enough to want to have your babies but you dont. she will be upset- course she will but...more | hunny |
| 08-11-2007 | I know lots of married people that are so lonely, they dont really get invited out much, and if they do, they seem so eager to be pleasing and being too nice to others, not forgetting how much they lose their identities to their OTHER HALF???
I know lots of single and like me they are alive, alw...more | mark - nottingham |
| 05-11-2007 | Is see marriage as an unnatural committment, I really do. I like to get involved with as many women as I can and I've experienced some real dames.
I have a fantastic time doing what I'm doing and can't imagine it being any other way. I've nothing against marriage by any means, j...more | Mickey B - London |
| 05-11-2007 | I completely agree, I will never get married, I really do think alot of it is about insecurity. I mean once married, it is like saying, I OWN you now, you cant do this or that because we are married. I have many friends that were so full of joy, full of lilfe, excited about new things, then just a...more | milliemoo |
| 01-11-2007 | I totally agree that you do not want to get married because I don't either.
It is just personal preference whether someone wants to get married or not and all the power to ya! | Lex |
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