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Our relationship changed

Relationship problems

It’s breaking my heart to even think that he could be cheating on me or even up to something that’s dodgy! I just feel absolutely useless and helpless sometimes and he wont listen when I try to talk about it!



My relationship with my boyfriend has changed dramatically recently. He was once really interested in me, but he doesn't seem to care any more. These days he is constantly up the pub and anything I say seems to bug him.

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16-6-2008Hi, My relationship seems to be going in the same direction, I love my boyfriend very much and have since the day that I met him, And I thought that he felt the same untill about a week ago...I went to meet him after he had finished work as he was running late and we were supposed to be going to see...moreLeigh
12-12-2007Hi 34 y/o male.taking it to another level. I am the guy that rolls down the bed at night, that turns the electric blanket on 2o mins before you go to bed. And yet I was married for 8 years had a beautiful daughter (now aged 5) and doted on my soon to be ex-wife. Life felt stressed we argued occasion...morenelly
14-10-2007hi Steven, my boyfriend, at first was really nice and sweet to me, taking me on dates/to the movies and stuff, but oneday, we had a huge party for his birthday. Everyone was dancing, and they wanted me to dance with Steven, but he wasn't there. So I went to his room and saw my best friend, Geor...moreRachel
26-9-2007Sorry to hear about your problem!! I am sort of going through the same thing with the father of my child! We were supposed to get married in Aug. 2008, but things have changed!! He was in the Iraq war, and he has never been the same since!! We fight about the dumbest things and I don’t know ho...moreGirl In a Crisis
03-9-2007Someone once told me to keep a track of the days, use a happy face for a good day, a sad face for a bad day. At the end of a couple of months total up and see where you are. If the bad days outweigh the good ones then you should walk away. Life is too short to spend it with someone who makes you unh...moreTeens
03-6-2007She probably wants a divorce but won't say it or do it. I don't have a clue what the problem is, married 13 years and the last 10 have been this way. Won't go to counseling, won't talk about, kills the fun at every opportunity. I've read books, watched programs, made changes, ...morePowerlessInMD
03-5-2007The answer to any question a girl may have about guys/relationships can be found in these books: 1. Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus 2. Mars and Venus on a Date. 3. Mars and Venus in the Bedroom 4. Why Men Love B!tches 5. The Five Languages of Love 6. He's Just Not That Into You ...moreShauna
29-3-2007I'm a 29 y/o guy living with my girlfriend for almost about two years. At the beginning of the relationship I felt energized about the whole idea of being with her, I even turn the blind eye to a number of sign that signaled catastrophe. I now find myself not wanting to be there anymore, I fin...moreWill
16-3-2007I'm going through the kinda same thing. At first it was a loving relationship and he said and done all the right things etc... but now it just seems as if I am the last person on his weekly agenda with him putting his mates, sport before me and even then he says he's too tired and do I mind ...moreTrix
10-3-2007Maybe we've got it all wrong expecting monogamous relationships to last a lifetime. Maybe it is not natural? It's always the same - you meet someone, supposedly fall in 'love', have great sex for a while, but then it all seems to wear off. Maybe marriage should be the exception,...morekev
19-2-2007Sorry to hear of your dilemma, But trust me, If you split up It will seem so hard. But you will get over it. I hope you can sort out your dilemma. If he does not be nice to you , then He as lost out in the end not you. In the end you will be glad you found someone more worth it! take care xxbobo
30-1-2007awww....that is so sad v.v but remember a guy ain't worth your tears.......I don't have any advise but to try to talk to him once more and if he refuses, girl you got to let him go.....ok well just to cheer you up I made a dance!! ^.^ well someone else did but whatever same thing... <(...moresofia



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