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Good manners cost nothing - open a door for someone

No thanks for a gentleman

Good manners

It's not very fashionable these days and some would say that the notion of 'ladies' and 'gentlemen' are a thing of the past. What has happened to good manners and proper behaviour?



So what happened to good manners in the world today? It might not be fashionable anymore, but I won't stop being a gentleman just because some women are ignorant and don't appreciate that.

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22-4-2008The other day when filling up with petrol there were two men waiting to be served in front of me when along came a woman with £50 who went up to the counter, placed the £50 on the counter and said the pump number and walked away. Even if she had the right money she had no need to get aw...moreA Decent Gentleman
10-3-2008There is generally all over the world a lack of good manners, not restricted to one social, political or economic group in particular. People may argue that good manners are no longer needed (or indeed never were), that they are a waste of time and effort. I argue that good manners cost absolutely n...moreMorwen
05-2-2008I guess 70 to 80% of people I open doors for or keep them open to save them having to re open them, stroll through without a word of thanks. When I stand and wait for people to walk through the door they breeze past without any acknowledgement.......which Is really annoying as I'm a gym enthusia...morePeeved.
14-6-2007Only the noneducated, the financially challenge and the ignorants shamefully lack good manners!!!Shame
13-6-2007Women's rights has nothing to do with Gentlemanly manners. Shame on you! because rights has nothing to do of how you treat the woman that you love and of course women in general. What an idoitic excuse " that men don't open doors anymore due to women's rights movement"...I cert...moreBbing
13-6-2007I might live in this modern world but I still love and appreciate the old gentlemanly manners. What I have observed this days the highly educated, the filthy rich, the most famous and the elite group of this so called modern society are the ones that still open doors, excellent table manners and gen...moreBbing
28-3-2007In the know - please don't assume all women are like that. Agreed, there are a lot who are, but there are just as many men who are rude and ignorant. I always appreciate good manners, e.g. door opening and always say thank you - and sorry (when things are not actually my fault - like being pushe...moreWell mannered
28-2-2007Women should not be stood up for on buses, but stood up on dates. They just don't pay their way. Why should the man be expected to pay for everything? It's an absolute con. Beware the gold-diggers. Beware the teasers. They are simply playing a very nasty game. Sit down. Ignore the pregna...moreIn the Know
28-2-2007As far as I'm aware opening doors for people and giving your seat up on a bus is not an exclusive practice of a gentleman. I think people in general are ignorant these days and the common curtesy of thanking someone for extending them a little manners is rare. Manners have nothing to do with e...moreKHDaily
05-12-2006If men or women want to be rude then its up to them. If you men want to be rude and show off your lack of manners then fair enough - dont blame equal rights as from a distance you just look like the type of person that most dont want to associate themselves with. I want to comment to pocodulce - tho...moremanners are free
23-9-2006Well you women wanted equal rights you got equal rights. So we don't have to no longer open dorrs for you.Bobby B
26-7-2006Am I the only person who believes the loss of good manners has to do with too much television watching and careless parenting? I live in Chicago and I work in contruction. It seems that especially men who do not practice good manners are making up for their feelings of inadequacy .I have noticed a d...morepocodulce



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