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Married but now wants a divorce, is she cheating?

Why does she want a divorce?

Why does she want a divorce?

It's a very confusing situation and I'm sure there are many men (and women) who have been here before. Please add your comments to this discusion and feel free to offer help and advice if you can.



I have been married for 8 years, but now all of a sudden my wife has announced that does not want to married to me any longer and wants a divorce.

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26-4-2008Sometimes you just can't explain it. When you date when you are young you don't always want to be with the same person so you "dump" them and move on. Just because you marry someone doesn't mean to say you will be live happilly ever after. I have been married for 25 years an...moreNo Name
18-3-2008Marriage is an old fashioned custom and the most unnatural pact a person could make. To commit yourself to one person for the rest of your life, is this right? I'm sure some marriages remain strong but, how many of those can actually put their hand up and say they are happy? I don't und...moreKarl
18-3-2008I went away for the weekend with the lads the misses was so happy at the time she was gonna spend it with her family. I come back and thats was that said she didn't love me any more and wanted me out the house. Hurting my self seemed the only option at the time but have two kids and not giving h...moreBinbagz
17-12-2007I have been marriaged to my husband for two years, and we have three children together he intends to think that I'm cheating on him and will always be a lair yes I have lied to him about not paying a bill but never cheated on him, Yes he has cheated on me and I have forgive him but I won't f...moreShelly
06-8-2007My husband left me one week ago. Next week we'll be married for three years. I felt he was moving away from me for a long time but was too scared to do anything about it (denial?). I have been suffering from clinical depression most of my life and I think it has contributed to his wanting out of...moreAlexandra
23-7-2007Weman are emotional roller coasters.I have not had sex with my wife for over 6 months. Why is marriage even used any more is the question. It was ment to bind 2 people to work as 1 in the past. Today that has changed to if you changed your mind divorce his ass. Men get the raw end of the shaft e...morePutty Cat
14-6-2007Well im a 36 year old mother of 3 little ones, and my husband left me 3 months ago and has filed for a divorce. I miss my husband very much,and have cried every day for 3 months, which is not healthy...but the amount of people that knew us both who have told me how miserable I was in the relations...morelolly
13-6-2007I'm 31 yrs old, married and with a 15 mnth baby. We have been together for 11 years. I am thinking of separating from my husband b/c we don't seem to work anymore. I read the comments of others and I can echo similiar disappointments in my husband and in myself. I am very unsure. I am v...morelongestsecond
02-6-2007Been there, still there, 11 years, and bang, yes it is a huge shock and your life does fall apart, and nothing seems to help, everyone says time will heal and things will get better, and I guess one day they will. I have questioned myself for 12 months and I still don't know the answer, there i...moreMichael
14-5-2007I am a 25 year old woman who has had three kids with my husband. For the past 4 years out of the 7 (yeah do the math) we've been married it has all been a big "show." I pretend that we are happy in front my family and his. I am tired of being the strong one to keep things together. I w...moreIwantadivorce
18-1-2007I love my husband.... very much.....and I know that he loves and cares for me, BUT... I don't feel like he "likes" me. He does not respect my taste or opinion and often uses a tone with me as if I am a moron. He is often negative about what interests me, that they are unimportant and t...moreLovedButNotWanted
06-1-2007Done it seen it read the book and starred in the film, life is for living my man. My wife kicked me out and it hurt like hell for a while but time is a healer. There are some good women out there that will appreciate you, now i've got a good woman. Good huntingSgt Major Matt



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