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Car parked outside my house by selfish neighbour

I live in nice quite close where most houses have their private driveways apart from myself and our next door neighbour, there are however three parking spaces outside the two houses without driveways.

My issue, the typical parking one, comes from one particular neighbour.  He has a car, his wife has a car and they've also got a son.  Yep, he has a car too.  As well as three cars they also have a driveway that is long enough for at least four cars to be parked on.  Despite having a large driveway, they insist on only having one car parked on it.  The mum parks outside their house in the road and the dad parks his car outside our house.

Now when I lived at home with the parents we also had three sometimes four cars and one long driveway, almost exactly the same as theirs.  But we had no issues with parking one car behind the other and simply moving cars around if another person wished to get out, as did the majority of our neighbours.  This family however does not believe in doing this and instead parks outside my house.

I know I have no right to park outside my house but surely out of neighbourhood courtesy you would not park outside someone's house when they have no driveway and your car doesn't move often for a week at a time?

Car parked outside house I have raised this issue with the neighbour, only for him out of stubbornness and sheer single mindedness not to see my point.  Coming home with a boot full of shopping is often rather irritating having to carry it from the other end of the close, shutting the boot and locking the car on every walk to and fro.  This never happens with what I look upon as our neighbours space, as its outside their house I have the courtesy not to park there despite these issues!

...turning my front garden into a driveway

This is really starting to irritate me to the extent I'm looking at getting a dropped kerb put in and turning my front garden into a driveway, something which I don't particularly want to do or see why I should.

I understand there's three spaces outside our house, one which is normally taken up by a visitor, but they don't even see my point in having the car which doesn't move park in the drive and one of the others in the space so at least I have a chance of parking outside when they're out.

I will make sure that the next house I buy has a driveway to prevent issues like this!

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So i have a driveway which I park my car on - its just big enough to get my Ford Galaxy on - my husband has a Ford Thunder truck and is not too fussed where he parks as long as its fairly near the house to be load and unload - he's a self-employed builder. For the last two weeks there has been a car parked outside out house - no one's been near it and it hasn't moved at all. Phoned the police/council to see if it has been abandoned - it hasn't - because it's taxed and they have the right to park anywhere then then there is nothing I can do. I also found out that the owner lives in the vicinity. So I waited for the tax to run out (30 Nov) - came back from the school run and hallelujah the car had gone. Looked out of the window mid-morning and it had suddenly reappeared and to make it worse the car is no taking up two parking spaces - so you cannot get a car behind because you will block my neighbours drive and my husband cannot park in front of the drive because I am in and out several times a night doing club runs with the children! Tried parking the truck on the drive but it overhangs onto the pavement so no solution there. Phoned the council. "Sorry there's nothing we can the car is taxed and MOT'd and is parked OK" (they sent someone round to have a look). So now it is a waiting game as I cannot legally find out who the car belongs to and ask them to park it outside their own home! I am very griped off!!!!!!

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Anonymous - 5-Dec-11 18:59 

Are builders allowed to build 2 semi detached 4 bedroomed houses with one garage to each property with no forecourt to park any extra car(s) .......... at the end of a one of the forks of a small cul de sac turning point at the top of a large Drive? Will the new owners of these properties be allowed to use the "turning point" as their "parking spaces"?

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Exasperated - 17-Oct-11 13:13 

I have exactly the same problem with my neighbours to the side AND across the road from me. We attempted a dropped curb several years ago, however BT wanted £1300 from us to move their man hole in the street.

My neighbours opposite have a drive capable of holding four vehicles, which oddly enough they have. Yet the mother of the family, insists on parking outside our house day and night so that her two teenage kids can get their vehicles on and off the drive easily.

And then theres my neighbour who lives two doors up. He has a van and he's wife has a car and BOTH insist on taking up THREE spaces outside my house ( not their own ) every night.

I personally have a van and every night without fail, I park it in our garage which is a short walk from our front door. My wife however who takes care of the school runs and shopping is CONSTANTLY having to park about 100mtrs away and has to walk up with our 7 year old and shopping.

Selfish selfish selfish people.....so much for Camerons big society

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splashdown - 2-Apr-11 17:52 

I sympathise with you. I had a neighbour a few years ago and he drove his company Transit and the wife drove the car. They lived two doors up from me and she would park in their driveway, which had enough room for three cars, and he would park the van outside my house. At the weekend it was there from Friday evening to Monday morning. Standing at my livingroom window, you couldn't see past it. When I spoke to them about how it upset me, they said they could park where they wanted! There's a communal parking area two doors up from them, but he just wouldn't use it. I never knew why. I had enough one day and parked my car outside their house and they came knocking on my door demanding I move it. I believed they picked on me because I am a woman living on my own and the other houses in the close are all couples.
Thankfully, they moved away a few years ago and are now probably making someone else's life miserable.
P.S. Good idea about the dropped kerb though!

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Caroline - 12-Dec-10 20:26 

I hate my neighbours especially ones like you. I hate all British people; they are so selfish. I hate those who grump and groan.

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Hate - 1-Dec-10 23:55 

have you tried slashing his tyres? Might as well give it a go.

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Jonny - 1-Dec-10 05:45 

HBF, are you insane? The street is the street. Let me repeat that. The street is the street. It belongs to everyone and no one in equal degrees. Even if f this woman comes from Mars (legally) then she has exactly the same right to park there as you do. No more right and no less right.

Just because you live in a street does not mean you have more rights than visitors. How about if they get married and she moves in? Then, under your thinking, you would be imposing on her "rights".

So, go and buy yourself a place with parking and stop sponging off society for free parking.

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anon - 29-Aug-10 09:11 

I have an issue with my neighbour's girlfriend. My neighbour lives in the flat below and his girlfriend stays over regularly. My neighbout doesn't drive and I like to park my car directly outside. She will take the spot if she arrives and my car isn't there. She knows damn well I want to park there and I'm never out for long. She also can't come in and out with banging the doors very loudly. I mentioned this once and it stopped for a few days and started again. I don't think she has the class nor the mental capacity to grasp that it was supposed to last more than a few days. That's why I don't bother mentioning the parking. What's the point?

She might be good looking, but her attitude stinks.

PS - my car is worth 4 times the value of hers.

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Harsh But Fair - 29-Aug-10 08:28 

I live in a cul-de-sac there are so many cars and vans to 1 house its unbeleivable, anyway the house opposite me is new they have a drive which 1 car goes his other car is parked on the road,he comes home in a works transit van parks outside his house ok but the prob with this is it is right opposite my garage, I have a next door neighbour who also has a car but the problem is I cannot get out of my garage without manovering several time to gain access to the road I only have a small drive in which the car goes on then its straight into garage.I use to ask politely ifhe could move it a bit so that I could just pull out his reply was I can park wherever I want, hence few choice words,and now people use my drive as a turning point as there is nowhere to turn as there are to many cars.I have now put cones outside my drive now people calling me a sad cow, I am not blocking pavement just the end of my drive coz im so p____off with the attitude and the hopeless response from highways and council, yet still expect me to pay council tax to let other people use my drive as a turning point I THINK NOT.

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peedoff - 17-Aug-10 14:39 

My neighbour has two cars, he has a drive, dont use it at all and takes up not only what I considered my first option of parking by my home but also my second option. They are pretty new to the street but I consider it so dam rude, should be some sort of law: if you got a drive bloody use it!

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sadfluff - 12-Aug-10 21:00 

We have this problem with the neighbours over the road. they have a drive, but they are always having visitors . they park full on the pavement so no one with a wheelchair or pram could get past, they block drives, except their own, drives me mad!

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jackiek - 11-Aug-10 22:37 

I had this exact problem! Then one hot summer's evening, we invited them for a beer in the garden and had a good laugh - the parking was mentioned. After that they stopped parking there and turned their front garden into a drive-way. Parking was not a problem after that.

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Yppy - 31-Jul-10 21:44 

I am having a similar problem with my neighbour. he has turned his front garden into a drive and got permission to drop the kerb. however he has in 2 years never used the driveway and insists on parking in front of my house. my street is very full with cars and I accept I may not be able to park in front of my own house but this guy is being really inconsiderate taking up 2 spaces for 1 car.

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jh1971 - 24-Jul-10 19:28 

"trouble is I have a driveway and ive lost count of the number of times that the neighbours have parked in front of it! blocking off access to my own property!!!!"

Well, if you were inconvenienced and rendered unable to attend some pressing engagement and lost income somehow because of your neighbours, you would be well within your rights to claim the lost amount through the civil court.

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Sue M - 12-Jul-10 14:58 

trouble is I have a driveway and ive lost count of the number of times that the neighbours have parked in front of it! blocking off access to my own property!!!! people need to be destroyed!

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kill all humans - 12-Jul-10 14:36 

We have a similar problem. We have a shared drive and my daughter and our neighbour both park on the drive with no issues or worries. The problem is our neighbour at the other side. They only have 1 car which they park down their drive, however, the grandma, the boyfriend, the friends of the boyfriend, the younger daughter's boyfriend's mum, friends etc., etc., all park on the front outside their house and our house (semis). Most of the time this isn't really a problem as when he is in, my husband parks outside our house. The issue is that these neighbours are aware I am disabled but, if our car is not there when they are visiting, they will either park a car slap bang in the middle of the front of the 2 houses leaving us nowhere to park or, just park on the front of both houses.

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mrs not very impressed with he - 16-Jun-10 22:14 

Park across his driveway. He'll soon see your point of view...

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lizsil - 23-Apr-10 16:53 

Hornman: You miss the point, quite clearly in fact, because the writer DOES have a driveway. Duh!

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JR - 23-Apr-10 12:33 

Seriously it hurts if we heartily don't allow people in doing such a thing but they did it by taking it as for grant... Its bad.. people should understand the conscience behind it.

http://www.truckzcar.com/usedtrucks

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Dump trucks - 21-Apr-10 13:51 

If you don't like people legally parking on a public highway outside your house, don't buy a house without a drive.

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HornMan - 19-Apr-10 11:25 

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