Show old people some respect
02-September-2010
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As an elderly pensioner, I have been aware for the past few years that here in the UK, younger people appear to have little respect for the old folks.  I can only assume that their parents have failed to instill such respect in them.  I walk with a stick and yet very often young people expect me to move out of their way, rather than the way it should be.  I find myself often wondering, do they not have grandparents?  If they do, would they not mind THEM being treated so badly by young people?

Asian communities invariably cherish their old folks.  Oh, that we would, too!!  I am 71 now and I'd swear it was only yesterday that I was young, and I had the utmost respect for those older than myself.  How very quickly we age....

...the younger generation lack respect for us "oldies"

Soon, you, too will be amongst the older population, so it's in your own interests to encourage your youngsters to appreciate their elders just as we appreciate youth!  Whilst it would be wrong to suggest that all of the younger generation lack respect for us "oldies", I think it fair to say that the vast majority, sadly, do.  It cost's NOTHING to stand aside whilst someone old and possibly infirm goes before you.  To give up your seat to someone much older than you surely isn't too much to ask?

No respect for old people

I suppose schools no longer encourage respect of the elderly; when I was a child, we were practically forced to stand back whilst our elders went before us and we didn't feel resentful.

By: Jeanniemint


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I don't mean to be offensive or anything,but if you OAPs showed us some respect,we might show some respect for you as well.
*DSG  16-Aug-2010 18:35

 
So...we teenagers are supposed to respect the very OAPs who judge us by the way we look?
*DSG  16-Aug-2010 18:34

 
Those who show no respect for the elderly.there gonna get old someday too and the next generation will disrespect them too.I feel for you Jenniemint, I have 2 elderly parents and want people to show them respect, I am middle aged and someday I am gonna get old,
*show elderly respect, it pays off.  10-Jul-2010 22:23

 
Yes, all people of all colour and age should be respected. But the point of this article is Old People. In general, we as a nation, do not respect old people. We pack them away in their Elderly Care homes like sending children off to Boarding school where we would hardly see them.

I blame our society. Every bit of recreation land is grabbed and offices and gated properties are built (especially in Surrey). Community spirit? It is tailor-made depending where you live. Road planning and buildings are created to slice through communities and not near the wealthier areas. Communities all over UK are divided by this over development in certain areas.

Once you have communities breaking down - do not expect respect from anyone
*Knickerbockerglory  12-Jun-2010 10:31

 
what a loooser why did u do it att the 1place eyy..thought sooo.;)
*kikiki  16-May-2010 04:14

 
People of ANY age need respect and politeness. I'm young, so I often get given dirty looks while waiting alone at the bus stop, all from the elderly. I have had an old yet physically able man refuse to get out of my way even though I was carrying a weeks worth of grocery shopping down a narrow street. I've also had an able-bodied elderly woman demand I give up the disabled seat on the bus, even though there were other seats available, and at the time, I had a leg brace on and was barely able to move.

People of any age are capable of being ageist, and people of any age are capable of being rude and unfair. Let's not turn this into a big 'I've got it worse' contest.
*Liz  10-May-2010 05:18

 
Chris, you are a nasty piece of work. They didn't touch you deliberately you great oaf! They could see clearly. They were OLD. You get it?
*ChrisIsASh*t  27-Apr-2010 16:30

 
'Chris'

Your tale of the encounter in a supermarket sounded to me as though you showed commendable restraint when dealing with a couple of aggressive elderly yobbos.

A pair of petulant pensioners who definitely did not deserve respect in spite of their age.
*Congo  27-Apr-2010 16:24

 
Jeanniemint, it makes me sick to my stomach at the lack of respect many people have for the elderly. I know exactly how you feel.
*Wish It Were Different  27-Apr-2010 16:01

 
older people should be respected because we the young people will be old
*lupe  26-Apr-2010 17:56

 
The trouble is that a lot of old folk only see younger people as the stereotype nasty hoody mugger types or that young people are out to get them. Older people are vulnerable and a friendly attitude goes a long way to gaining younger friends and willing help in tough times. Respect works both ways. Unfortunately dumping your older relatives into a home is due to our modern lifestyles, we only have small families where everyone works, so we dont have time to look after old folk, other cultures have large families where one or more of the female members do not work, so they have the time to look after their old folk. Where would you rather have Granny, alone at home waiting for the first person to finish work or at a modern retirement establishment, where human interaction and activities are in abundance, I know where i'd rather be.
*Rider of the Apocalypse  16-Apr-2010 08:20

 
I think this is more about the person than age of. I've been knocked into by young and old and have apologised, been apologised too; as well as been spoken to offensively by old and young.
I'd like to point out this doesn't happen often.
I agree that the World seems angry, and is getting more aggressive as the years pass but I don't think its just our youth.
*emma  15-Apr-2010 23:32


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