We need to bring back corporal punishment
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After hearing about a mother being followed and reported to Social Services after an off-duty policeman heard her chastise her misbehaving children in a supermarket, I felt compelled to type this rant about the way children are behaving in this day and age.

I'm only 30 (nearly) but I remember when I was a child, if I was naughty my parents wouldn't hesitate to give me a smack on the legs or bottom.  It was a short, sharp shock which didn't really hurt, but was sufficient to shock me out of doing whatever naughty thing I was in the middle of.  I grew up knowing right from wrong, and with, I believe, a sense of decency, morals and respect for others.

Sadly, kids now don't seem to have that same respect or parental guidance.  To be fair, I don't think the parents can be entirely blamed; this is yet another legacy that our useless government is bestowing on us.  By removing all parental and authority's rights to discipline children, they're growing up completely out of control.  Why, I've just read an article from the Mail about a gang of 6 year olds who stopped paramedics from treating a toddler who'd burnt her back on a radiator.  Apparently emergency services had to come to the scene armed with tazers.  Protection against 6 year old thugs.  Would this have happened 30, 40 years ago?  I don't think so.

I am worried my daughter will grow up to be a yob...

I'm all in favour of bringing back corporal punishment in schools.  A radical idea perhaps, but if regulated and monitored I think it would go a long way to solving the problem with kids today.  A cane across the palm or backside for serious misdemeanours in school would stop a lot of bad behaviour which children are starting younger and not growing out of.  But no, teachers are given no leeway whatsoever to deal with bad behaviour in their classes.  I've heard that it's now even forbidden to send a child out of the classroom when naughty, because some health and safety policy says they may hurt themselves.  I say, better themselves than some other poor child who probably hasn't done anything wrong, or their long suffering teacher.

We need to bring back corporal punishment

I'm now a mother myself and I am worried my daughter will grow up to be a yob, or worse, because of peer pressure and lack of discipline in her school.  I'll do my best at home to instil values and good behaviour in her, but children are influenced by so much more than their parents and I fear my efforts may not be enough.  What this country needs is a government who isn't afraid of everything, and to allow schools to be run by teachers again, instead of the pupils.  And allow parents to discipline their children instead of letting them run wild for fear of Social Services.  A deserved smack on the bottom does not equal child abuse.  It's far more abusive to the child in the long run to let them get away with everything.

By: Mallory


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Should we bring back corporal punishment?

Do you think that corporal punishment is the right way to discipline kids and should it where should it be used?


 In schools
 At home (smacking etc.)
 At home and school
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Children should be seen & not heard.Lock them in the cellar for 24 hours without food or water like they did in the good old days.That will teach them.
*Trashem  07-Mar-2010 21:11

 
kids need there parents to sit down with them and play time with them , painting, making fun things, cooking, arts, going out for good times, ect, to much is going on in the world that is bad, this can reflect on kids when they see there parents struggling or not coping with day to day affaires, all kids want is to be loved, not pushed away, or this does is make that child angry and the more angry the child is he will end up doing bad. Many reason's why kids get smacked, some time it helps and others not, I got smacked and hit with things and now I am scared to do anythink thing wrong, and now I am 32 I had my day getting smacked , I have a disabled child of nearly 3 years old and I love him to bits, I want to be the best dad for him for ever , even only if I see him weekends.
*lovenothurt  03-Mar-2010 05:30

 
Gainsborough lad.
You can tell me anything all you want, it's not going to make me believe it.
If you didn't have alot of hate in you, why do you refer to women as w****s, and children (including you own son) as b******s ?.
How you have come to the conclusion that I am a hateful imposter that is trying to discredit you is beyond me.I'm not trying to discredit you.You did that when you became a hypocrite. I have been posting on this site for a while now, and did not twist your arm to make you post any comments here.
If you can't take the flak, don't post.
*Been there  21-Feb-2010 23:02

 
Been there? a lot of hate in me? let me tell you I am one of the most helpfull people around, anyone else can make their mind up about me by reading all my gripes on "bring back public health and safety films" most of the postings on there are mine as well,

You are a hatefull imposter who just wants to discredit me because something I have said hits a raw nerve with you, I could also give out loads of insults and change my nickname.
*Gainsborough lad.  21-Feb-2010 16:27

 
Come on then, in what ways am I worse? what have I done wrong to others? what do you know?
*Gainsborough lad.  21-Feb-2010 16:11

 
Gainsborough lad.
The reason's I may not have got your "joke" is either i'm thick, or that I didn't find it amusing.

Do you think that you are the only person that has been hard done by ? There are many that have had it worse than you.
It's no wonder the police don't run to your aid when you call with the attitude you have. You are as bad , if not worse than those you complain about.
You sound as if you have a lot of hate in you.

Your past needs alot of introspection, and the only way to get over it is to understand it, and not take it out on others.
You should learn from your past and use it to make you the better person, not live in it and let it grind you down.
*Been there  21-Feb-2010 15:55

 
Been there, I have had some real shxx done to me over the years,

But now it is my turn to pull the strings,

I love it when things go to plan, stalemate, mate.
*Gainsborough lad.  20-Feb-2010 20:57

 
Read it again, it's a joke, get over it, "don't try this at home" joke, get it?
*Gainsborough lad.  20-Feb-2010 20:40

 
Gainsborough lad.
I've just been reading some of your posts. You are no more behaved than the little b******'s (your wording)you complain about. You promote vandalism and also give a step by step way of cutting somebody's brake line.
You are so sick that i've not got words for you.
*Been there  20-Feb-2010 20:35

 
The best way to teach these unruly children some discipline is to teach them right from wrong.Parents should be responsible for punishing their own children.Birch them & thrash them thats what I say.
*Mrs Harvey  20-Feb-2010 00:00

 
Gainsborough lad.
You know the answer already. It is as you stated.
" if things were nipped in the bud before or at school, then things would be a lot better than they are now."
It needs the bad bits nipped out before they start school.
There are many ways to punish or correct a child from a young age without using any form of violence. If a childs bad behaviour is ignored and/or has no penalty attached then that child will be less likely listen and/or learn.By the time that child starts school, it will have no concept of right and wrong.
When you put that child in a class with another 20+ 5yr old children and several of them also have no wish to stop, listen and do as they are told, you are at risk of losing the battle. They don't do as their parents say, so why are they going to listen to a teacher that is clearly under pressure from trying to correct several children at the same time for various reasons. Those teachers don't smack the children in an effort to make them conform. They try to correct them by taking their play-time etc, away. Some children will learn to behave at school, but once they are out of there will resort back to their ways.Some will learn to behave as the teacher says in and out of school.
In a way it is all similar to prison. If you are naughty when you are outside, you have to go in. If you are naughty when inside, you will have your privileges (toys etc) taken away. If you continue to be naughty, you will not be allowed out.
There maybe a few punches thrown by frustrated in-mates (siblings/peers) who are having the same lock-down, but that is to be expected and can be dealt with easily with separation.
*Been there  17-Feb-2010 15:14

 
Been there, so using your logic, we don't punish children, no matter how bad they are and perhaps when they are 16 or 18 years old, we stay with this formula, throughout their lives as well, no prison ect,

That is why we have the problems that we have today, if things were nipped in the bud before or at school, then things would be a lot better than they are now.
*Gainsborough lad.  15-Feb-2010 23:17


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