Cars that park too close to mine
Why do some drivers insist on parking so close to the driver's side of my car? I'm always careful to get exactly in the middle of the white lines in a parking space, yet there's invariably some idiot who thinks I only need to open my door 6 inches in order to get in and out of my car, and will proceed to get as close to the left-hand line of their bay as possible. Talk about selfish parking. Is it so difficult to park in the middle of the bay and not right up next to another car?
Normally this sort of thing wouldn't bother me too much, after all it's their paintwork that's likely to suffer when I open my door.
But I'm heavily pregnant and it's actually a struggle getting in and out of my car with the bump if I can't open the door wide enough. I'm too bothered about dirty looks to use a parent and child space, so instead I hung a 'Mother to Be on Board' sticker on the driver's side back window in the hope that people MAY be more considerate when parking next to me.
No such luck. In fact, it's almost the opposite; they seem to do it more and more now just out of ignorance or spite. Some people have no consideration at all for others when they park their cars.
I'm this close to saying 'hang it all' and using the parent and child parking spaces, if only so my baby won't be born squashed and with the imprint of a door handle on its belly!
By: Mallory
Comments from visitors
On Shekel Grubbers - 25-Feb-11 17:56
Has anyone else noticed that when you have a 3 door car (as in a Nissan Micra) there is always some idiot who parks so close to you that you can`t get the driver`s door open and have to crawl in through the passenger door, which is not easy when you have a bad back and have to cock your leg over the hand brake and slide into the drivers seat, not very lady-like when you have a skirt on!
I am often tempted to use my key for more than opening my car door !
Get used to it or die.
intimateparker - 10-Apr-10 15:57
Unfortunately it seems that large cars with rather big wing mirrors don't have totally foldable wing mirrors. Whilst they fold, they don't fold in flat and still protrude from the side of the vehicle.
I've seen a few like this and can't see the point in their foldability.
Youthful Griper - 23-Oct-09 08:00
the angle and way in which the X5 was parked gave acceptable reasoning that the mirror was what caused the scrape down the side of my golf roof/doors. That and the greenpaint on the outer edge. of the mirror.
Yes, the mirror was collapsable and wa already collapsed when I arrived at my vehicle....showing that the driver had got out and collapsed it OR it automaticalyl did this with the central locking activated. The mirror is what obstructed my door opening in the first place.
As for me parking too near the plastic wall.. when driving in the car alone, I don't feel the need to observe passenger fitting room. I parked that close to the barrier BECAUSE I didn't want some inconsiderate pillok parking too close. My car had a clear 2 foot of concrete between the driverside door and the white line.
The X5 sat just over 1 foot into my space and left 2 foot ish on the driver side.... so, their fault, not mine.
As for the wingmirror? I hit it 3 times with my palm and it dangled off, I merely ripped it off and rested my door on theirs as I got in.
I'm sure you'd be nice and perky knowing that your free time before a work shift is being wasted 3hrs of it.....waiting because some inconsiderate turd decided to ignore other cars and the space needed to get into them. How would you have handled the situation?
Greeted the driver with a hug, kiss and slipped £20 into their pockets? Or told them politely what you thought of them?
Unfortunately, I'm a d**khead when I get angry. Not enough to hurt someone physicly, but I will damage property if it is in my way without good reason OR if the offender has just been a complete waste of space.
I think 3hrs of your free time wasted and damage to your paint work is enough to justify some sort of retaliation, unless you're mr/s perfect.
If so then aren't you guilty of the same 'offence' in that you didn't leave sufficient space?
And, I have not heard of any vehicle that does not feature collapsible door mirrors, this is a safety feature which allows the mirror to collapse against the frame in the event of a collision - you did not need to "pound the mirror off the car" at all but simply push it gently back until it folded flat.
Most commercial parking spaces are 2.4 metres wide, ample space to get into the average car from either side.
I spoke to the parking warden who informed me he could only ticket the car for being overdue to leave and nothing about getting into my car. I gave them another 30 minutes...by this time I was on the verge of destroying the other drivers face. Till, eventually, I wrote a note in big bald letters and stuck it to their screen and took a picture of the parking. I informed,
"waited 3hrs, you didn't show, 2hr prking limit here!!
your car is sat 1 foot into my parking space
removed your wingmirror so I could get in my car to go home
learn to park please"
The relief, pleasure and grin on my face while I pounded the mirror off their car was unlike anything ever experienced.
3 weeks later I saw said BMW X5, being driven by a 4ft 5 70 year old indian lady, still managed to use 2 spaces to park.





