Freecycle takers rude and ungrateful
12-March-2010
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For those of you haven't heard of the Freecycle network, it's a collection of Yahoo Groups that aim to promote waste reduction by passing your unwanted stuff on to people that can use it rather than just tossing it in the bin.  As the name says, the items must be given away freely with no intention of personal gain.  The moderators enforce this policy strictly.

Freecycle is a good thing and it's all pretty straight forward.  If you have something you don't want, then you post a message up on the board and wait for the responses.  You then pick the most deserving individual and arrange a mutually agreeable collection time.  Likewise, if something that takes your fancy you get in touch with the person offering the item and politely offer to take it off their hands. Notice the use of the word politely there.

That is basically the thing I find irritating about Freecycle.  The people that give stuff away are okay (at least the ones that I have met), it's the rude and ungrateful "takers" that really annoy me.  Whenever I have posted something up that I don't need, I have noticed that a fair number of people can't even be bothered to say "please" and "thank you".  As soon as the message goes up you get swamped by replies that appear to be nothing more than hastily typed out text messages.  Is it really that difficult to write a nice polite email with a reasonable standard of English?  I usually wait until I received a number of emails before I decide who should get the item, there's usually at least one deserving soul.

Another thing I find frustrating are the ones that don't bother to turn up after agreeing to collect.  Why do they do that?  If you can't pick up in a reasonable time frame, don't bother to ask for it in the first place.  Leave it for someone who REALLY wants it.

Finally, the real villain's are the greedy, selfish individuals who obviously can't comprehend what Freecycle is about.  Rather than ask for things that they intend to use themselves, they go around picking up things that they think they can sell either on eBay or at car boot sales.  These people should be ashamed of themselves.

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I ran across a new startup website called BrokenEquipment.com you can
post anything that you have that is Broken. I emailed them for more info on
what they are doing. I got an email back from the owner of the site Ed Soltan
who said the site is great cause anyone with anything that is Broken can post
up what they have with a picture. I think Ed Soltan in on to something!!!
*Walter  20-Oct-2009 05:24

 
I was denied into the yahoo group, I'm a new mom hoping to swap some baby stuff.
I guess freecylce is not for me.
*new mom  16-Oct-2009 02:39

 
Freecycle in the uk is run from the good old USA, and the rules and regs are from the USA, that is why very recently about 35% of the uk freecycle groups upped and left and created their own umbrella organisation called Freegle and have set up groups in many parts of the country and aim to be the Friendly recycling group
*xeriod  23-Sep-2009 19:56

 
There are some just plain old rude mods (Surprise,Az mods) as well. Who seriously, take every oppurtunity to treat you like a child. Nevermind the fact that you are the one trying to give freely in the spirit of freecycling.
*Naeners  10-Sep-2009 23:22

 
I'm a member of a big SE London Freecycle group. It's very busy, but mostly with ridiculous wanted requests: 'I'd like a widescreen laptop with wireless', 'Has anybody got the limited edition red Ikea Stakka set that I could have, mint condition, please'. Most of it is just a waste of electrons, and fills up your inbox so quickly that you miss people with sensible requests, or offers you might even be interested in.

Also I don't agree with people selling items on. I think it's against the spirit of freecycle at least, and it does put some freecyclers off giving items. Most importantly though, it degrades the group, because the take-and-sell crew are running a business and act like ticket touts, and jump on anything nice immediately, so nobody else who might need something ever gets a look in. That ruins the give-and-take nature of the group.

I also have a pet problem with the groups all being hosted by Yahoo. Unless you open a Yahoo account, you can't see photos that people have posted, and since Yahoo got my gmail account details when I joined the list, my spam folder has exploded. Lucky it is a back-up address! The emails themselves are slowly filling up with Yahoo's crappy ads as well. I've mailed our moderator with possible alternatives, but no response.

The solution to no-shows is to show preference to those who show signs of really wanting the item (e.g. give a reasonable explanation in their message), live nearby, and can come and collect as soon as possible. I leave the item by my front door, and go about my business, I don't wait in any more. If it's still there after a while, I mail the next person on my shortlist.
*Fleacycler  03-Jun-2009 21:34

 
I also gotta say. If a freecycler is looking for something and I send them an offer...I wish they had the decency to respond to the email if you have already received it...or to take down you "WANTED" post. Annoying...
*Funkcycler  26-May-2009 18:03

 
I definitely pick from the best replies but overall I do find freecyclers who respond to wanted ads to be quite rude. Occasionally I just get responses that only says things like "I want this." I don't think it's too much to ask for a decent email. I take the time to write a pleasant offer post and I include pictures. I expect a decent response in return.
*funkcycler  26-May-2009 17:46

 
I've had only one person show up. All the rest were no shows. And my freecycle site does not have a way to contact the moderator. Our help notes say to add no shows to the database, but there isn't a database file that you can add anything to. I just joined freecycle a couple of weeks ago and am so frustrated that I'm ready to quit.
*tired of waiting  24-Apr-2009 04:11

 
Violet, not at all. There's a difference between bad grammar due to a the person being a lazy free loader and I must admit, it's not always difficult to tell the two apart. However, one deserves to receive and the other does not in my opinion.

As for selling stuff on - yes we could very well do that and it would take time and effort. Wouldn't it be better if the item went to a home where someone appreciated it? Keeping unwanted stuff out of landfill is only part of the aims of Freecycle I think and I'm pretty sure people would give less if they knew more people were simply selling items on.
*Me  17-Mar-2009 16:43

 
I am very surprised at people here complaining about the quality of English in the messages they get from people - are you all trying to say that people with bad grammer shouldn't be allowed free stuff? - thats a bit elitist isn't it? - the ones with bad grammer are probably the ones who can least afford to buy new

And whats wrong with someone picking something up and then selling it on? - you are giving away these items out of the goodness of your heart - you're welcome to sell them yourself instead - the whole point of freecycle is to keep rubbish out of landfill and this is still happening - once you've given something to someone its no longer appropriate for you to decide what they do with it - its like telling someone they can't get rid of a present you gave them!
*Violet  17-Mar-2009 13:22

 
I must be lucky. I have advertised stuff on Freecycle and have only had polite replies. I also ask that they agree to me delivering, or a mutual pick-up point. Had no bother with no-shows at all. Only time I advertised "wanted" for a booklet from a newspaper that I had missed, I got an immediate answer and picked up with no problems.

However - just advertised an unwanted item and had a moderator tell me the taker should pick up and that I couldn't specify "only" an area in the heading. When did Freecycle get so picky? It does make you feel less inclined to bother. I would hate to send the items that I have advertised to landfill, but might have to if it gets unworkable for the honest, casual user.
*Minerva  04-Mar-2009 20:59

 
I am a mod for freecycle, and I hate it also.

I can't believe people insist on not listening and posting subjects of just "wanted" all the time, or asking for 37"+ LCD TVs from 100 miles away...

it just ****ing pisses me off, and they have the grip to moan when we reject them also
*Mod  02-Mar-2009 16:42


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