In search of a more spiritual community
13-May-2008
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In search of a more spiritual community

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I'm very interested in belonging to a caring, more spiritual community.  And by spiritual, I don't mean one wracked by traditional dogma.  I don't wear dreadlocks and I don't conform to stereo-typical images of such communities but I wish in my heart that a good, mainstream culture of this nature existed in this country.

Where are our sacred country traditions?  They are wrapped-up in commercially driven, expensive days out.  Where are our shared parenting groups, fathers that mentor, teenagers who delight in family time?  These are the things that I wish for in my life.  I yearn for a community that respects the heritage of the earth and believes in a loving god-force.

You'll still find such tenants of course, in say a Greek village or a Tibetan one.  Or in a far-flung Island community.  I suppose sophistication has taken away our sense of joy and wonder, love and respect, for humanity.  The silly, cold mums at the school playground only concerned with their looks and 4x4's worry me not now.  My lack of shallowness and greed secured me from joining in their club, even though I had tried to go along with the whole yummy mummy thing when the kids were small.

If you're out there, declare yourself!

But where are the real new-age people?  The ones who want to nurture strong bonds with like-minded people?  If you're out there, declare yourself!  Don't just save your humanity for the seminar, the talk or the books!  Reach out and find that there are intelligent men and women who want to find another way of living without disappearing to a windy western Isle or joining a sect.

By: RA


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Hahahaha yes, I actually agree with that too. Being surrounded by nasty people can drag down almost anyone eventually, and can make it harder to develop to be able to resist them in the first place. You are right.
hmmm, but where to go? There are countless retreats and places to visit, but only for a short while, and those can be very expensive. And many of those places are based on recieving teachings or practicing certain activities, which isnt everyones cup of tea.
I suppose one thing that you could possibly do is see if your more spiritual friends would be interested in moving someplace at some stage, perhaps on a larger communal property.
Most people tend to attract others who think similar to themselves, so perhaps you could see if you could be introduced into one of your friends circle of other spiritual people.
Or you could simply move to Tibet or Nepal or Bhutan or something and be an english teacher, if you don't mind getting sick and losing a great deal of weight. Personally I find that a close circle of likeminded friends is very satisfying, and also the point of view that everyone is a human being with the same basic needs and desire to be happy helps me feel a connectedness to everyone, but maybe thats just me. Good luck! And dont give up!
*friend  25-Apr-2008 12:20

 
It's all very well, friend, to say that happiness comes from within; but it is also perfectly legitimate to want to live in a more caring & less materialistic society.
It is hard work to maintain personal happiness when living in a place where practically everyone around you has a very different outlook; RA is entitled to wish for happiness to be less hard work!
*grumpyoldwoman  30-Mar-2008 12:39

 
True happiness comes from a sense of peace and contentment, feeling compassion and loving kindness towards others. It has to come from within. You could move where you want but its more than likely that after a short while you will return to your normal level of happiness, which you are clearly not satisfied with. Change how you think, not where you are.
*friend  27-Mar-2008 02:47

 
D-D, you sound like a sanctimonious, moralising, egotistical, arrogant idiot. In fact, the exact oppostite to what I would view as 'spiritual'. People like you make me laugh! You're like the Pharisees who confronted Jesus with their 'holier than thou' attitude, and Jesus showed them up for the shallow idiots that they were. You do make me laugh so much!
*aer  22-Mar-2008 00:18

 
Stay on the road you're on, RA. Ignore critics who are part of the spoonfed system or blind to the higher values of life. I can't offer anything on alternative communities but it's more important (imo) to develop our own awareness and associate ourselves with what has greater meaning and purpose. Others can scoff and mock, but their shallowness and contentment in following social conditioning only shows naivete. Better to be insightful and find faith in one's self rather than the governments and institutions that ultimately lead us nowhere.

Sadly, this place isn't somewhere we can declare ourselves and make contact. Pity.
*D-D  18-Mar-2008 18:47

 
Wha'for man you no git dees tings. Feesh an de Khips! Feesh is wivout no cuontry. Khips iz fram de Sentral Amerika. Dis man Rawley he bring dem here.
*Here and Now  06-Mar-2008 19:24

 
I love it when people say we're a Christian country. All those Christian values coming out of people, acceptance, love thy neighbour. Steve_ Cast couldn't be more wrong. People forget this country was apagan country before the Christians killed them all. So actually we're a pagan country. Secondaly, 10,000 Jamacains and 15000 Indians fought for Britiain during world war 1 and 2. This country wouldn't have won the war without the help of everyone else.

Thirdly, we have been invaded by The Romans (many who were Black might I add), the Celts, the picts, the normans, saxons, angles, Vikings. We are a mongral race of people. NOBODY IS 100% ANYTHING.

Thirdly, I love my Chicken tandoori, my Fish and Chip brought over by a refugee, my chicken cow mein, me Kebab, and I like Trevor McDonald reading the news to me. I also like it when many servicemen, Black, white, Asian doesn't matter put their lives on the line for me. So all those uneducated, fearful idiots get a grip.

"I don't think the masses have quite grasped that Christianity comes from a country where Christians wear a veil and the skin isn't quite as pale as it's made out in the fairy tale, but we're a Christian country you see, a nation buolt by a crusade, that spread the word of love, peace and acceptance through the use of a blade"

I'm off for Fish and Chips now, I nice English meal.
*Damon  06-Mar-2008 08:59

 
My problem with the gripe by RA is her condemnation of her fellow human beings, labelling people as the 'silly, cold mums at the school playground only concerned with their looks and 4x4s'. Contrasting them with her 'lack of shallowness and greed' is somewhat ironic in that she seems unable to feel any empathy/sympathy/warmth, instead coming across as superior and aloof - hardly lacking in shallowness and greed. She wants to categorise herself in a seperate category, draw a fence around herself whilst still having all the benefits of modern society. To my mind, some of the greatest, most spiritual people e.g. Jesus Christ, Mahatma Gandhi, expressed their spirituality by finding something of value in all people, by constructing a meeting of minds, by searching out the humanity and spirituality that is within us all. Not by 'condemning' people as essentially worthless, as RA seems to be doing. I don't like RA's gripe one jot; there is something about it that makes my skin crawl.
*aer  18-Feb-2008 19:20

 
we are here!!! Just don't see us cos we do not have fuzzy hair and cannot afford those expensive colourful clothes and trinkets. I do share those ideals and have moved out of England to get away from the 4 wheel drive yummy mummies, although they have also invaded Scotland. Building their posh four bed detached houses on the field out the back, with their street lighting, so the village idiots don't mug them, oops they are the village idiots? And their art and yoga groups at £50 a session to keep the right people there, and us out!
*Chrissy  15-Feb-2008 19:45

 
Who cares? Life is nothing but a series of attendances at others' funerals until one participates in one's own.
*Boxed Up  13-Feb-2008 20:47

 
What a load of old tosh!! This site is supposed to be for gripes...not someones desire to drop out of society! Pull yourself together, get a bloody job and grow up!
*Mark  12-Feb-2008 00:05

 
RA, ignore the critics; your heart and mind are in the right place. We were much happier when life was more simple; more like the life they still live in areas called "backward" like rural Greece.
Everything is too cheap these days; people who throw food away can obviously afford to.
Music, dvd's, toys & games are all much cheaper in real terms than they used to be and so everyone has so much more of them; to the point where they cannot possibly have time to watch or listen to it all. Clothes are often so cheap as to be almost disposable.
We have turned shopping into a hobby which many see as preferable to spending Sundays, Bank Holidays & Boxing Day just relaxing with friends & family.
I just hope there are "simple" places left when I retire because I sure as hell can't wait to get away from this country.
*reactionary  11-Feb-2008 14:18


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