In search of a more spiritual community
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I'm very interested in belonging to a caring, more spiritual community.  And by spiritual, I don't mean one wracked by traditional dogma.  I don't wear dreadlocks and I don't conform to stereo-typical images of such communities but I wish in my heart that a good, mainstream culture of this nature existed in this country.

Where are our sacred country traditions?  They are wrapped-up in commercially driven, expensive days out.  Where are our shared parenting groups, fathers that mentor, teenagers who delight in family time?  These are the things that I wish for in my life.  I yearn for a community that respects the heritage of the earth and believes in a loving god-force.

You'll still find such tenants of course, in say a Greek village or a Tibetan one.  Or in a far-flung Island community.  I suppose sophistication has taken away our sense of joy and wonder, love and respect, for humanity.  The silly, cold mums at the school playground only concerned with their looks and 4x4's worry me not now.  My lack of shallowness and greed secured me from joining in their club, even though I had tried to go along with the whole yummy mummy thing when the kids were small.

If you're out there, declare yourself!

But where are the real new-age people?  The ones who want to nurture strong bonds with like-minded people?  If you're out there, declare yourself!  Don't just save your humanity for the seminar, the talk or the books!  Reach out and find that there are intelligent men and women who want to find another way of living without disappearing to a windy western Isle or joining a sect.

By: RA


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I also have this longing to live in genuine community that is inclusive rather than exclusive (eg. not sectarian, not practising just one, only right religion etc.), that supports suistanable ways of living. I do believe its possible to create such communities. Some years ago I experienced living in holistic school community from which I learned a lot. Would be happy to hear from like-minded people. My email igrekss@hotmail.co.uk
Be well!
*aikey  07-Feb-2010 13:47

 
I agree with everything you say, I am looking to live with people and families who think the same! Anyone interested? Email me on jennifer.l.d@blueyonder.co.uk Thanks.
*Jennifer  25-Jul-2009 20:37

 
I have walked the earth around the world for ten years and seen many such places where they live in balance. Yet I too wish to be a part of this somewhere within the UK. I agree and stand with you, But as you have asked.......where can we stand ? How can we know who and where ?
Thank you for your post.
*Gray Walker  04-Jul-2009 15:40

 
Spirituality does not pay the mortgage or the bills. Sprituality does not feed or clothe children. Spirituality does not ease one's worries or concerns. All it does is make you feel part of a "club", which in reality is no better than the cliques of mums at the school gates which the griper dislikes so much. Spirituality has an air of peace to it, but that peace is false and is thrown out the window whenever convenient. (Just look at the terror-strewn world we live in). Religion is hypocrisy and nobody dares admit it.
*Proud Aetheist  18-May-2009 12:06

 
I declare myself "IN" for any new conscious group starting or already living in such a community as RA suggests above. Contact me through my web www.NewEarthStar.com
*Rob (oneheart)  17-May-2009 21:01

 
During these times, it is increasing important to not seperarte ourselves from the general population. They need us to much. Sure it's nice to get away, but it can cost the earth. I also agree that we need mutaully suportive spiritual people around us too. Have you tried online communities? There are many and I have been a member of more than several. In my current two, I have found true spiritual friends. Well actually, I would say my true spiritual family. Come and have a nosey round at http://twinpsychics.ning.com/ or http://humanityhealing.ning.com/. I would like to ivite you to my page too at http://twinpsychics.ning.com/group/askanditshallbegiven. Good luck with your search.
Much love, gordon.
*Gordon.  05-May-2009 09:15

 
You can be spiritually in your own community, you don't need to head off to some far flung retreat, there are plenty of people amongst us who leave spiritually forfilled lives, take the Baha'i s and the Sikhs for example, they do good in our community's yet we barly see it or acknowledge it.
*Geordieracer82  22-Mar-2009 20:45

 
Hahahaha yes, I actually agree with that too. Being surrounded by nasty people can drag down almost anyone eventually, and can make it harder to develop to be able to resist them in the first place. You are right.
hmmm, but where to go? There are countless retreats and places to visit, but only for a short while, and those can be very expensive. And many of those places are based on recieving teachings or practicing certain activities, which isnt everyones cup of tea.
I suppose one thing that you could possibly do is see if your more spiritual friends would be interested in moving someplace at some stage, perhaps on a larger communal property.
Most people tend to attract others who think similar to themselves, so perhaps you could see if you could be introduced into one of your friends circle of other spiritual people.
Or you could simply move to Tibet or Nepal or Bhutan or something and be an english teacher, if you don't mind getting sick and losing a great deal of weight. Personally I find that a close circle of likeminded friends is very satisfying, and also the point of view that everyone is a human being with the same basic needs and desire to be happy helps me feel a connectedness to everyone, but maybe thats just me. Good luck! And dont give up!
*friend  25-Apr-2008 12:20

 
It's all very well, friend, to say that happiness comes from within; but it is also perfectly legitimate to want to live in a more caring & less materialistic society.
It is hard work to maintain personal happiness when living in a place where practically everyone around you has a very different outlook; RA is entitled to wish for happiness to be less hard work!
*grumpyoldwoman  30-Mar-2008 12:39

 
True happiness comes from a sense of peace and contentment, feeling compassion and loving kindness towards others. It has to come from within. You could move where you want but its more than likely that after a short while you will return to your normal level of happiness, which you are clearly not satisfied with. Change how you think, not where you are.
*friend  27-Mar-2008 02:47

 
D-D, you sound like a sanctimonious, moralising, egotistical, arrogant idiot. In fact, the exact oppostite to what I would view as 'spiritual'. People like you make me laugh! You're like the Pharisees who confronted Jesus with their 'holier than thou' attitude, and Jesus showed them up for the shallow idiots that they were. You do make me laugh so much!
*aer  22-Mar-2008 00:18

 
Stay on the road you're on, RA. Ignore critics who are part of the spoonfed system or blind to the higher values of life. I can't offer anything on alternative communities but it's more important (imo) to develop our own awareness and associate ourselves with what has greater meaning and purpose. Others can scoff and mock, but their shallowness and contentment in following social conditioning only shows naivete. Better to be insightful and find faith in one's self rather than the governments and institutions that ultimately lead us nowhere.

Sadly, this place isn't somewhere we can declare ourselves and make contact. Pity.
*D-D  18-Mar-2008 18:47


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