I still love unfaithful girlfriend

mate read my post (she moved her lover in)? I know what this is like.

Forget her man, she`s done the dirty on you once and she`ll do again, and your mates no better. They`re made for each other. You watch, I bet you have the last laugh.

My girlfriend did almost the same thing, in her own fathers house nonetheless. Then the parents and friend agreed not to tell me but my boys are my boys. She waited two weeks and it would have been longer but I called her on it because I got really drunk and lost my cool. She denied and kept denying but my boys don't lie and she finally admitted it. I still love her and the sex is great....so, if you want to hear the worst advice I have...here it is. String her along for a while, let the relationship build up, move in together and, when enough time has passed and she feels comfortable again....catch one of her friends and time it to where she will be walking in right when you are in the middle of it. Nothing is better than payback and it will give you something else to focus on besides the pain.

She's a woman. This is how they behave. Get used to it and assume they'll all do that to stop yourself pretending the "next one" will be any different.

What a truly horrible, manipulative person she appears to be! Best rid of her, methinks. Get on with your life, go out, meet new people and have fun.

Mate, forget her, she's gone black! Once you go black you never go back.

Kid, you're 20 years old, MOVE ON!! Go to law school and find someone else.

There's no truth in that "old saying" let the one you love go and if they come back they're yours for life (or, in this case, if they come running back after cheating on you), its just a pile of carp!!

Yeh, it'll be difficult to move on, especially if she's under your skin, but YOU ARE ONLY 20, move on. If she's cheated on you once she will do it again, when the going gets tough again down the road. When it comes to cheatin, women are no better then men! They feel guilty the first time, but then once it's in the blood there is no more guilt the second time and the third time and the fourth time and the fifth time etc etc etc... you get my drift?

MOVE ON, she "aint" worth it!

I've had her as well.
Just thought you should know.
Such a dirty girl.....

Hi, Look foward to your new career and don't waste time with someone who goes off with your friend.

What do you mean "strict militant family?" Anyway, I think you have started to recognise things about yourself that are maybe not all right? I wonder if this sort of thing is something you have only just started thinking about?

This is not unusual, however, what maybe sounding alarm bells in your mind is that there is actually quite a lot that you did not know about yourself. If you don't know yourself, your knowledge of others will be minimal too. This is not a good basis on which to commit to another person. I daresay your strict upbringing will have forced you to think of ways to try and bury your feelings about certain issues. Perhaps showing your feelings is something you have decided is not "cool?" However, as much as you may wish to have an outward appearance that verges on the robotic, on the inside I bet things are very different.

I wonder if your (former) partner was fed up with your reserved outward appearance, perhaps appearing to be someone unwilling to stand up for yourself when, say, your parents were treating you unfairly, for example? Try reading "They f*** you up" by Oliver James, for starters.

Elbow!!! simlple as that! Get over it , move on and forget...she's not worth the time or trouble.

I agree with that first post mate. Yer candle has just been lit and it will take more than one ill wind to blow her out. Learn a lesson, keep some dignity and move on. It would probably be a good idea also to sever all contact with this person, change your phone etc.