I still love unfaithful girlfriend
05-July-2009
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My girlfriend and I had steady relationship for two years, ever since our senior year in high school.  We both loved each other the entire time, but in being from a strictly militant family, I was hesitant to show all but the smallest signs of affection.  I rarely told her I loved her, but all the same, I know I did love her.  In this, I am guilty... not showing my girlfriend the amount of time and affection she deserved.

Time passed, and we were getting close to our two-year anniversary.  Everything seemed to be going well, even according to people close to both her and myself.  The only thing that really changed was the fact that she started hanging out a LOT more with a guy from her work, who also happened to be a friend of mine.  I thought nothing of it, sure that that there was nothing wrong with our relationship.

I still love unfaithful girlfriend

Desperate measures failed to get girlfriend back...

I was wrong apparently.  In the early hours of Sunday morning on October 7th, she called me and informed me that she was currently sleeping with (literally) my friend Mikey.  She went on to cry a small amount, and informed me that we were over, and that she didn't wish to speak to me for a while.  Even my most desperate of measures failed to get my girlfriend back, even though I now realize that those measures probably appeared to be a bit stalker like.

The heart of the entire matter is, though, she still seems to want to contact me, no matter what she says.  At least once a day, I get a text from her complaining about something that went wrong when we were together, but she said she didn't wish to speak for a while.  She also doesn't seem happy with this new guy.

All in all, I still love her dearly and I was going to ask her to move out with me when I go to law school, a drastic move for a 20 year old!  Even now, she still claims she is single, even when her "boyfriend" says otherwise.  She did something horrible to me, and yet I still want her back.  What do I do?

By: Troubled


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You need to forget her. you can easily move on and find a better girl. Look truth is, once someone takes that huge risk and cheats then they'll do it again. Yea, she might want you back -- but you shouldn't want her. think about it -- she risked losing you once.. what makes you so sure she won;t do it again.. And even if you do get back together with her.. you're always going to imagine the time she cheated on you. Trust me, you will. and that'll cause more problems. You gotta move on -- she did! And I don't think you wanna start hearing how you're girlfriend was in bed from this guy or other ones that she may repeat this with. Move on.
*move along..  17-Jun-2009 06:58

 
Hi man! Hey the first thing that you have to do is take a deep breath and relax. Them think it carefully. . . . If she has done one time, she would do more. . . You should forget about her, get over about the relationship. . . . It's not good for noone lo love somebody who don't love you. Come on men, move on!
*Renzo  14-Apr-2009 16:46

 
Well in my opinion dont think shes all that bad, your both only young these things happen!
I think she texts you to try & convince herself you were to blame but you seem aware that affectionate side is a little shy......have you thought about this would you be prepared to change for her or if you move on do you think cahnge is needed hmmmm im so nosey.
*chelle  30-Mar-2009 09:43

 
Dear Troubled
Run away from this woman as fast as you can. I lived with a liar for 13 years and kept forgiving him and he still lies and cheats. He has a penchant for sleaze, porn and strangers. He cries when another lie has been revealed and promises to change his ways but he never has. This is my husband, my partner.

Love it seems to have evaded me. Watch closely and ensure you know your next partner before giving your heart. This girl doesn't deserve a person as lovely as you.
*Leave her  19-Jan-2009 09:44

 
Everyone will have hundreds of girls they love and lose, and then the next girl they find they love even more and so on. Just take it as a life experience (face it, life is s**t!) and move on.
And keep going with the Law School thing, im hopefully going to study law at uni in september so concentrate on that, and make a killing. Then the b*tch will wish she never screwed you around.
*Bar-hopeful  05-Jan-2009 13:55

 
Thats really cute. Sometimes it works when you dont give up but sometimes its too much pain.
*P-J-TRASH  01-Dec-2008 22:50

 
Really forget her, because she didn't love you to do that thing she did. You must to go on and try to forget all respect her 'cause she hurt you a lot and she don't deserve you.
*Carolina  26-Oct-2008 01:21

 
your silly. let her go sell her ass without you in the picture
*jake. been cheated on.  09-Oct-2008 03:09

 
mate read my post (she moved her lover in)? I know what this is like.
*Dave  28-Apr-2008 18:18

 
Forget her man, she`s done the dirty on you once and she`ll do again, and your mates no better. They`re made for each other. You watch, I bet you have the last laugh.
*WRIGHTY  05-Apr-2008 15:19

 
My girlfriend did almost the same thing, in her own fathers house nonetheless. Then the parents and friend agreed not to tell me but my boys are my boys. She waited two weeks and it would have been longer but I called her on it because I got really drunk and lost my cool. She denied and kept denying but my boys don't lie and she finally admitted it. I still love her and the sex is great....so, if you want to hear the worst advice I have...here it is. String her along for a while, let the relationship build up, move in together and, when enough time has passed and she feels comfortable again....catch one of her friends and time it to where she will be walking in right when you are in the middle of it. Nothing is better than payback and it will give you something else to focus on besides the pain.
*Third Time Not Charm  20-Mar-2008 03:28

 
She's a woman. This is how they behave. Get used to it and assume they'll all do that to stop yourself pretending the "next one" will be any different.
*Nick  05-Dec-2007 16:50


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