I still love unfaithful girlfriend

Graham you say that these videos are all about telling men how they should treat women and not telling women how they should treat men well why on earth doyou think its you men what has to be told??????????????????????????

Sunshine, I found your comment below quite intelligent and interesting. I went on to youtube To checkout this "five languages of love". There is a good deal of content on there regarding the FLOL and I have just viewed about seven different videos for about an hour or so. I really must say this, they are all 100% biased in the favour of women, It is all about how men should act and behave in order to please women. Relationships are a 50/50 thing so perhaps women should consider that they also need to learn how men feel and what their needs are in a relationship.

Forgive her...get her back...She wasn´t sure if you loved her because you weren´t expressive. Grils need someone to show them love..by hugging, touching, kissing, loving...Study the five Love Languages and you will know what I mean. If you love her, make an effort and ask her back. Perhaps she repented...Yet, of course, make sure she won´t cheat on you again. Ask her to decide. That it´s got to be a decision between both of you. For example, when you plant a seed, you can´t leave the seed without water or sun. Likewise, the seed of love (excuse me for being corny) must be nurtured with care and attention. Both of you must cooperate..or else, the seed of love will eventually wilt. This philosophy of God´s love has worked for in my relationship. God loves you. He is like a very nice Daddy if you really get to know Him through Christ. After understanding this, you are able to love your girl and be wise to make good decisions.

You need to forget her. you can easily move on and find a better girl. Look truth is, once someone takes that huge risk and cheats then they'll do it again. Yea, she might want you back -- but you shouldn't want her. think about it -- she risked losing you once.. what makes you so sure she won;t do it again.. And even if you do get back together with her.. you're always going to imagine the time she cheated on you. Trust me, you will. and that'll cause more problems. You gotta move on -- she did! And I don't think you wanna start hearing how you're girlfriend was in bed from this guy or other ones that she may repeat this with. Move on.

Hi man! Hey the first thing that you have to do is take a deep breath and relax. Them think it carefully. . . . If she has done one time, she would do more. . . You should forget about her, get over about the relationship. . . . It's not good for noone lo love somebody who don't love you. Come on men, move on!

Well in my opinion dont think shes all that bad, your both only young these things happen!
I think she texts you to try & convince herself you were to blame but you seem aware that affectionate side is a little shy......have you thought about this would you be prepared to change for her or if you move on do you think cahnge is needed hmmmm im so nosey.

Dear Troubled
Run away from this woman as fast as you can. I lived with a liar for 13 years and kept forgiving him and he still lies and cheats. He has a penchant for sleaze, porn and strangers. He cries when another lie has been revealed and promises to change his ways but he never has. This is my husband, my partner.

Love it seems to have evaded me. Watch closely and ensure you know your next partner before giving your heart. This girl doesn't deserve a person as lovely as you.

Everyone will have hundreds of girls they love and lose, and then the next girl they find they love even more and so on. Just take it as a life experience (face it, life is s**t!) and move on.
And keep going with the Law School thing, im hopefully going to study law at uni in september so concentrate on that, and make a killing. Then the b*tch will wish she never screwed you around.

Thats really cute. Sometimes it works when you dont give up but sometimes its too much pain.

Really forget her, because she didn't love you to do that thing she did. You must to go on and try to forget all respect her 'cause she hurt you a lot and she don't deserve you.

mate read my post (she moved her lover in)? I know what this is like.

Forget her man, she`s done the dirty on you once and she`ll do again, and your mates no better. They`re made for each other. You watch, I bet you have the last laugh.