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Still guilty according to the CSA

Some time ago I wrote a story about how the CSA made me guilty until proven innocent.  It is now two years on and I have had just about enough of the situation.

A fair number of you literally thought I was evil because I said that the problem is her fault and not mine.  Well I decided to take your advice people.  I went to the CSA and said I want a DNA paternity test so I will know for sure whether or not I am the father.  Maybe then I could have some sort of normality back in my life and perhaps be a father to a child (because society makes you?)

Two years later and about 40 plus letters - still no solution.  To really top it all off the CSA have given my details out to the PWC (parent with care); my address, telephone number, even my place of work and current salary.  The PWC has contacted me and called me all the names under the sun; she said I'm just stalling the CSA and telling them to stop bothering me.  All this despite the fact that all the letters I have sent have merely said that I want a DNA test as soon as possible. Not once have I stalled them or used stalling tactics - I JUST want a DNA test!

The CSA has also demanded that I pay £3,000 one month, then £4,000 to be paid in 7 days or it will effect my credit rating and my home maybe repossessed.

All I want is a DNA paternity test

Even after many pointless conversations and complaints, the CSA still wont listen and still wont help in resolving the matter.  I have done everything in my power to sort out the issue, going to court is the last option and one I really don't like the sound of.

I have actually moved home out of safety concerns for myself and my family.  As I said in my previous story, I don't know this girl, she appears to be hell bent on lying to the CSA and maybe she is the root of the problem?

It doesn't matter what you do, run and hide, or hit them head on with all the advice and morality in the world; you're still treated like a criminal, you're still fighting a ghost and a faceless system!  The child isn't even going to be three this year and I can just see him turning thirteen before this problem is ever resolved.

By: thefox01

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I like the camron making women pay for the csa as now most of them will not use the csa .i have that problem csa taking my money without evidence and the woman refusing a dna test yet they still take my money even though I was not in the uk from 2001 to 2004 I sent them evidence of that as the kid was born in 2003 and iv never met the woman in my life I have a baby and partner yet they dont care about that only that all women stick togaver thats why we dont have female world leaders thank god

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omen can pick and choose the - 20-Apr-11 17:11 

I can sympathise with thefox01 as I have been hounded by the CSA for the past 16 years for 2 children. I challenged the paternity at the time due to my belief that my ex was promiscious but the CSA DNA test offered was £500 per child. I couldn't afford to live on my own never mind taking a gamble and paying out, at that time. Anyway after years of faithful paying and the CSA helping themselves to my wages and even claiming arrears (even though I've paid by direct from earnings and direct debit) I finally see the DIY paternity test arrive. Okay its not admissable with the CSA but it would have given me the courage to fight them. I don't believe it would have changed my relationship with the kids even if they weren't mine as the doubts always there but I wouldn't just stop seeing them. It would however expose what the mother did to me. I caught her in bed with someone else but then its only my word against hers and history is written by the victor, isn't it.

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Jim - 6-Feb-11 22:16 

Hi, the BBC is working on a story about DNA paternity kits being sold in a high street shop from next week. We're looking for people to give us their views on this, and whether they think it could make a difference. If you're interested - please email anthony.baxter@bbc.co.uk for more information.

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Anthony - 28-Jan-11 14:09 

wtf this is all a bit scary I just been told that the girl I was seeing is pregnant she was sleeping with everyone when I was seeing her and now shes saying that the baby is mine and wants me to pay for it is this even leagal what should I do she told me she couldnt get pregnant ?

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darthstorm - 9-Nov-10 18:37 

why dont you just pay the money!! at the end of the day this COULD be your child and you havent paid a penny in two years!! that is harsh and why dont you just pay for a private test - you get the results in a week.
I dont feel any sympathy towards you. sorry but you need to actually stopped moaning about it online and sort it out

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Wassup - 20-Sep-10 16:02 

hello sorry my boyfriend is thinking of running away to Thailand because his ex-partner has called the csa and they are demanding 16grand and his house .do u think they will find him there? is there an advice you could give to him please

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stacey - 22-Aug-10 12:15 

sorry I got it wrong, im so stuuuuuupid!
they do not give out personal details such as addresses. its called the data protection act.

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fcukcsa - 28-Jul-10 12:22 

If they tell the residential perant your detials like address and where you work they have breached your human rights, specificaly, but not limited to your right to a private life.
Your exact detials of where you live work has no bearing on there case so they should not have disclosed this infomation.

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fcukcsa - 9-Jul-10 22:42 

What 3 companys do they accept DNA tests from? thanks for the information

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JLIVERPOOL - 5-Jul-10 08:06 

Like the police have stitched up people in the past the CSA is much worse, it's mostly run by bitter twisted evil man hating corrupt women, thats why they will only accept results from three UK DNA labs, once they have started tapping your paycheck, there's no going back.

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Stitched up dad? - 25-May-10 08:24 

I think I might not be the father to my son... will csa stop taking money from me? will I get all the money I paid out back?

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JLIVERPOOL - 24-May-10 13:32 

I have seen some tricks on here, but how do you fill in your own times on your post as in the out of time sync postings below?

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? - 23-Apr-10 21:21 

As I said before, it's the same old song that you always sing. Why not give it a rest?

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! - 22-Apr-10 23:46 

The baby is his,
When it comes to money,
But it's suddenly yours,
When it comes to access.

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CSA worker - 22-Apr-10 23:25 

CSA worker..... what about the women that have affairs, kick the men out of their own houses then nail the fathers that have done nothing wrong with the CSA anyway for the money?

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Chris. - 22-Apr-10 22:31 

One with completely new lyrics would be just fine thanks. Heard your usual one so many, many times and its getting old.

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! - 21-Apr-10 23:56 

Oh sing a new song why dont you? Sick self pitying loser

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! - 21-Apr-10 23:22 

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The freeloader - 21-Apr-10 22:33 

I think I might not be the father to my son... will csa stop taking money from me? will I get all the money I paid out back?

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Jliverpool - 31-Mar-10 13:58 

Jason p, and anyone else in similar circumstances, be very carefull, they may know what you earn, and instead of taking cash of you now, they may be charging you £150-00 per week non-compliance behind your back, they did that with me and I got a very big bill off them a few years down the line, they may also be waiting until you are settled down with a new woman, child and mortgaged house, before sending out a big nasty bill, and putting a charge on your house if you have one. just trying to make people aware of the tricks they can get up to.

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Broadsword. - 26-Mar-10 20:16 

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