Elderly people assume teenagers are yobs
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What is really very annoying is the self-righteous and sometimes pitying nature of some of this elderly people in society, particularly towards teenagers and youngsters.

Elderly people assume teenagers are yobs

After school, I get a public bus home which normally takes an hour; it's usually quite crowded so I often find myself standing up for most of the journey.  I get the bus alone so I usually just listen to my iPod.  However I am frequently greeted with frowns and angry faces by the elderly people on the bus.

I'm always polite to elderly people and often let them go past me and sit down.  I remember my manners, but they always seem to have the attitude of 'Teenager, she must be a yob, want to steal from me or be rude'.  This is something I would never do and it’s actually quite upsetting some of the comments I hear.

Earlier this year I was in a car accident.  I was in the front seat and I don't want to go into long details, but my leg was partially crushed and my bones shattered.  I now walk with a limp even though I'm fourteen and standing for long periods of time (even just ten minutes) is actually quite painful.  The bones have not healed and recently I have got an infection from one of the leg wounds which makes it almost impossible to walk or even stand properly.

Whenever I can get a seat on the bus I always sit down, I feel awful sometimes leaving an elderly man or something to stand, but I have my own disability too.  Just because I am a teenager, that doesn't mean that I don't feel pain in the same way that someone their age can.  I quite often get berated for sitting down and on one occasion even grabbed on the shoulder by one of the elderly folk with a 'No respect' or 'How horrible and disobedient to leave someone else standing when you're fine'.

I always try and explain that I have my own disability, but often I am told that I'm just a yob and I must be lying.  There was me thinking that a yob was someone who broke windows, stole cars, mugged people and was generally a nuisance.  Apparently a schoolgirl in pain who simply wants to rest her foot is now a yob too!

If there was someone in terrible pain or more in need than myself then I would definitely offer up the seat, but please don’t discriminate purely on the basis of how old someone looks.

By: Annaliese


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What you all seem to forget is that first impressions mean alot.

Take for example, if you were to meet a girl in a night club etc, and she was acting all sketty and you thought "god shes ugly / dirty / smelly"... no matter how sweet that lass is, you would always see her as that horrid thing....

So the elderly who have had one bad experiance with all these Chavs on our streets these days do not make a good name the younger generation - therefore it is US, The "youngsters" who are tarnishing ourselves with the yob brush.

Have you ever sat with an elderly person and talked to them about how they feel about younger people?

I think you will learn alot.

oh and im not an elderly myself, im 23...
*Splodge  09-Feb-2010 12:33

 
What you all seem to forget is that first impressions mean alot.

Take for example, if you were to meet a girl in a night club etc, and she was acting all sketty and you thought "god shes ugly / dirty / smelly"... no matter how sweet that lass is, you would always see her as that horrid thing....

So the elderly who have had one bad experiance with all these Chavs on our streets these days do not make a good name the younger generation - therefore it is US, The "youngsters" who are tarnishing ourselves with the yob brush.

Have you ever sat with an elderly person and talked to them about how they feel about younger people?

I think you will learn alot.

oh and im not an elderly myself, im 23...
*Splodge  09-Feb-2010 11:41

 
I have had similar experiences to Annaliese, and I can assure you - sometimes smiling makes no difference at all. Some old people are just cruel. Some aren't, but some are, and it's the one's that are who have (because they demand it) the highest public profile. Cruel people can be any age - but those that are elderly do seem to make themselves known to others more as the nasty pieces of work that they are...
*Nichola  27-Jan-2010 01:02

 
If you only look out for bad things that is all you will see and get , try looking for the positive you will be surprised at what you see and get, There is an old saying that you reap what you sow and if you walk roung with an angry face then it rubs off try smiling it works wonders,
(recovering pessamist)
*GM  14-Jan-2010 09:25

 
lol I know what you mean. I asked an old lay if she knew the right time cos my watch had stopped and she looked at me like I was going to mug her.
*Alexa  07-Sep-2009 14:39

 
Mr Hicks, a word of advice, be very careful what you say about the BNP, it's not unheard of for IP addresses to be traced.
*Jack  03-Sep-2009 15:50

 
I was just about to say that you are obviously not a yob, KM, unfortunately Hickhead got in before me and now will accuse me of something or other and tell you that I don't mean it! Just ignore him.

I do mean it and I do know that not all teenagers are yobs, I just criticise the ones who are! Keep up the good work.
*grumpyoldwoman  04-Aug-2009 12:02

 
Well done KM, I applaud you,
A lot of people on this site seem to take great pleasure in knocking todays youth but they are just grumpyoldwotsits and BNP bigots. There is nothing wrong with todays youth, in fact quite a lot is quite right!
*Mr Hicks  04-Aug-2009 11:13

 
I'm a:
Voluntary youth worker
Peer leader
General volunteer for Kent Youth
NHS smoking advisor for young people
Fully trained mentor
Medway youth service Evalutor

Now guess my age, if you guessed 18 you would be right.
*KM  04-Aug-2009 10:50

 
Old people want some peace after retiring I konw they seem to hold a grudge agaisnt us we should sighn a peace treety with them lol :)
*Benito D'Amore  22-Jun-2009 13:03

 
tell me about it, I was travelling back home on a bus when an old lady got on, I gave up my seat, then instead of thanking me, or at least smiling, she gave me the dirtiest look you could imagine, as if i'd just swore at her or something
*brucie  19-Jun-2009 21:20

 
I totally agree, when a person gets to 65-70 they become a burnden on society. They should be stuck in a circus and have stuff thrown at them. Or my personal favourite, blended into a fine paste and served to prisoners. I'll tell you what, I would never commit a crime.

Win Win all round wouldn't you agree.
*karlosthejackel  20-May-2009 15:31


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