Young, naive and trusting

Being in a similar situation (but more from the start not towards the end) I can certainly see both sides to this argument. No man is entirely blameless in this situation no matter what they say. Young and naive and trusting...I certainly was but it usually takes 2 to create the situation. The area is very grey regarding the ethics of who's fault it is.

In this situation you can't get bogged down about what other people think about you, especially if they have so low morals as to deliberately get pregnant like that.

what a load of bollocks....''forced'' the lad was 18 you idiot! big enough an should have been wise enugh to make up his own mind! he made a mistake now hes paying for it. you wernt even on the scene at the time so how dare you judge thia girl?? silly cow

"If men in the uk had the option to opt out completely of their off-springs financial support, this burden would fall upon the tax payer."

When "male abortion" reaches the UK Im sure you men would galdly accept it.

I can hear it now "Yes!! No child support or contact with my child/ren until I feel like it".

Men are so funny. And you and I both know Im right because if you give men the oppurtunity to do something they will do it. That's why we have laws to protect women and children from you guys.

Just because Im a girl you're underestimating me.

Hilarious!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Men stand up for their family?! Ha!

The same is in America if you haven't heard.

Its called Child Support too and if the men opted out the burden too would fall on us taxpayer.

Florida girl,
Male abortion may work for america,But here in britain,by law, the biological father is required to contribute towards the childs upkeep(the enforcement agency for this is called the child support agency)if men in the uk had the option to opt out completely of their off-springs financial support,this burden would fall upon the tax payer.

I think you need to read a lot more about "male abortion".

Sooner or later the law will get passed and more than half of the American population will be fatherless.

Unless women are careful.

Read what people are saying about it. Either they disagree with the plan or agree with it.

Florida girl,I have checked out "male abortion".I have to disagree with it,a man should be a man and stand up to his responsibilities.men do not need male rights activists.If they want children they can simply throw away thier condoms.

Oh yes of course they do that's why almost half of americans don't know who their dads are and that will increase.

Have you ever heard of "Male Abortion"?

Of course you haven't.

You should check it out and tell me what you think about it Mr. Hicks.

Even some women stand up for it.

Im sure the woman that wrote this article word agree with the "male abortion".

Oh and what "superficial level" do you speak of?

Men only stand up for each other on a very superficial Level.When it comes to fatherhood and Family they quite rightly stand up for their family.

I posted this in the last thread...Screw men!!!!

And as for the person who wrote this...imagine you're young and your dad's girlfriend said "leave her". I bet you'd be pretty upset. That happened to my friend's mom.

That's what you're doing.

But whatever. I don't understand how a woman can stand up for men who have no respect for women and so on.

At least there's something cool about men. THEY STAND UP FOR EACHOTHER.

I say....give men choice and good riddance. Make sure your hubby doesn't change his mind in the future and asks to see his child and when she gets older make sure she doesn't look for him either.

This scenario happened to me. My ex girlfriend lied about taking the pill too, told her friends that she was pregnant before me and when she did tell me, all she wanted was her key back. She said all I was was a bit of fun. She dropped me and did not want me to be a full time dad as I asked her to reconsider our relationship. In week 9 of the pregnancy she wanted to meet me to discuss how much I was paying her for maintainance! A mutual "friend" also took it upon herself to broadcast this all at my workplace and I was and still am, seen as the bloke who abandoned his pregnant girlfriend and child, despite what I say.

haha u actually believe that story!!!! why didnt he have his own condoms?? suppose she brought them already open and put it on him herself! how gulible are you! he made a mistake so get on with it!