Moving home is far too stressful

too true,how anyone manages to buy a house in this country is beyond me

Dear people!
Whatever you do, try never to move just before Christmas like I did in 2006.
My buyers went away, my solicitor went away, there was no one to even assure me that the
whole deal would not collapse.
I did move eventually, but the stress nearly ki11ed me!

It took me nearly two years to sell my newly renovated house, (helped ultimately by a huge drop in price), and by the end I was so heartily sick of the whole process that I was even prepared to allow the buyer a little extra off after his surveyor (confirmed by a free damp survey) found. a few damp patches. I am in the process of buying another house, and despite it being a probate sale with no chain and me being a cash buyer, I was given a completion date that worked out at 8 weeks. The vendor is keen to get his hands on his late fathers money, and the EA even asked me to instruct my (very good) solicitor asap, and STILL it will take at least 8 weeks. Four weeks to completion only seems possible if its done without any of the so-called professionals being involved.

I really do know how you all feel. We sold our house in October 09 and were told our buyer was ready to proceed, What a Joke, He didn't even have a mortgage in place!! We are now almost in Feb 2010 and still waiting. We were told yesterday by our Estate Agent that all was sorted and we could expect a phone call from our solicitior to confirm Exchange and completion Dates. I did get a call from my solicitor saying the enquiries with our buyers Estate management company have still not been answered !! And Estate Agents wonder why the are disliked so much !!

Rabbid Gerbil obviously thinks that ALL homebuyers are thick if they can be persuaded to pay out on the biggest investment of their lives by something an Estate Agent says they should buy! I've had many letters of thanks as well as flowers and chocolates because I've got time, experience and patience to help the people I deal with. Unfortunately having worked for both corporates and independents the corporates are so governed by targets that the agent is forced to work within rigid parameters and is definitely not employed to think, working for independents is like a breath of fresh air because you are actually allowed to treat the customer as a person in their own right instead of a target figure.

My experience as has shown me that choosing the right solicitor will make a major difference in how stressed you get over delays. Don't ever go with a solicitor recommended by the estate agent, use work of mouth and ask work colleagues of their good/bad experiences with local solicitors. As a general rule, a solicitor that an estate agent recommends will be a "herder". That is, they herd clients in and out on mass, are very impersonal and no amount of pushing will make them go any faster or keep you updated properly. Avoid like the plague. Going with a local solicitor will most likely allow you to visit them, they will meet you face-to-face, and you'll get a vibe of who you are dealing with. Knowing that you can just pop-in and harass them will make them more likely to work for you.

The job of an estate agent is to sell a house, whatever house they think they can sell you. They are Sales People with the title of "Estate Agent". In terms of their opinion of value, it should always be taken with a pinch of salt and would give compulsive liars a run for their money. "oooh we've got lots of interest in this property" as they wipe the cobwebs from the door, and "ooh this is such a good deal for a house this size" as you stroll through something that would double up as an stone shed. Always do your homework as a buyer and compare the property you like to anything similar with a different estate agen.

I have now been an Estate Agent for 25 years and I could write a book about the p***s I have dealt with in that time. People who want access to the main roads and railways but don't want to hear them, people who ask for a rural location but say its too far out, people who want to be near a school but don't like the sound of children, money grabbing vendors who think their house is better than anyone elses, who dump one purchaser for another because they can make more money, money grabbing purchasers who want to knock the price just before exchange. The list is endless. But always remember something, when you as the 'Great British Public' are sodding about playing people off against each other your poor estate agent is just trying to earn a living like anyone else. The difference is if you go to work you expect to get paid regardless of the amount of work you do an Estate Agent can work his socks off but if he is dealing with a w***y seller or buyer he doesn't get paid anything.

I last moved house 6 years ago and like the original 'griper' this took a year to do.Fron April 2000 to March 2001. Initially things were very slow which to a point suited us as we still had a few things to do. The 1st buyer cam liked it made an offer close to what we were askign all went well for 2 weeks and he dissapeared, never seen again 2nd came and wanted the huse for her older family, refused and didn't make on offer because it was too far to walk to get where the car would be parked (25 yards).
Several others came made sill offers so were refused. One couple came like the house made an acceptable offer we accepted, and things started to move. After a month they re-visited looked around again and started picking holes in the decor, new kitchen, bathroom tiles (all new) and made a fresh offer 10 grand less. Refused
Eventually an airline pilot came saw it gave us our asking price and we moved. 11 months and 17 days from when we put it up for sale.
Estate Agent - brilliant! Could not have done without him.

Property owners are nothing but conned in this country. House ownership is nothing but an abrogation by society of its reponsibility to house people adequately and reasonably.

"Cheap housing for key workers" what does that really mean?

It means that if you are not defined as being a "key-worker" you will be ripped-off.

The "key-worker" is also going to be ripped off, but they may be unaware of it for the moment.

Oh yes, a nightmare. This is my ninth home . We have lived here 3 years and did a quick sale by part-exing our semi for this detached- just to get away from bad neighbours-again! The only hold-up was the kid nextdoor smashing the windows while it was empty! Happily it stopped after we moved in.

Me too - house went on market August 2005, sold in December, fell through in January, resold in March and it took us until June to find somewhere to buy. We finally moved on 8 September.

Playing estate agents off against each other is a good ploy - that way you can beat their commission rates down. I managed 1% plus VAT, which is pretty cheap around here, and for that money I even had them doing a mail shot to selected properties when we couldn't find anything we wanted to buy!

Moving home is a nightmare and there's absolutely no questioning that at all. They say it is one of the most stressful things you can do and with estate agents, solicitors etc. mucking you around you could end up being banged up.

I have been trying to sell my bungalow but it is in such bad condition and with the house prices shooting up no onw will buy it!
It is valued at: £150,000
One bedroom, Kitchen, Lounge and Lesbo Room

My house is on the market for the third time in three years each and every time the sale has fallen though due to the incompetence of either the agent or the solicitor. (Thanks to Goodfellows Cheam)

I'm selling at the moment and really wish I wasnt, to avoid the hideousness of the commission estate agents I went with a pay up front lot from bethnal green - well they'd been featured on London tonight so I thought they would be ok. They took my cash and never did a thing.. terrible situation. I will end up paying a proper agent to do the business.

I so wish that the majority of estate agents and property lawyers were not a bunch of incompetant twits but sadly they are. They lie and manipulate the truth and blame each other for the hold ups. Come on guys why not just admit you are crap and pay some compensation instead of spending our money on your nosebag....... you might even function better

O my God - i'm just about to put my house on the market. And now i'm really dreading it.

I has surveyors from Halifax survey my house from there office.. I had solicitor sit on a Morgage reply for 3months and all this person had to do is return a phone call. There should be a law on the speed of these people. Just think if you took that long in tesco.. or buying a car.. Its so wrong!!