Teenage girls that get pregnant
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I am fed up with young girls going out and getting pregnant and then ruining someones life when they decide the time is right to point the finger. Hello - is anyone else sick and tired of this same old story? |
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I have been going out with my boyfriend 3 years and he gets a brown envelope saying he is the father of a 3 year old!! I am at my wits end. He now has to do a DNA paternity testApparently my partner had a one night drunken stand and she actually had the kid, he has now had to do a DNA paternity test which costs £290, and now she is putting her DNA test off. His sample has been done but not hers, so what is the point? In a way it will be kind of amusing if it is discovered that my boyfriend isn’t the father, but do you think we will get any kind of apology either from the CSA or this young woman? Somehow I think not! |
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It is a sad state of affairs really. I have a seven year old and have to work. I am now 35 years old and my mother would have disowned me if I had got pregnant at 16 just to get off working or to get a council house! What is this country coming to where girls can have one night stands and point the finger. It is completely unfair and thanks to this stupid girl our relationship is rapidly going down hill as we are both so upset! I really think these stupid young girls should not get a penny or any kind of financial support because in my opinion they are just leeches on society! By: SJ |
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Christy, what I said makes perfect sense if you have a good grasp of English.
Never mind, just point us in the direction of the comment you quoted; where someone said that all teenage girls "go out and get pregnant to avoid working or get a council house", as that is what you are criticising us for. Who generalised it as all?
And no, I don't have a problem. Jealous?
Never mind, just point us in the direction of the comment you quoted; where someone said that all teenage girls "go out and get pregnant to avoid working or get a council house", as that is what you are criticising us for. Who generalised it as all?
And no, I don't have a problem. Jealous?
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grumpyoldwoman - 15-Dec-11 14:53
Because you know it's true?...
God, stop rambling, that didn't make any sense.
God, stop rambling, that didn't make any sense.
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Christy, if the "all" came from whoever you were quoting it should have been inside the quotation marks. As it stands the "all" is yours.
So who were you quoting anyway? One person who said all? Or several posters? I assumed the "all" was yours as I can't see a post where anyone else says "all".
As to your childish remark on another gripe, well I'm not going to bother with a reply.
So who were you quoting anyway? One person who said all? Or several posters? I assumed the "all" was yours as I can't see a post where anyone else says "all".
As to your childish remark on another gripe, well I'm not going to bother with a reply.
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grumpyoldwoman - 14-Dec-11 17:50
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Yes, SOME do. But it was generalized as ALL.
Yes, SOME do. But it was generalized as ALL.
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"Young mothers don't all "go out and get pregnant to avoid working or get a council house"."
Christy who said ALL of them do? SOME do without a doubt. Who are you calling naive?
Christy who said ALL of them do? SOME do without a doubt. Who are you calling naive?
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grumpyoldwoman - 18-Oct-11 07:04
Young mothers don't all "go out and get pregnant to avoid working or get a council house". Jeeeeez! People with your level of naivety just drive me insane.
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You say protection was used, so the girl didnt get pregnant on purpose! You sound like nasty selfish person & I have no sympathy whatsoever!
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you didnt have to tell us about your partner I already guessed by the bitterness of your rant, heres the thing- try telling your partner to wear a condom! have you thought this girl actually had the baby because she doesnt agree with abortion? your an idiot, your a single parent yourself and you have the nerve to gripe at this single mother because *bing bang boom* your partner could be the daddy! well get a brain jealous whole and try holding yoyr partner reaponsible for not wearing a hat in the first place, idiot!
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columbo, sometimes I agree with G Lad's opinions and sometimes I disagree; but at least he has some and doesn't just post for the sake of it when he has nothing to say! The posts he mentioned are difficult to read; I just about fathomed out tequila's but cannot be bothered to wade through olderandwiser's.
Lisa, you hit the nail on the head there. There are so many forms of contraception freely available these days that it is almost a conscious choice not to use any and risk getting preganant. And why on earth did tequila's daughter have the baby under those circumstances?
Lisa, you hit the nail on the head there. There are so many forms of contraception freely available these days that it is almost a conscious choice not to use any and risk getting preganant. And why on earth did tequila's daughter have the baby under those circumstances?
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grumpyoldwoman - 27-Sep-10 14:10
gainsborough lad how many times do you need to be told.....no one is interested in YOUR opinion!
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@Gainsbourough, Im not sure about olderandwiser, but tequila pretty much said that their daughter got pregnant at 18 as the withdrawl method doesnt work, but she's a smart kid. Can you spot the contradiction in that? I can
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My finace was nailed also to a child after they had a one or two night drunk night.. 14 years ago, he ahd to pay child support and the DNA etc even though there were 3 others also.. this woman had three children taken away from her and also this child but then got him back when he was three?? why not sure... my fiance has not and does not want to see the child becuase of her, yes that is sad.. but fathers should have a right also to opt out.. he wore protection and it still happened she made the choice to keep the child he did not want anymore her had two with his ex wife... he is a terrific father to his adult kids and also to my two.. it is the choice he made not to have another kid but he still pays his child support and has 3 years yet.. Fathers always get the bad rap even though I think they should have more rights to see or not to see the child..and the mn laws are so backwords the child should have never gone back to a unfit mother anyway.. and now the child has so many issues due to her it is not even funny from what I hear.. sad sad all the way around...
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olderandwiser - 21-Sep-10 21:38
My daughter just had her baby a month ago due to a short term relationship if you can even call it that.. she is 18 and the father wants a DNA test also.. she will have to pay for it if she was on the county assist, but she is not she will have to pay for it.. but she is not sure she wants him even involved . she canot even get assitance in mn due to she lives with my ex and he has to much assets which we do not help her she pays for her stuff, foes to work and also is going to school in Jan.. she is a smart girl but the withdrawl method does not work if any of you out there thinks it does... She has every right not to do a DNA test since she is not on the county and im not sure if I want him involoved either in her life.. but not all girls do it to point the finger at someone.. just sayin
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A levels aren't A levels now. Degrees are not degrees. Having a degree now only says that you are probably middle class.
To get either of these awards, you only need to spell your name correctly on your exam paper. If you get that wrong, the award may go to someone else.
To get either of these awards, you only need to spell your name correctly on your exam paper. If you get that wrong, the award may go to someone else.
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for someone with A levels and a degree M's grammar and spelling isn't all that top notch - sorry that's one of my pet peeves!
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M, it sounds like you really have issues about your situation. SJ has a right to express how she feels. Her circumstances are just as unnerving for her as yours must have been for you!
Also, how proper IS it for a 16 year old to get pregnant? And what does it say about her parents? It says they didn't care enough to EDUCATE HER to the finer things in life - which includes: DON'T GET PREGGERS at 16 and UNMARRIED! So pipe down, M. Sorry it happened like that to you, it was probably more your parents' fault than the boy/man you were with and your hormones, but will - it is NOT a SMART thing to do - and if your parents had talked with you and EDUCATED YOU - chances are you wouldn't have made such a dumb decision.
Also, how proper IS it for a 16 year old to get pregnant? And what does it say about her parents? It says they didn't care enough to EDUCATE HER to the finer things in life - which includes: DON'T GET PREGGERS at 16 and UNMARRIED! So pipe down, M. Sorry it happened like that to you, it was probably more your parents' fault than the boy/man you were with and your hormones, but will - it is NOT a SMART thing to do - and if your parents had talked with you and EDUCATED YOU - chances are you wouldn't have made such a dumb decision.
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I am a 24 year old guy, I was with my partner for a few years before we split, we then started seeing each other again, we slept together but were not in a proper relationship, she fell pregnant and I took it as I was the father ( didnt want to think about someone else possibly being the father). we then got back together,i was there for the birth and have raised the child with her..a few weeks ago we split up and now she is claiming the child is not mine, ive ALWAYS had a niggling doubt he may not be mine, but ive never wanted to admit it..now im trying to get access to see the child and she is refusing, this makes me wonder is it worth my time going for a DNA test? also, if I wanted the test done, how could I pay for it as im now unemployed? all help or answers would be welcomed, thanks
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doubtfulldad - 17-Jun-10 13:42
'M' wrote:
"I had my son, who is now 5 at the age of 17. I did not get pregnant to get a council house or to be a benefit scrounger. In fact, I completed my A levels while I was pregnant and in my final year of my degree ".
Let me try to understand this. You claim to have taken your A levels when you were 16 and then completed a degree at 17?
Do you expect us to believe that you commenced studying for a degree when you were 14 and then started A levels a year later, and whilst undertaking these incredible academic achievements you also found time to become pregnant (and presumably go on to give birth in the midst of all your examinations)?
"I had my son, who is now 5 at the age of 17. I did not get pregnant to get a council house or to be a benefit scrounger. In fact, I completed my A levels while I was pregnant and in my final year of my degree ".
Let me try to understand this. You claim to have taken your A levels when you were 16 and then completed a degree at 17?
Do you expect us to believe that you commenced studying for a degree when you were 14 and then started A levels a year later, and whilst undertaking these incredible academic achievements you also found time to become pregnant (and presumably go on to give birth in the midst of all your examinations)?
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If she wants the test done, doesn't she have to pay for it? I knew a 17yo who got pregnant, wasn't sure who the dad was! but she would have had to pay for their dna tests to be done.
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Northerngirlxx - 13-May-10 10:47
There is a novel way to stop the high rate of teenage pregnancy. Teenagers are known for carrying knives and stabbing each other, so if they stab a few pregnant mothers instead then teenage pregnancy and all that "I'll have a kid to get a council house" nonsense will soon disappear.
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