Teenage girls that get pregnant

well it partly his fault too he shouldn't have done that I mean no one deserve to have a relationship destroyed but if you look past the bad things and try to look foward to the good things. And never stop doing the little things for each other you should be fine.

M, was there really any need for the temper tantrum ?
Everyone is entitled to have an opinion, and most are based on self experiences. She did not aim her post at you, and the only reason I can see that you took it personal, is that you have a chip on your shoulder, and she hit a raw nerve.

It doesnt sound like your sick and tired at all of hearing about teenage girls 'pointing the finger', sounds like your jealous that your boyfriend is the father to some other child.

I never post any comments but somehow came across this website and spotted your comment. How dare ya u cheeky b*tch!

I had my son, who is now 5 at the age of 17. I did not get pregnant to get a council house or to be a benefit scrounger. In fact, I completed my A levels while I was pregnant and in my final year of my degree so dont dare post comments like that when clearly you dont have a clue what yer on about.

Just remember, it happens to the best of us! you have a child that has to grow up and how do you know that he wont become a teenage dad.

ANYONE ELSE SICK OF PEOPLE JUDGING TEENAGE MOTHERS!

GET A GRIP OF YOURSELF AND DONT BE SO JEALOUS. SILLY WOMEN!!!!!!!!!!

Youngmum, its not a mans world, just mother earth wanted to see what plums men make of themselves. And let's give them the grace, they showed her to be right.

Now,... where did I leave that useless tit?

I got pregnant at 17(not a one night stand I must stress I was in a relashionship) have worked since I was 14 only took 9months maternity and always worked since, not every young mum is a "leech on society", though there is some we arent all the same. and what if your boyfriend did have this one night stand? HE should be responsible for wearing a condom as much as the girl! This isnt all thanks to a stupid girl, this is also thanks to your stupid boyfriend? now be fair? If he is the father she did lie down an have sex with herself did she? Though something doesnt quiet add up when she is putting the DNA test off - possibly she is pointing the finger? but why should the girl get constantly get abused nd brought down when a guy can get off scot free? She could have done a damn good job bringing this child up with no help at all. I had a friend in this situation and it does take a while for CSA to catch up with the fathers especially when you dont know much about them?? I just thought I would express another side of this story no disrespect but no wonder its a mans world eh?

T.S.A.O.W;
How old are you ?
You strike me as being your shoe size, size 6 in a very bad fit, as your brain seems to be compressed.
Males with attitudes like you, are like siberia...Every women knows where you are, but they don't want to go there.

Teenage girls aged betwen 14 to 21 are raving sex maniacs who will sleep with anyone for the thrill. I know 'cos I've laid them all.

Babies are far from their minds. All they are interested in is large penises.

22 to 30 they are beginning to wonder if they are going to be left on the shelf. Are they an olde maide? They will wed anyone to avoid the shame.

31 to 45 all they want is babies.

55 to 70 all they want to be is grandmas.

Between 45 to 65 a lot are seeking divorces.

Lozzie, I have every respect for you. I hope your partner has learned that whatever we choose to do has consequences and that he appreciates your responsible attitude and loyalty. Good luck!

Yes you are right TTC regarding responsibility and one night stands, and I guess thats why you and I are not in the same mess she is!
As a woman I have always taken responsibilty for my own contraception and my own welfare because I was brought up to respect myself. I have never relied on men or in her case a string of complete strangers to take responsibilty for me. Thats really why I am so annoyed with her. I'm also frustrated that this woman is able to use the csa to force as many dna tests as needed in the hope she strikes gold, and thats whats bugging me more than anything, it just shouldn't be allowed. As for my partner he knows he's been stupid, naive and irresponsible and yes, big life lesson learned. Men take heed: this 'type' of woman maybe fine for a 'quick whatever', but do you really want them bearing your children. If the answer is no, you need to behave accordingly.

Lozzie - using phrases such as poor unsuspecting victims of one night stands ..... and being tested like lab rats until they come up trumps ( as in my partner's case ) simply reinforces my point of taking the consequences. No one is a poor unsuspecting victim of a one night stand, they made a choice, chose to have unprotected sex and consequently have to take the consequences....and if you dont want to be tested like a lab rat, then dont have unprotected sex. It really is that simple, and whatever phrases you choose to take away the responsibility of your partner's actions on that one night does not alter that fact. Sad, but true...and you're right, I certainly am, as a tax payer paying for the actions of irresponsible men and women who produce children without any thought of the financial burden that this will place on the hardworking responsible men and women who choose not to have one night stands but pay the price.

TTC- I'm sorry but I don't believe the CSA is there to support innocent children.
It's only about money. There are many situations whereby a man with a new wife and children have been forced into poverty by the CSA because the large majority of his income is going to an ex-spouse regardless of her financial situation. If the NRP meets a new partner and begins a new life his partner's income is also taken into account to help contribute towards HIS child/children. If the PWC ie; the mother meets a new partner then her new partner's wage is not taken into consideration, how is this a fair system and how is that supporting innocent children?
If it was about the welfare of innocent children why are CSA employee's on a bonus system ie- the more victims they can track down and extract money from the more they end up with in their pay packets. Of course this method of working is then left wide open to corruption and dishing out advice like 'well if you can't afford to feed yourself, then take a loan out or default on your mortgage' (I advise any dad to approach the Financial Services Authority if this has happened to you as they are not qualified to give financial advice). Why is it that when a man is paying child support but because his ex is on Income Support she and the child will only end up with something like £20 even if he pays £700pm? Because it's about money and corruption thats why and nothing to do with child welfare.
It appears that many women use the CSA for their own evil ends, and tracking down poor unsuspecting victims of one night stands, who have no idea they are fathers until the brown envelope comes through the door, and then systematically testing them like lab rats until they come up trumps (as in my partner's case) is just one example. In fact one in five paternity claims [19%] handled by the Child Support Agency end up showing the mother has deliberately or inadvertently misidentified the father, and who is paying for all this? WE ARE.

Whatever the results of a DNA test, why would the CSA owe either of you any sort of apology, whatever the outcome. That's how the system works, to support the child who is the innocent victim. So, if you dont want to participate in that system, always behave responsibly. It's called taking the consequences.