Teenage girls that get pregnant

A levels aren't A levels now. Degrees are not degrees. Having a degree now only says that you are probably middle class.

To get either of these awards, you only need to spell your name correctly on your exam paper. If you get that wrong, the award may go to someone else.

for someone with A levels and a degree M's grammar and spelling isn't all that top notch - sorry that's one of my pet peeves!

M, it sounds like you really have issues about your situation. SJ has a right to express how she feels. Her circumstances are just as unnerving for her as yours must have been for you!

Also, how proper IS it for a 16 year old to get pregnant? And what does it say about her parents? It says they didn't care enough to EDUCATE HER to the finer things in life - which includes: DON'T GET PREGGERS at 16 and UNMARRIED! So pipe down, M. Sorry it happened like that to you, it was probably more your parents' fault than the boy/man you were with and your hormones, but will - it is NOT a SMART thing to do - and if your parents had talked with you and EDUCATED YOU - chances are you wouldn't have made such a dumb decision.

I am a 24 year old guy, I was with my partner for a few years before we split, we then started seeing each other again, we slept together but were not in a proper relationship, she fell pregnant and I took it as I was the father ( didnt want to think about someone else possibly being the father). we then got back together,i was there for the birth and have raised the child with her..a few weeks ago we split up and now she is claiming the child is not mine, ive ALWAYS had a niggling doubt he may not be mine, but ive never wanted to admit it..now im trying to get access to see the child and she is refusing, this makes me wonder is it worth my time going for a DNA test? also, if I wanted the test done, how could I pay for it as im now unemployed? all help or answers would be welcomed, thanks

'M' wrote:

"I had my son, who is now 5 at the age of 17. I did not get pregnant to get a council house or to be a benefit scrounger. In fact, I completed my A levels while I was pregnant and in my final year of my degree ".

Let me try to understand this. You claim to have taken your A levels when you were 16 and then completed a degree at 17?

Do you expect us to believe that you commenced studying for a degree when you were 14 and then started A levels a year later, and whilst undertaking these incredible academic achievements you also found time to become pregnant (and presumably go on to give birth in the midst of all your examinations)?

If she wants the test done, doesn't she have to pay for it? I knew a 17yo who got pregnant, wasn't sure who the dad was! but she would have had to pay for their dna tests to be done.

There is a novel way to stop the high rate of teenage pregnancy. Teenagers are known for carrying knives and stabbing each other, so if they stab a few pregnant mothers instead then teenage pregnancy and all that "I'll have a kid to get a council house" nonsense will soon disappear.

well it partly his fault too he shouldn't have done that I mean no one deserve to have a relationship destroyed but if you look past the bad things and try to look foward to the good things. And never stop doing the little things for each other you should be fine.

M, was there really any need for the temper tantrum ?
Everyone is entitled to have an opinion, and most are based on self experiences. She did not aim her post at you, and the only reason I can see that you took it personal, is that you have a chip on your shoulder, and she hit a raw nerve.

It doesnt sound like your sick and tired at all of hearing about teenage girls 'pointing the finger', sounds like your jealous that your boyfriend is the father to some other child.

I never post any comments but somehow came across this website and spotted your comment. How dare ya u cheeky b*tch!

I had my son, who is now 5 at the age of 17. I did not get pregnant to get a council house or to be a benefit scrounger. In fact, I completed my A levels while I was pregnant and in my final year of my degree so dont dare post comments like that when clearly you dont have a clue what yer on about.

Just remember, it happens to the best of us! you have a child that has to grow up and how do you know that he wont become a teenage dad.

ANYONE ELSE SICK OF PEOPLE JUDGING TEENAGE MOTHERS!

GET A GRIP OF YOURSELF AND DONT BE SO JEALOUS. SILLY WOMEN!!!!!!!!!!

Youngmum, its not a mans world, just mother earth wanted to see what plums men make of themselves. And let's give them the grace, they showed her to be right.

Now,... where did I leave that useless tit?

I got pregnant at 17(not a one night stand I must stress I was in a relashionship) have worked since I was 14 only took 9months maternity and always worked since, not every young mum is a "leech on society", though there is some we arent all the same. and what if your boyfriend did have this one night stand? HE should be responsible for wearing a condom as much as the girl! This isnt all thanks to a stupid girl, this is also thanks to your stupid boyfriend? now be fair? If he is the father she did lie down an have sex with herself did she? Though something doesnt quiet add up when she is putting the DNA test off - possibly she is pointing the finger? but why should the girl get constantly get abused nd brought down when a guy can get off scot free? She could have done a damn good job bringing this child up with no help at all. I had a friend in this situation and it does take a while for CSA to catch up with the fathers especially when you dont know much about them?? I just thought I would express another side of this story no disrespect but no wonder its a mans world eh?