Our relationship changed

To the original poster: I know how it must hurt for him to say what he does and walk out. I would stop saying anything to him and I'd find a new friend who treated you with respect and cared about your feelings. You don't have to have anything other than a respectable, platonic relationship with the new friend. This can be someone who is willing to understand you and be nice to you and be on your side--someone to go out with, have lunch with, etc. This will make a world of difference in how you feel. Lots of love and luck to you and wishing you the best!

Hi. First of all, your story's too close to a lot of us. It's tough when it comes down to this but to me, the bell's definitely ringing..the bells of change that is. You have to put on your seatbelts & accept reality when it stares you in the eye. My niece & her husband, both psychiatrists, maintain that "once a cheater, always a cheater". I'm not saying your boyfriend is one, he may not be but this can be a start of sorts because he sure does manifest "the moves". You can keep trying (& waste time), but in my opinion, girl, love yourself little more & just move on. There are better ones out there. The hurt is just temporary. Good Luck!

oh my...this sounds exactly like what I have been enduring for the past 2 years. our relationship was exactly the same, we were so close, we did everything together, he confided in only me, he would turn his friends down for me...we were just an insanely inlove couple for years...then things changed. a couple years a go I got really sick...i think I started noticing how unsopportive he was then and noticed that everything was cool as long as I was the one compremising. well that seems to be the go now a days. for many months leading up to a couple of months ago I tried talking to him, I wrote him letters and asked him straight out what was going on...but to no avail. all I coped was a mouthful of inconsiderate verbal abuse. he would turn things arounf to make it all about me, make it like I was the one with the problem, not him. I kept persisting ...when I finally asked why we hardly ever had sex anymore... ..basically...i ended up coping more insults, verbal abuse, name calling, finger pointing...all to take the attention of of him. I eventually found out he was up to no good... he was cheating on me... and now 5 months later I am still getting his temper and disrespect. I truly believe he has fallen out of love with me, I have tried really hard to fix things, but it seems like a one way street., with me doing all the work and him running away.. and yes I get the same comment "oh no, not the S**t again". very nasty and hurful as I am usually crying and hurt about his actions. he just has no care in the world for me now...and that is why I am now leaving him. a man is meant to be there for his women, respect her, protect her, desire only her, confide in her and talk to her... if any man is not valuing his relationship by talking things through, then in turn he does not respect his women!

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You're NOT HAPPY!
You have tried talking to him and he walks away.
That's a clear sign that he's not emotionally invested in the relationship.
When someone loves you they want to know what they can do to make you happy.
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