Men have no right to reproductive choice
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Would be parents should have equal rights.  If a woman becomes pregnant, she has a right to abortion.  The man has no equivalent right.  If the woman decides to have an abortion, the man cannot stop her.  If the woman decides she wants to be a parent and then keeps the baby, he also cannot stop her.

I agree that a woman has the right to abortion. However, if this is correct, a man should have the right to opt out of fatherhood.

Life size model of baby at 8 weeks after conception

Even if the man has been deceived by a woman telling him she is unable to have children or is using contraception or if she leaves him and takes a new partner, he is still forced to shoulder financial responsibility for that child.

This is the case whether or not he is allowed access - and even when he has not been told that he is the father for a number of years.

Neither are the rights of men who do wish to have involvement with their children upheld.  Women are allowed to withhold access rights while still taking child support payments from the man, and the fact that it may be the woman who has opted out of the relationship is not taken into account.

I have set up a site www.didnthaveachoice.com to offer support to men who are being denied reproductive rights by this country's unfair laws.  We welcome members who want to see true equal rights in this difficult matter.  If you want to see true equality and a better, fairer system for men, women, children and the taxpayer, please join and give us your support.

By: Morgaine


Other Related Resources

Parents4Protest Wales/Cymru
Truth and Justice in Family Law.  Parents protest group P4p are campaigning for parents rights in the UK family court.

The National Association for Child Support Action
When the CSA get it wrong, NACSA are there to put it right.  Are you a Parent finding it difficult to get the CSA to listen, and are you looking for a straightforward answer, but can never get it?



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Thanks a lot Tim for writing that.

Men DO have a choice.

We need more men like you in the world :)
*Florida Girl  14-Apr-2010 16:52

 
Me

So, your usual sexual partners are "old skanks". What wonderful tast you have in women - I suppose it's the best you can do?


Do us all a favour ,use a condom and remove yourself from the gene pool.
*anon  13-Apr-2010 17:58

 
I always had the view if some old skank ever tried to trick me - by lying - in to becoming a parent - and the skank refused to have an abortion, I would have the skank aborted.
*Me  13-Apr-2010 17:20

 
Gainsborough Lad, I'm genuinely sorry if your wife cheated on you, but I don't understand how that relates to men having no choice in the matter of reproduction..?
*Tim  12-Apr-2010 20:11

 
Tim, what about the ridiculous boys, who like me unwittingly married a woman who couldn't give a tinker's cuss about infidelity?

Could you go out there and tell the newly wed men who these adulteress women are? or is this privilege only reserved for the corrupt?
*Gainsborough lad.  10-Apr-2010 08:12

 
I have three words for all of you ridiculous men, sorry, boys who claim you did not have a choice in this matter:

Wear.. a.. condom.

It is as simple as that I'm afraid, and no amount of 'griping' is going to change that.
*Tim  10-Apr-2010 01:26

 
Or how about this:

www.trap17.com/.../men-don39t-pay-child-support_t34435.html-

No one wants to commit? Typical. Well if you guys aren't gonna respond then don't call me a sexist and what not because I present the facts.
*Florida Girl  27-Jan-2010 18:42

 
I apologize. The link didn't go through. But don't worry though I'll post more.

Until then don't wait for me, google it, its called....."male abortion".
*florida Girl  13-Jan-2010 23:59

 
Well Mike I don't think staying away is a good idea cause if I never have stumbled across this website I wouldn't have met people like you and GL who claim, because I have facts, that Im a sexist.

Who claim I want to argue all the time, exc.

To answer all your questions GL......NO. Except for the first one.


Anyways why don't I post it again and watch how you ignorantly ignore them and then call me a sexist:

battlinbog.blog-city.com/at_male_matters_proposing__a_male_abortion_right.htm

If you guys aren't gonna comment on my links then don't comment at all
*Florida Girl  13-Jan-2010 23:58

 
Floridagirl, you have been away?

Did you find another website to argue with men?

Or did you find a bloke? Did the pair of you end up arguing?

Are you hoping to argue again on here?

Is it me you want to argue with?

I work mornings & afternoons, this week afternoons, next week mornings, and so on throughout the year, mark up your diary, and when you need to argue, you know when I will be at home, or just advertise on here that you want to argue womans issues on here, (with men).
*Gainsborough lad.  08-Jan-2010 10:24

 
Don't be sorry, stay away!

There is no point entering into a futile argument with a blinkered fanatic.
*MikeP  08-Jan-2010 09:41

 
Sorry I haven't been here in a while so you guys may have responded to my post that I can't see. Anyways Im back. Care to argue that men aren't as bad as women. Care to give me dumb opinions? Care to look at statistics that prove me wrong? How about it MikeP? GL?
*Florida Girl  08-Jan-2010 02:40


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