Lazy friends become a liability
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Having been through a tough time, I know what it is like to struggle on low income.  However I have always endeavoured to keep in touch with my friends as I advance my own career.

An old friend began seeing a woman who already had children, and he moved into one of the housing association properties with her.  At first, it was nice to keep in touch but as I made progress in my career, the friendship changed and was not as it used to be.

This woman is a depressed and worried nanny, smoking excessively because beggars usually require nicotine!  His personality changed and they both began to sponge off me big time.

When I was down and they were low on shopping I contributed as expected.  I also loaned them some more cash on top, just to help out as a friend.  They were having financial problems so naturally I was sympathetic to them.  Well I was at first anyway!

I noticed over the visits I made they would offer to pay a little bit back, only to ask to borrow even more a day or two later.  I felt that things were getting out of hand so I refused to lend them any more money.

They still tried their best to get money out of me though!

Sponging money from other people, benefit spongers

Apparently the woman’s daughter received a demand for unpaid council tax that accrued when she was staying with her former boyfriend, and during that time the residence was in his name.  The amount was several hundred pounds and I told her that she was not liable for this.  I even offered to go down the council to sort this out for her, or write a letter explaining the situation so that she would not have to pay what she did not owe.

Of course this wasn’t the way the wanted me help was it; it was just a pack of lies.

Social Security stopped payments to them, because of a neighbour misleading them apparently.  I offered to go down to the office to help sort it out.  Again, this wasn’t exactly what they wanted either; it was just another pack of lies to try and extract money from me.

They were beginning to see that their excuses had backfired on them and that they weren’t going to get any more cash.  This is where the friendship went downhill.  They really only wanted me for my money and when I didn’t play ball, that’s when the truth would come out.

Our friendship finally deteriorated irreparably when they tried to sabotage my reputation through a string of false allegations.  It transpires that this was all a plot so that they didn’t have to see and could therefore avoid paying me back what was owed.

I am no longer welcome their house anymore - persona non-gratis!

This friend whom I have known for over twenty years, had never behaved like this to me before.   All this happened after he moved in with this trashy council estate scum of a woman.

Beggars will go to whatever length they can to gain at your expense.   These spongers on benefit who haven’t got the capability to earn a living are out to bring down others.  So sorry spongers, you only deserve the minimum!

By: Bridgend Barry


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At the moment, I'm working all work on a low hourly rate and am looking for somewhere to live. Time and time again, I see properties advertised "DSS welcome" and the weekly rent is quite high. I certainly couldn't afford it and I'm working. How is it that these lazy, scrounging, idle, good-for-nothings can take on rents that working people couldn't manage to pay? Why doesn't the Government stop this? Just set an 80 pound a week limit for rent and stick to it. Once they find, they can't afford anything decent, they might just think about getting a job.
*Thoroughly disillusioned with UK  29-Aug-2010 11:32

 
I have no gripe with the elderly, the disabled or the students in college, but what I do hate are lazy slobs who just take state hand outs and stick two fingers up at the hard working tax payer who spends 50 hours a week at work to earn their crust. I have never signed on, and wouldn't ever do it, I believe that you should earn ya money. I have a disabled brother who has never walked a day in his life and even he has a full time job in morrisons, so if he can do it why cant these lazy scum bags. lots of women round my way are getting pregnent on purpose to to get a council flat and money, in most cases catching a bloke out and claiming csa ruining his life at the same time. stop benifits for this to. if they have a baby, they should deal with it, why should us workers pay for all these lazy people. im moving out of the uk. you have no rights if you are a working class honest person in todays modern "multi" cultured united kingdom. the goverment need to sort this now before it gets any worse, my dad (rip) worked for 40 odd years, payed in to the system and in the end it turned its back on him, clegg, camron get your backsides in gear, now this country is a world wide laughing stock and you need to fix it.
*essexeds  28-Aug-2010 21:29

 
Mr Badback. It's unfortunate that you have not done the course on how to get as much money as you can. It's an exclusive club. You see the number one rule that you are breaking is 'You are a decent person' See the system doesnt like that.So here is the course instructions part one.
Get a can of strong lager and go to the benefit office. Shout and swear that they are abusing your civil liberties. Bang on the counter and light a fag up. Oh and make sure you have a Rottweiller tied up outside with a piece of string. A tattooed girlfriend and 7 kids. Finish off by urinating on the counter...and you should get some money. However I think you will fail the course my friend because you are a hard worker and thouroughly decent chap who has to work hard to pay for the lazy. I am so sorry.
*The Undertaker  25-Aug-2010 22:31

 
I have a severe curvature of the spine(68 degree to be exact) I still work full time and suffer from lower back pain all the time. I have been to see half a dozen spinal surgeons to see if they can straighten my back but they have all said no to an operation because the risk of being paralysed is very high over 90% chance and even if the operation was a success my body would be restricted in what it could do, I could not bend or lift etc. But I' am not entitled to a single penny in benefits because I can still use my hands even if I had the operation I still would not be entitled to anything. I asked one of the spinal surgeons a question what happens when I can't work because of the pain because my employer will say that i'm not up to the job?, he said" well go and work in Sainsburys stacking shelves you will still be able to use your hands". A lot of buisness will not employ anyone nowadays with bad backs. I'm lucky that my previous employer has not shown me the door and told me not to come back. But that day will come when they see that i'm a liability and can not do my job any more I have already been picke on by management for not pulling my weight. So what happens when they say your fired then god only knows. There must be other people out there in the same boat as me.
*Mr Badback  23-Aug-2010 19:45

 
troutmouth,

I am not sure why you are saying that if you don't send the post now you never will. Are you saying you are upset by what people say or that you are embarrassed by your situation?

You are not someone who intended to get pregnant so that you would not have to work; you had a partner and a job and this is not something that you thought would happen to you. The benefits system was never intended to be a long term way to live , except for people with severe disabilities, and your situation is what it was meant for - a temporary safety net.

When your child starts school you intend to get some experience and maybe training and then get back into the labour market so hold your head up and ignore what people say because you know who you are and that you are doing your best to lead a decent life.
*Incognito  16-Aug-2010 22:15

 
Hi troutmouth, Unfortunately you are missing the point and I have never 'got' why the decent people who have paid into the system and deserve help 'bite' You have 'contributed' and are still willing to do so. It's the lazy dross that have never contributed and abuse the system that gets peoples backs up. Don't you see, if we could flush these parasites out then maybe you could get more money to help you. Surely you can see that????
*Undertaker  16-Aug-2010 22:07

 
Can I please put my point across as a "sponger", I have worked since I left school at 16 and worked until I had my son at 20, I went back to work when my son was 3. I carried on working until my partner of 5 years found out I was pregnant and decided he didnt want to be a daddy leaving me in the unenviabile position of having to claim income support I, I dont have a wide screen telly or leather furniture and a staffordshire bull terrier most of the things ihave are from family, charity shops, or car boot sales, I cannot understand how these people can boast about be on the social I am the first person in my family to have ever claimed any benefit and I absolutely hate it as soon as my little girl is in school I will be back at work even its only voluntary for a litle while so please do not wrte us all off "spongers" I am sorry about the punctuation but if I dont send this now I never will.
*troutmouth  16-Aug-2010 21:44

 
Obviously not Tom. At least not until the lazy get the message that we can't support them anymore...then it will be over.
*Undertaker  15-Aug-2010 00:45

 
Is this boring gripe site still around? I would have thought that everything that needed to be sais has been said.
*Tom  10-Aug-2010 19:51

 
The benefit system is there to help the ones who cant help themselves, not to support the ones who wont help themselves. How many of us know people claiming one parent allowances, but have a live in partner, iam sure its everybody. Ive got relatives who do it and think nothing of letting us tax payers keep them, lets hope this new goverment finds a way to sort this problem.
*Concerned  20-Jul-2010 21:44

 
I am npt sticking to fingers up at anybody but I am a mental health patient I do feel guilty about claimg income support I know it is tax payers money but I am on depo injections.
*sarah  01-Jul-2010 03:34

 
you work hard ,pay your taxes ,you try to enjoy a few luxuries in life through your hard earned money ,then these urchins or street rats from the scummy council estates f**k it up for you , these urchins are a product of a broken britain something that succesve governments have failed to address and you know what ,the majority of this scum are english born and bred , we complain about foriegners coming here to take our jobs but the truth is the english dont want to work they prefer claiming benefits thats why this country is broken !!! Trashy english tossers
*lil chris  30-May-2010 07:08


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