Screaming kids at the restaurant
15-March-2010
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I can understand new parents not knowing what to do in certain situations, but when we are trying to have a family meal in a restaurant to celebrate someone's birthday, why does there always have to be a screaming brat who doesn’t like vegetables?  And more to the point, why are they always sitting at the table right next to me?  You can’t hold a civilised conversation with this racket going on next to you.  As for the eating habits of some of them, meal times at home must be something akin to feeding time at the zoo!

Those super nanny type people on TV say that you should ignore them, let them play the tantrum out.  Well that is all well and good at home, but I am paying for a meal in a nice restaurant which is being spoilt by a woman who wasn’t clever enough to use contraception.

Why do people take kids to fancy restaurants when clearly they have no egg and chips?  These places serve quality food and it’s meant to be enjoyed in a pleasant and relaxed atmosphere.  The McDonald’s burger joint is just down the road love; go there because you won’t even have trouble getting the little brat out of the car seat into a highchair.  Your little ‘cherub’ can scream their lungs out there if they like along with all the other little monsters!

I ask the question why?  If you want a night out at a fancy restaurant, do us all a favour and for goodness sake hire a baby sitter!

A toddler, stock image - not actually the brat from the restaurant!

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I've had enough of squeamish screeching 9-year-olds gallivanting themselves across McDonald's, gargling an upchuck of french fries. Fine. It's supposed to be a fun place. I could care less if my ears bleed. I chose to eat here and I'll suck it up, however this anarchy takes place at luxurious and well-paid-for restaurants! LIKE I"VE SAID, I"VE HAD IT!!

Not everything you wrote, I agree upon, though. Are you completely antagonistic towards children? Your contraception quote is a beckoning for psychiatric therapy, not a gripe.
"...a woman who wasn't clever enough to use contraception."
This description, perhaps, fits your mother who very well may have misplaced HER contraceptive. Mind you, when I have sex with my married wife, I mean it.
*Very, very, very...bothered  13-Feb-2010 02:12

 
Everyone has rights. when my rights or anyone elses, are infringed on, by an ignorant parent with toddlers, or brats, then it is not right. Kids can,t drink in bars, I don,t want someone screaming next to me at the theatre, and I certainly don,t want to spend 100 dollars on a fine bottle of wine and 100 dollars on a meal , only to have to choke it down , because of unruly children. I have two children. So what!! They stay home when I go out. I wouldn,t waste money taking them to the opera, and won,t annoy other patrons with my kids. People just don,t get it! your kids are not that cute, that I need to see them run around and cutting up at a restaurant. People get this obnoxious idea in their head that EVERYONE thinks their kid is cute! Do everyone a favor, If you can,t afford a babysitter, you definately can,t afford the dinner ! And it is NOT anyones right to aggrivate someone else at THEIR expense!!!!!
*Rick  12-Feb-2010 16:20

 
oh for goodness sake people¬!!!!!!! YOU were all kids once! get a grip! you should be allowed to take your kids wherever you damn well please. why should parents take their kids to macdonalds, only then to get slated by you same people for feeding them rubbish??? if parents want to take their kids to nice foody places to feed them nice healthy food. even the most well behaved kids misbehave sometimes. they dont understand as well as adults, and suggesting that parents should 'beat their kids' is disgusting. you should be ashamed of yourselves. all the toffs have started inventing stupid hotels in the uk where you can take your self off to a kid free hotel so why dont you bog off there, the lot of you!
*Angry at you  27-Jan-2010 21:28

 
Lets teach children whos in charge! so safron , melody,chardonnay,gemma,tarquin,& all you middle class little s****s,take you & mummy back to your audi ,mini cooper ,go home,& leave decent people alone..
*bring back the birch  29-Dec-2009 21:58

 
My Parents used to beat me till I cried, then beat me till I stopped it never did me any harm
*Tony Gordon from Coronation Street  21-Nov-2009 21:15

 
It always seems to be the children of middle class professionals whose children are the worst behaved in restaurants.
They always seem to have names like 'Inigo' and 'Saffron' and are totally indulged by their parents who seem oblivious to the chaos their offspring are inflicting.
*Howsoonisnow?  07-Nov-2009 23:29

 
Give the screaming little brats a taste of good old fashioned discipline.Hit them hard where it really hurts.They will think twice about misbehaving next time in a restaurant.
*grumpyoldgit  03-Nov-2009 23:35

 
Leave your undisciplined monsters at home!! We do not go out to dine and pay expensive restaurant prices to listen to your unruly brats!! Stay home or hire baby sitter. Nothing worse than screaming, yelling, running around brats.
*Lilith  01-Nov-2009 02:54

 
Supernanny never advocated ignoring misbehavior in a restaurant. She'd suggest taking them home!

In New york City, most restaurants have a "zero tolerance" policy on unruly children. They will ask you to leave. Some restaurants will warn you of this policy if you enter with kids.

But it's your responsibility to speak up.
*Ben  15-Sep-2009 08:26

 
Re-"notsogrumpy".At last,someone who talks a lot of sense.One must draw a fine parallel between the stupid idiotic namby pamby politically correct nanny type do gooders who are in favour of the rights of the child and beating the living daylights out of them like they did not so long ago.Let them have their tantrum,then take them outside and give them a dose of good old fashioned discipline.These brats need to learn how to behave.
*Sarah  05-Sep-2009 23:28

 
"Those super nanny type people on TV say that you should ignore them, let them play the tantrum out. Well that is all well and good at home, but I am paying for a meal in a nice restaurant which is being spoilt by a woman who wasn’t clever enough to use contraception."

Actually they don't say this. In a restaurant children should be given one warning and if the behaviour continues taken outside. Either let the behaviour die down there or take the child home. And yes that means end of dinner for the parents too.
*notsogrumpy  05-Sep-2009 15:54

 
I saw a woman beating the crap out of an unruly toddler in Tescos the other day.At last someone who is prepared to make a stand.What is needed is a good dose of old fashioned discipline.It did me no harm as a boy back in the thirties.I still have the scars to prove it.And I have respected my parents for it ever since.
*Old Fart  10-Aug-2009 23:26


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