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Why do women want to loose weight all the time?

Why do people, particularly women get so obsessive about dieting and want to lose weight all the time, particularly when as far as I can see they don't need to?  They’re always at it, counting the calories and trying a new diet when the old one doesn’t seem to work.

Women trying to lose weight

If you flip through any magazine aimed at women, which isn’t something I do regularly by the way; on practically every other page you have stuff like, slimming pills, fantastic claims about how to lose weight fast, new low calorie this, low fat the other.  It’s enough to make you feel overweight just looking at it all!  No wonder women are always starting a new diet tomorrow. Is it the male population that is to blame for all this, or is it the super slim models that they see on the pages advertising the diet?

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The people that come up with all these diets must be raking in an absolute fortune and all because women, and perhaps some men feel a bit insecure and think they are overweight.  Yes it’s true, some people are overweight but I’m willing to bet that a fair number of the people who regularly do the weight watchers and Atkins thing are probably not excessively overweight.  They might be a bit curvy in places, but there’s nothing wrong with a full figure as long as you eat healthily and take regular exercise.

Who says that men like stick insects anyway?  Lose weight if you really must, but when I see these skinny models in the magazines - the only thing I want to do to them feed them up a bit!  We like you the way you are and you look fine, really, honestly.  Otherwise we would say something like “stop eating those damn chocolates because you’re getting fat”; you don’t have to look like a supermodel because that isn’t exactly normal anyway!

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Why is it that a very nice gentleman has posted a lovely compliment to us ladies yet all the replies are giving us 'weight loss' solutions? Talk about missing the point! Ill be the first to say thankyou for this gripe.

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Chunks - 22-Apr-11 22:45 

Try to cut down your portion sizes, I lost nearly 2stone using The Portion Plate
Molly

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Mollu - 29-Mar-11 16:51 

Apologies....spelling error made me re-post this:

Skinny models in magazines are not skinny but airbrushed. Wake up people!

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skinny minny - 18-Nov-10 23:30 

Skinny models in magazines are not skinny by airbrushed. Wake up people!

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skinny minny - 18-Nov-10 23:29 

Some men can be pretty obsessive with loosiong weight not just us women ;D

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Big Mac Meal - 9-Nov-10 10:20 

The worst thing you can do is go on a diet you just need to eat healthy food and move a lot more ,If you eat diet foods as soon as you stop you put more weight on.Don't read the adverts although the Sugar Solution book is really good my sister went down 4 dress sizes 2 years ago and she still looks great.

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Gian - 12-Dec-09 22:07 

As soon as you tell yourself you are on a diet you think all the time of food ,just eat healthily ,and it has been found that sugar is bad for you but substitute sugars cause brain tumors in rats and mice and also make you crave sweet things ,try reading the sugar solution book itmakes you think about what you are eating !

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gix - 5-Nov-09 22:56 

rofl obese people need to stop eating, they dont even realise.

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cuzzy bro - 23-Oct-09 10:29 

This is blatantly an advert; this is not supposed to be allowed on this site!

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grumpyoldwoman - 23-Sep-09 18:20 

NO-ONE WILL LOSE WEIGHT UNLESS THEY WANT TO! Stop dieting; keep track of everything that you eat each day. Secret information will help you to get the body that you want. Each day keep your body properly hydrated with plain water and definitely limit your sodium intake. Keep mindless grazing to a minimum. Remember; eat to live, don’t live to eat! A daily regimen is needed by everyone and that regimen includes proper nourishment. Diets and diet aids do not help anyone! The only way to successfully lose weight and get the body that you deserve is by using secret information. This information is in the book Lose Weight Using Four Easy Steps which can be ordered through the website www.bbotw.com Everyone who has gotten a copy of these secrets has lost weight and become healthier.

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Todd29 - 23-Sep-09 18:03 

Feminists are idiots and crybabies! Just be glad you have men to look after you! LOL

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Mich - 9-Aug-09 08:11 

Blame the diet companies for this. Also,woman bring it upon themselves as many women I have known will get married and totally let themselves go and put on 20 lbs or more! Take resposibilty for your own actions and don't allow yourselves to get out of control with your weight!

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Mike - 9-Aug-09 08:03 

"Why do people, particularly women get so obsessive about dieting and want to lose weight all the time, particularly when as far as I can see they don't need to?"

Because we live in a patriarchy.

When was the last time you saw a billboard featuring a woman will cellulite?

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Feminist - 6-Aug-09 19:48 

typical that 'women losing weight should be compulsory especially up north cos they also need to sort out their ugly mugs there is not enough fit birds in this country'

Simon xmas- typical that you would be a man who says this! It's because of men with views like you that you get women and young girls killing theirselves with anorexia and bulimia and the rest all turn homosexual. You want to grow up you pathetic excuse for a man..... fact is that obesity isn't just a female problem and it's definitely not set out by which end of the country you live in.......as for your views on girls in the north, tell you what you wouldn't last ten minutes with a girl from Manchester because you would have your head pulled off by now!

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Nic x - 15-Jul-09 12:32 

Obese? Forget dieting. Just eat less & excercise more, problem solved.

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A Realist - 30-Jun-09 15:48 

If one has an inderactive thyroid they are usually placed on thyroxine which means the hormone will still work in the body and there is no excuse for being obese.
There are actually very few medical conditions that cause obesity

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ffff - 31-May-09 15:35 

I've known, worked with and treated people that eat little amounts of healthy food, be obese all because of an underactive thyroid. Medical conditions are usually the case for a lot of obese people.

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chris. - 1-Sep-08 02:34 

Another thing that almost everyone seems to forget is that sometimes the cause of being overweight ISN'T eating too much.
Personally I'm sick of people saying "oh he/she is fat because he/she eats too much". With some people this is NOT the case, as weight can be put on due to side-affects of certain medications. People with completely balanced diets, getting the right amount of exercise, can still be overweight if they have to take certain types of medicine for different medical conditions, not even necessarily to do with the stomach or digestive system at all. I'm not saying that a lack of controlled diet isn't the main reason for obesity and eating disorders etc., but people do need to learn more about health conditions and medical side-effects before pre-judging others.

Also, saying that most men don't go for 'stick insects' is complete rubbish. I admit that I am a tad overweight (I am trying to correct this though, with plenty of martial arts, walking and swimming), and I am very lucky to have someone who loves me for who I am, and never stops telling me I'm beautiful, even when I feel the worst about myself. But plenty of women (and men) I know and see around me attract a lot more of the opposite (or same) sex due to their figures, not their personality. In fact, most couples around me seem to argue because they show their personalities, and it's very upsetting.

I agree that the media does have plenty of influence on how women see themselves physically, but we cannot blame the media for our insecurities, as much as we really want to. The media is a kind of aid to show women just how insecure they are about their bodies, despite not showing it to others around them. This way more women can seek advice from friends, family and/or even professionals about how to accept or combat these feelings.

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Imuzan - 21-Feb-08 12:40 

I think I agree with you, all comments on here are good and relevant - eating healthy and exercise regularly. But it really needs to start with your attitude and your mind set. Too many people make uneducated guesses about the numbers on the scales and blow it all out of proportion with their insecurities. FACT: eating unhealthily and not exercising kills your self esteem, makes you feel lathargic and demotivated. If you're not getting the right nutrients whether its because you're over eating junk food or missing out on essential vitamins and minerals you're not gonna feel good about yourself so you're goin to constantly feel like starting a new diet because losing weight is whats gonna make you feel better.
Honestly, theres so much info out there on what you can do to improve your energy levels, skin condition even your sleeping routine just by getting the basic necessities.
And for goodness sake be patient. Give your body a chance to recover from the damage of an unhealthy lifestyle, once the good nutrients kick starts your body you'll realise its not about the size of you that matters, its your general feeling of well being. Your weight should drop (or gain if thats what you need) to your optimum level as a symptom of a healthy lifestyle. Wouldn't you rather be all round healthy with a inner good feeling than starving constantly because of what scales or the lastest mag fab says?

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jennit123 - 20-Feb-08 11:56 

"It's a small hole in the front of your head called a mouth. If you control this you control your weight"

LMAO!!! That's how I lost 120 pounds in a year and a half!!

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sweetmamagirl - 20-Dec-07 01:04 

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