Moving house is stressful
18-March-2010
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Uprooting and moving house has got to be one of the most stressful things you will ever do in your life.  Having just gone through the process I swear I wont be doing it again for a long time.  I must have forgotten how much hassle it was the last time!

There’s just so much to do both at the new house and the old one; add to that the weeks of preparation, sorting and packing that must come first before you actually do the deed.  It’s enough to drive you insane and wonder why you wanted to move house in the first place.  There are never enough cartons to go round and there’s quite often a tough decision about what to keep and what to bin.  Post must be redirected and meters read so that the final bills can be paid.  You have to deal with cleaning companies and get hold of a removal truck to shift your furniture, but all this is just the beginning.

Moving house is stressful, next time I'm getting a moving company!

Finally the day of the big move comes along and you spend the best part of 6 to 12 hours shifting boxes, washing machines, sofas and all the other items that go to make up your home.  Numerous problems must be overcome at the new place, plumbing and electrical not to mention deciding where everything goes.  If everything goes smoothly, which it rarely does you might get most of it done in one day with just a few extra trips the day after, and the day after.  Okay, maybe some people can do it all in one day, but I’ve never managed that yet.

Personally, next time round I think I will be using one of those relocation companies that pack up all your stuff for you, move it and then unpack it all at the other end.  That would be so much less stress than what I’ve just been through.  Moving home calls for a lot of time and money to be invested, and anything that can be done to reduce the workload must surely be worthwhile.


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Whilst the complaint about 1van1.com is not really relevant, the comment about the refuelling is useful and something I learned the hard way too. However when I took the over-filled car back to Enterprise, they voluntarily issued me with a credit note for the value of the extra fuel.

An approximate rule of thumb if you only have to replace the fuel you have used is to calculate :
miles driven / 35 x 4.5 = the number of litres used. This assumes approximately 35 mpg or 8 litres/100 km which would be close to the average for a medium sized car driven sensibly.
*MikeP  27-Mar-2009 17:46

 
I recently rented a van from 1van1.com to help me move house. When we collected the vehicle, we were told that we had to return it with the same amount of fuel. It was a digital fuel gauge, and measured 3/9 bars.

What they didn't tell us was that one has to replace the cap and turn the engine over in order for the gauge to work whilst refueling. So you're pretty much refueling completley blind unless you're told this or have a car that works in the same way.

I ended up spending £44 on fuel when really I only needed to spend £10. I'd only used 1 bar of fuel and drove just 85 miles. No sooner had I drove out of the petrol station forecourt had my fuel gauge shot up to 8/9 bars. When returning the vehicle I explained the error.

Did they care - no. Did they do anything about it - no. 1van1 are a joke.
*John Ryder  27-Mar-2009 13:08

 
Try being in the military. In the last twenty years I've moved thirteen times. We also have two, now teenage girls. The impact on them is tremendous.
*Pedder  14-Nov-2007 21:57

 
have done this 4 times in four years but have had 2 half yeras in my latest home and I am so stressed fluttering tummy etc. We haveb had survey but still no mortgage offer so dont even know if got the money yet.also as relocating this time huge upheaval but family are there so its for the best. we get 2 men and van its easy enough to pack boxes up matalan were good for them.
*noka  14-Nov-2007 19:53

 
moveminder.co.uk will find a removal man, pack your belongings, unpack the other end... you don't even need to be there, they will oversee the whole thing. You can walk out of one place and into the other without having to lift a finger. They will even do all your address change notifications.
*MoveMinder  26-Jun-2007 13:24

 
Use www.helpiammoving.com a free independent advice site on moving house. Even has advice on moving with kids and a fanstatic packing box service
*Kimmmmm  06-May-2007 19:09

 
I despise moving more than anything. I used to be in military and they made me live all over the world. I had to move more than twenty times during my career. Every time I moved I threw away more of my stuff in the spirit of becoming more a more streamlined and efficient house-mover. Now all of my worldly possessions will fit in two duffel bags. In the nomadic process I have also become quite profficient at washing and shaving in public restrooms, living out of a gym-bag, rotating the same clothes for days, and washing laundry in a bucket behing my hotel room, and finding the cheapest (if not free) meals where ever I go. Now, when I go on holiday or away for business, my packing consists of stuffing a few pairs of socks and underwear into my front-trouser pockets and a few sandwiches and pieces of dried meat in the rear. I bring a bottle of water that I refill in public fountains and I wrap an all-pourpose towel around my neck.
I have essentially become a hobo.
This deeply disturbs me.
*The Other Guy  11-Nov-2006 15:50

 
have moved house too many times, just take everything a step at a time, and prepare well in advance. Take your time unpacking, spend weeks doing it.
*karina  02-Jul-2006 23:29

 
Use a Removal company and save your sanity,let us do the worrying.....mm
*mr mover  20-Feb-2006 01:42

 
Moving house isn't exactly good for your health you know. Every time I move (which isnt often these days) I start packing like months in advance and plan it all to the last detail. Not sure about moving companies, haven't tried them.

So.. moving home - don't do it.
*house mover  02-Dec-2005 21:59

 
Moving house sucks! Finding a house was bad enough for me. I've got triple the amount than I did when I first moved in. Luckily I borrowed chris's van. A week now til I move into new place where Ive got to P**s about unpacking it all again, terrific!
*Alexorronan69  04-Oct-2005 09:49

 
Moving is the most stressful thing I have ever done and I have vowed never to do it again...
*Meatball  27-Sep-2005 12:07


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